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Daniel__
01-06-2009, 01:44 AM
What do you find attractive about a BF/GF?

=Somebody not thin but not fat, Just average.
=Somebody adventurous but sensible at the same time.
=Caring.
=Confident.
=Likes to have fun alot :P if you get my drift.
=Brown or blonde hair :lovedup:
=Gets on with my family and Friends.
=Somebody with good prospects in life.
=Somebody who is clean.
=Somebody who likes nights in aswell as nights out
=Somebody into all kinds of music, Doesnt just stick to one Genre

30stone
01-06-2009, 01:48 AM
Some one Very slim or toned and still slim.
Shorter than me.
Sence of humor.
Not and attention seeker.
Pretty in my eyes.
Confident but not cocky or mouthy.
Cute.
and quite slow as in dumb, i like that.

JohnnyBB
01-06-2009, 01:51 AM
someone cute and cudlley

somebody who wakes up with a smile

somebody who is kinda dumb so you can tell them stuff

somebody whos charming and knows how to handle themselfs after theyve had a few drinks

somebody with black or blonde hair brown or blue eyes or green!

:lovedup::lovedup:

Lauren
01-06-2009, 01:51 AM
- Hairy arms
- Chunky
- Tall
- Nice smelling fragrance
- Caring
- Lots of integrity
- Hairy legs.


LOL

Daniel__
01-06-2009, 01:53 AM
Originally posted by Lauren
- Hairy arms
- Chunky
- Tall
- Nice smelling fragrance
- Caring
- Lots of integrity
- Hairy legs.


LOL

So you like Hairy then? lol

Lauren
01-06-2009, 01:55 AM
Originally posted by Daniel__
Originally posted by Lauren
- Hairy arms
- Chunky
- Tall
- Nice smelling fragrance
- Caring
- Lots of integrity
- Hairy legs.


LOL

So you like Hairy then? lol

Yeah :laugh:

Daniel__
01-06-2009, 01:59 AM
Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by Daniel__
Originally posted by Lauren
- Hairy arms
- Chunky
- Tall
- Nice smelling fragrance
- Caring
- Lots of integrity
- Hairy legs.


LOL

So you like Hairy then? lol

Yeah :laugh:

hmm so does this float your boat? :laugh3:
http://www.fugly.com/ornot/fugly/images/upload/hairy_man_copy.jpg

:laugh3:

Lauren
01-06-2009, 02:01 AM
OHEW.


*Moderately hairy.

andyman
01-06-2009, 02:12 AM
Freak in bed.
Always up for group sex.
Lets me do her mate and mother.
Cooks great food.
Goes to the shop n stuff.
Worships the ground i walk on.

pinkmichk
01-06-2009, 07:04 AM
someone taller than me but not by too much
someone with a bit of muscle cant stand a weedy man
nice arms:hugesmile:
nice eyes (espically green)
not too hairy espically no beard or chest rug:bored:
a bit more on the rough and rugged look rather than the overly preened look
likes a laugh
kind caring and honest
is down to earth

Z
01-06-2009, 04:26 PM
Someone who can dance as well as they can make me laugh. I mean that in a "must be able to do these things well" kind of way :P.

MR.K!
01-06-2009, 04:31 PM
Looks:
Slightly smaller than me (im 6ft)
Long brown hair
Big brown eyes
Not too thin, not fat
Curvy

Personality:
Adventurous (likes to travel / go abroad on holiday)
Caring/Cuddly
Slightly bitchy but not really bitchy (basicly not a church girl. lol)
Someone who likes trying new things
Confient
Funny
Wierd in a humour way (like me)

:lovedup:

CiaraD
01-06-2009, 04:32 PM
Dark Hair
Nice eyes
funny
Not bigheaded
tallish
Kinda muscly but not popeye-ish
Kind, nice, good personality
gets on with my friends and family

=]

Barbie
01-06-2009, 04:37 PM
Taller than me
Worked out.. so they give me big hugs and i feel safe.. so protective
Funny
Respectful
Up for fun :wink:
Confident and outgoing... but not cocky or brash!
Likes me in my sweats just as much as when im dressed up

Annie
01-06-2009, 04:46 PM
Dark hair
Interesting coloured eyes
Gorgeous teeth and smile
I like bulky guys but Matt aint
Little bit of a hairy chest
Sensitive around me and only me
Someone that I can have fun with
Someone who will offer me the TV remote
Someone who appreciates everything I do
Someone who will like to spoil me
Nice big manly hands
Active person (sporty)
Someone who has same interests
Loving
Protective

Ninastar
01-06-2009, 04:51 PM
- Has hair
- Funny and good attitide
- Nice body (Muscley)
- Good looking!!!


thats it really x

LemonJam
01-06-2009, 05:19 PM
Girl
Feminine
Long hair (usually black)
Deep brown eyes
Not too pale
Great legs
Cute face
A Reasonabley well sized chest
A reasonable size widthwise.
Someone who will rest on you
Romantic
Kind
Sweet
Quite short
Intelligent
Somewhat flawed
Able to play an instrument
Great individual style

Boys
Deep brown eyes
Thin
Tanned
Brown hair
Short
Cute face
Someone who will rest on you
Romantic
Kind
Sweet
Intelligent
Somewhat flawed
Able to play an instrument
Great individual style

Probably missed loaaads haha

Sod_James
01-06-2009, 05:28 PM
gosh some of you lot are really picky, or perhapes im just easy LOL.

Iceman
01-06-2009, 05:32 PM
Nice eyes
Slim, but not too slim
shorter than me
funny
up for a laugh
kind

Christina
01-06-2009, 05:36 PM
Personality:

- Funny/Cheeky
- Mysterious
- For some reason i like a guy with authority? No idea why
- Protective but not too over the top/jelous
- Cocky but not too cocky
- Talkative

Looks:

- Pretty boys but not TOO pretty
- Dark hair/Brown [not blonde]
- Mysterious kind of eyes
- Taller than me/bigger than me [not fat wise/muscle wise]
- Tanned

bronaaaa
01-06-2009, 05:43 PM
-Brown \ black hair
-Big, watery dark brown eyes
-Tan
-Bit of stubble..on older men obv
-Taller than me
-Bigger than e, like muscles and all
-Gives lovely hugs
-Smells nice
-Clean fingernails
-Straighter teeth
-Funny
-Sensitive, so we can have deep conversations and all LOL
-Cheeky
-Nice cheeky smile
-Romantic
-Outgoing, but not too loud
-Good clothes, willing to go shopping :p
-Adventours

A techer in my school looks like that :lovedup:

elliebrew
01-06-2009, 05:49 PM
Tall
dark
nice smile
dark eyes
broad shoulders and chest
Big manly arms
deep voice
loving
caring
good sense of humour
taller than me

hannah.
06-06-2009, 10:52 PM
tall
chunky, muscley or not, just not skinny but not fat
dark hair
lightish eyes
stubble
good skin
nice teeth necessary.
wide shoulders
big hands
bit of hair on chest but not ridiculous amounts
protective but not possessive
clever enough to have a conversation with
funny
nice but not in a clingy way because that is so irritating
I love the smell of smoke on guys <3
not overly laddish
confident, I find arrogance really attractive haha
will buy me drinks
doesn't force me to eat (I eat funny, dont really do set meals)
has fit friends hahaha

HAS CAR

oh and nice cheekbones.

I seem to be really picky hahaha

hannah.
06-06-2009, 10:54 PM
OH OH OH and he must be inked <3<3

Lauren
07-06-2009, 01:23 PM
I wanna re-do this... my last one sounded like a nice-smelling gorilla.
My new and improved:

- Big hands.
- Big arms (with faint hair, slightly muscled but not bulging, maybe some veins).
- Dark short hair.
- Tall. 6ft+
- Older than me.
- Broad shoulders.
- Independent, but protective and possessive (but not clingy).
- Funny (one of the most important, actually).
- Empathetic (maybe the wrong word, but I couldn't go out with someone racist, homophobic, or someone who doesn't care about others or animals).
- Integrity.
- High sex drive.
- Caring.
- Hygienic - smells good, looks good.

There.... less like a gorilla.

Ninastar
07-06-2009, 01:25 PM
Originally posted by Ninastar
- Has hair
- Funny and good attitide
- Nice body (Muscley)
- Good looking!!!


thats it really x

Oh yeh.

Has to have nice eyes
Has to be more brave than me (Which is barley even hard)
Isnt afraid of bugs. (so they can rescue me from them hehe)

thats it really x

Enid
09-06-2009, 06:35 PM
Skinny, but slightly muscular
Must have no hair on the chest, stomach and back
All the rest of his hair on the body has to be fair
Tattooed
Nice peachy bum
Intelligent
Ambitious
Confident, but not arrogant
Adventurous
Witty
Sarcastic
Independent
Responsible
Reliable

That pretty much sums up my boyfriend. :D

Barmy-Army-2009
09-06-2009, 06:46 PM
Im a lad and the part that appealls to be first is the hair and face of a woman as they have got to keep them sleves well groomed and then a nice size - not to skinny but not fat rather skinny then fat and they have got to be able to have a laugh and look the part when out and about, so yeh my dream woman is someone like Karly or Sophie :laugh::laugh::thumbs:

30stone
09-06-2009, 07:01 PM
Originally posted by 30stone
Some one Very slim or toned and still slim.
Shorter than me.
Sence of humor.
Not and attention seeker.
Pretty in my eyes.
Confident but not cocky or mouthy.
Cute.
and quite slow as in dumb, i like that.

Quite outgoing.
Likes me car (=
Doesn't care i go to gym everyday.

Lol okay i have gone a bit off.

Slim / skinny.
short
Cute
Nice hair
Pretty

Is generally there.

Enid
09-06-2009, 07:08 PM
Why do a lot of men like slow/dumb girls?

Manipulation? :/

xorhianxo
10-06-2009, 10:49 AM
someone confident but not cocky or bigheaded
will get on with my family an friends
presentable- care about how they look but not like a proper pretty boy who takes 6 hours to get ready

up for a laugh :)

hannah.
10-06-2009, 01:20 PM
Originally posted by hannah.
tall
chunky, muscley or not, just not skinny but not fat
dark hair
lightish eyes
stubble
good skin
nice teeth necessary.
wide shoulders
big hands
bit of hair on chest but not ridiculous amounts
protective but not possessive
clever enough to have a conversation with
funny
nice but not in a clingy way because that is so irritating
I love the smell of smoke on guys <3
not overly laddish
confident, I find arrogance really attractive haha
will buy me drinks
doesn't force me to eat (I eat funny, dont really do set meals)
has fit friends hahaha

HAS CAR

oh and nice cheekbones.

I seem to be really picky hahaha

http://c2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/74/l_9092e65a82d446d2b6ef7667419f4fc5.jpg
face looks rubbish in that one, but he is my type fullstop :love::love::love::love:

30stone
10-06-2009, 01:25 PM
Hes horrible, what hes wearing, the hair, the chest hair..

Z
10-06-2009, 02:55 PM
Funny, not clingy and dark hair. Chaaars.

rayheartbliss
10-06-2009, 02:57 PM
Originally posted by hannah.
Originally posted by hannah.
tall
chunky, muscley or not, just not skinny but not fat
dark hair
lightish eyes
stubble
good skin
nice teeth necessary.
wide shoulders
big hands
bit of hair on chest but not ridiculous amounts
protective but not possessive
clever enough to have a conversation with
funny
nice but not in a clingy way because that is so irritating
I love the smell of smoke on guys <3
not overly laddish
confident, I find arrogance really attractive haha
will buy me drinks
doesn't force me to eat (I eat funny, dont really do set meals)
has fit friends hahaha

HAS CAR

oh and nice cheekbones.

I seem to be really picky hahaha

http://c2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/74/l_9092e65a82d446d2b6ef7667419f4fc5.jpg
face looks rubbish in that one, but he is my type fullstop :love::love::love::love: hes quite nice looking
but hes fashion sense honestly doesnt suit.

Jen
10-06-2009, 03:02 PM
I like general loveliness.

James. LMAO.
Someone who likes to talk to me.
Dark Hair
Taller than 5'6... :P
Funny, but not bitchy funny.
Masculine, but not a MANNN.
Feminine, but not a girl-boy.
Skinny, but not very skinny.. I like toned bodies, but really "Buff" is not my type (Ben is a special acceptance.. )
He has to enjoy reading, and accept that books are important to me.
He also has to accept that I am in love with many famous men, and if by any chance they come into my life, I will choose them over him. LOL I most likely won't If I love this guy, like LOADS.

I don't think I'm too picky.

Anniyas
11-06-2009, 10:05 PM
I like a man with long hair(my man's got long curly hair),
piercings and tattoos etc etc
And lovely eyes,
and is practical (i love the fact my man can solve any problem with a souldering iron or sticky tape - he's very resourceful)

ya get the picture lol

Fangz
11-06-2009, 10:17 PM
Independence. As soon as someone starts to cling to me, friend or partner, I find them irritating.

Tom4784
11-06-2009, 10:42 PM
A good sense of HUMOUR
General NICENESS
Good PERSONALITY
NOT Neurotic or clingy
Mutual TRUST
EASY GOING

I'd like someone who's fun to be around and who just goes with the flow really. As for looks there's no really set in stone things?

EDIT: I like Blonde or Dark hair and I like nice eyes. That's it really.

supernoodles!
11-06-2009, 10:51 PM
no muscles
no skinheads or very short hair dooos
ambition
creativity
outgoing personality
sense of humour
6ft plus (may make exceptions depending on other qualities)
can hold a conversation (trust me I know alot of boys who can`t)
decent family/background
a no smoker
a none drug user
someone who doesn`t drink tooooo much
generous (not that I want things handed to me on a plate but Im generous by nature :p)
sensitive but not a wet fart
don`t care about hair colour
don`t care about eye colour
hald decent dress sense
someone who takes pride in their appearance and their health but deffo not someone who is vain or spends more time getting ready than me
thats all I can think of right now

hannah.
12-06-2009, 01:01 AM
ben you are jealous of my love for jeffery.