social services to investigate saffia for abandoning her 7 month old child

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

they say the baby wont understand why its mother has suddenly disapeared and wont know who she is when she is reunited after maybe 4 months of fame seeking.Her defence of " it will benifit my children" does not apply, as she lives in a house bougth for her by the millionaire father of her first child and she is very well off. Seeking fame at the expense of abandoning your 7 month old baby really is disgustingly selfish and wrong.

[Smithy]

shes hardly abondend it, lots of parentds leave their chilren at a young age with every intention of returning

[-HUNTER-]

Is this true? Or are you making **** up.

[bansheewails]

Oh stop it really.

:sleep:

[14WEEKSOFTHIS]

I wouldn't worry about it I don't think she will be in the house for much longer!

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by smithy
shes hardly abondend it, lots of parentds leave their chilren at a young age with every intention of returning


really?? You mean like people who are abducted or are put in prison or what?

[Prole]

I suppose it depends how you define "abandoned". Do you think she shoved her kids into the workhouse for the summer? Or do you they've been left with family? Maybe even their father(s). I'm sure social services have more pressing concerns.

[fairymoon]

her kids are with there gran and there dads are having them at weekends her ex did not pay for a house hes not rich shes not rich do you know her nope

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by ViaVerde
I suppose it depends how you define "abandoned". Do you think she shoved her kids into the workhouse for the summer? Or do you they've been left with family? Maybe even their father(s). I'm sure social services have more pressing concerns.

The 7 month old baby will be extremely disstressed by suddenly being apart from its mother for possibly 4 months,weather or not its being looked after by other family members. Its 7 months,not 7 years old.That is a crucial age.She should be flogged in the street.

[Smithy]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
Originally posted by smithy
shes hardly abondend it, lots of parentds leave their chilren at a young age with every intention of returning


really?? You mean like people who are abducted or are put in prison or what?

some people have to leave to work abroad to provide for thier children, i know thats not what shes doing but she hasnt abondened it

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by fairymoon
her kids are with there gran and there dads are having them at weekends her ex did not pay for a house hes not rich shes not rich do you know her nope


erm, actually, the father of her first child is a millionaire,and yes he did buy her a house.I wonder who her next victim will be?

[Fangz]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
Originally posted by smithy
shes hardly abondend it, lots of parentds leave their chilren at a young age with every intention of returning


really?? You mean like people who are abducted or are put in prison or what?
People who are finding it hard to cope and voluntarily place their children in care while they get help sorting themselves out, parents who are in the military, people who work abroad.

[Sticks]

Nothing on Google News

So put up the link or withdraw

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by Fangz
Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
Originally posted by smithy
shes hardly abondend it, lots of parentds leave their chilren at a young age with every intention of returning


really?? You mean like people who are abducted or are put in prison or what?
People who are finding it hard to cope and voluntarily place their children in care while they get help sorting themselves out, parents who are in the military, people who work abroad.

people who cant cope are doing it cos they dont have much choice then. And if a woman is in the military she should not have a child unless she is prepared to be there for it!

[fairymoon]

her ex as no money hes not a millonaire shes got no money

[Prole]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
[ The 7 month old baby will be extremely disstressed by suddenly being apart from its mother for possibly 4 months,weather or not its being looked after by other family members. Its 7 months,not 7 years old.That is a crucial age.She should be flogged in the street.

So, I'm assuming you also think that all absent fathers should be flogged in the street? And obviously anyone currently serving abroad in the forces should be sent home immediately. Saffia's not my favourite by a long chalk, and it's not a choice many people would have made but I think you're overreacting.

[bansheewails]

Leave the woman alone. If it was a man who had left his children to go in the house there wouldn't be a word about it.

I am fed up with double standards.

:mad::mad:

[Fangz]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
people who cant cope are doing it cos they dont have much choice then. And if a woman is in the military she should not have a child unless she is prepared to be there for it!
What about the men in the military then?

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by fairymoon
her ex as no money hes not a millonaire shes got no money


lol, maybe you're referring to the father of child number two little girl. Father of child number one is a very wealthy business man who brought her a house when she had the baby....a very nice place it is too. And he gives her plenty of money for the child,being a millionaire and all, she wants for nothing, she is very well off.

[fairymoon]

no her first child dad left her with nothing shes not got money

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by Fangz
Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
people who cant cope are doing it cos they dont have much choice then. And if a woman is in the military she should not have a child unless she is prepared to be there for it!
What about the men in the military then?


A mother has a different bond with a child than a father does, and im a father too. We're not talking about equality at the workplace here!

[fairymoon]

leave her alone you dont know her, shes a great person

[Fangz]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
A mother has a different bond with a child than a father does, and im a father too. We're not talking about equality at the workplace here!
Well actually we are, seeing as you think women should have to choose between having children and joining the army.

[WAYNEEBRUM]

smoke
your obsessed with hatin on Saffia.Get over it mate shes a quality housemate.

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by fairymoon
leave her alone you dont know her, shes a great person


lol, yeah , what a lovely woman she is lol

[bansheewails]

What absolute rot. My children are daddies boys and would miss him more than me! I am sure of it. You talk rubbish, just because you don;t feel like you have a bond don't tar all men with your brush!



:rolleyes:

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by WAYNEEBRUM
smoke
your obsessed with hatin on Saffia.Get over it mate shes a quality housemate.



is that u in the avatar? you look well sinister mate.

[fairymoon]

she is like i said do you know her

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by bansheewails
What absolute rot. My children are daddies boys and would miss him more than me! I am sure of it. You talk rubbish, just because you don;t feel like you have a bond don't tar all men with your brush!



:rolleyes:


Umm,and are your boys 7 months old? And i said there is a different bond not no bond love.
Im referring to the maternal bond at that age,7 months....

Admin edited. No insults.

[fairymoon]

her kids are fine and they with there nan

[Sticks]

SmokeCrackItsGood, my gut reaction initially was because I help run a group that highlights the plight of those that are victims of when Social Services target innocent people, rather then the real child harmers, and my empathy with those innocent people who were victims of legal baby snatching.

What is your excuse?

Also please do not make personal remarks about other posters as that is not tolerated on this forum.

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by fairymoon
her kids are fine and they with there nan



i repeat, one of her kids is 7 MONTHS old, barely outof the womb,its not 7 years old .

[WAYNEEBRUM]

il take that as a compliment

[fairymoon]

the 7 year old would miss her more the kids are fine and happy

[bansheewails]

Not one bit of a different bond. You speak rot, as I have said already. Studies have shown that the bond between children and their parents (when said parent both reside with the child) is the same.

Also a seven month old baby would adapt to a situuation like this alot quicker than and older child.

You just want an excuse to hate this woman, so you made one up. The end.

:bored:

[Fangz]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
Originally posted by fairymoon
her kids are fine and they with there nan



i repeat, one of her kids is 7 MONTHS old, barely outof the womb,its not 7 years old .
But the nan often cares for the child anyway, you make it sound like Saffia handed him/her to a random stranger!

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by Sticks
SmokeCrackItsGood, my gut reaction initially was because I help run a group that highlights the plight of those that are victims of when Social Services target innocent people, rather then the real child harmers, and my empathy with those innocent people who were victims of legal baby snatching.

What is your excuse?

Also please do not make personal remarks about other posters as that is not tolerated on this forum.


what personal remark are you referring to? And i dont need an excuse mate, i havent abandoned my 7 month young baby. Whats your excuse for asking me what my excuse it?

[Sticks]

According to other reports the youngest is 13 months, not 7

[fairymoon]

her mum moved in weeks before so they are fine belive me

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by Fangz
Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
Originally posted by fairymoon
her kids are fine and they with there nan



i repeat, one of her kids is 7 MONTHS old, barely outof the womb,its not 7 years old .
But the nan often cares for the child anyway, you make it sound like Saffia handed him/her to a random stranger!

yeah i m sure she does ,now and again for a few hours etc......not for possibly 4 months with the baby not kowing where the ****** its mother has disappeared to....and eventually not knowing who she is when she gets back...all to be on big brother!LOvely woman isnt she.

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by fairymoon
her mum moved in weeks before so they are fine belive me


jesus, u really dont get it do you lol.

[Smithy]

saffia isnt going to be in for four months, why have u made it your role to slag her off so much

[fairymoon]

her mum has got the kids they are fine you dont even know her and she is a nice women

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

its a sign of the times though...total selfishness and irresponsibility.

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by fairymoon
her mum has got the kids they are fine you dont even know her and she is a nice women


she's only good for one thing...and that isn't being a mother...

[fairymoon]

shes doing to get money for her kids

[fairymoon]

shes a great mum like you dont even know her grow up

[Fangz]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
its a sign of the times though...total selfishness and irresponsibility.
Blah blah modern women having rights and not staying in the kitchen where they belong blah blah blah bet she takes it up the **** for no extra charge and so on...

[max]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
they say the baby wont understand why its mother has suddenly disapeared and wont know who she is when she is reunited after maybe 4 months of fame seeking.Her defence of " it will benifit my children" does not apply, as she lives in a house bougth for her by the millionaire father of her first child and she is very well off. Seeking fame at the expense of abandoning your 7 month old baby really is disgustingly selfish and wrong.



firstly what a load of bull and secondly your name "smokecrackitsgood" are you for real.

[fairymoon]

she will be with her kids tomorrow she left bb

[Sticks]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood

what personal remark are you referring to?


You referred to someone's personal appearance on their avatar. After I posted they seemed to indicate they were not upset by your comment, but it did come across as an Ad Hominem

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
And i dont need an excuse mate, i havent abandoned my 7 month young baby. Whats your excuse for asking me what my excuse it?

You seemed to have a lot of anger about this for some reason.

I had a similar thread earlier, and my reaction was possibly because of seeing cases from that group I administer on Facebok and comparing it with what this contestant appeared to be doing.

I am trying to understand where you are coming from to see if you also have some displaced anger here.

[fairymoon]

well you can stop calling her now she left bb and is going home

[RAS]

It doesn't surprise me that this woman has got 2 kids with 2 different fathers....im sure she'll be making it a hatrick soon.

There is something about this woman that really makes me hate her.

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by Fangz
[quote]Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
its a sign of the times though...total selfishness and irresponsibility.
Blah blah modern women having rights and not staying in the kitchen where they belong blah blah blah bet she takes it up the **** for no extra charge and so on... [/quo


Saying a mother should not abandon her 7 month old baby for 4 months to seek fame isnt the same as saying mothers should stay in the kitchen! Have you been educated at any level at all lol

[Smithy]

u can all stop wingeing now as shes walked

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by Sticks
Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood

what personal remark are you referring to?


You referred to someone's personal appearance on their avatar. After I posted they seemed to indicate they were not upset by your comment, but it did come across as an Ad Hominem

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
And i dont need an excuse mate, i havent abandoned my 7 month young baby. Whats your excuse for asking me what my excuse it?

You seemed to have a lot of anger about this for some reason.
are you a new labour bod? Are you serious ?? i said the avatar looked a bit sinister...if u think that might be insulting i suggest you get a slightly thicker skin, or just any skin.
I had a similar thread earlier, and my reaction was possibly because of seeing cases from that group I administer on Facebok and comparing it with what this contestant appeared to be doing.

I am trying to understand where you are coming from to see if you also have some displaced anger here.

[fairymoon]

she has 2 kids the first child father beat her up so she left him she met somebody else after 4 years and he left her for her freind

[Sticks]

Originally posted by fairymoon
well you can stop calling her now she left bb and is going home

There is nothing on DS about this, and that is fairly reliable

Like I said to the OP

Give us a link or withdraw the comment

This comes across as troll-like behaviour, unless you can back this up.

[fairymoon]

its on another post she walked at 8.20

[fairymoon]

i am not a troll its true

[Sticks]

Originally posted by fairymoon
its on another post she walked at 8.20

OK

My apologies

This is the link to the official site (http://www.channel4.com/bigbrother/blog/41d0d7135da90412f829db5511c06aca/view.c4)

[laurajane]

I cant say too much... but Saffias life hasn't been easy
You'll all find out soon

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by fairymoon
i am not a troll its true



lol, he called you a troll lol

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

hmmmm, sounds like social services have caught up with her....and u thought i was lying lol

[SmokeCrackItsGood]

Originally posted by laurajane
I cant say too much... but Saffias life hasn't been easy
You'll all find out soon



nope u cant can u...cos u dont know anything lol....her life has been made a whole lot easier by entrapping rich men though .

[Miss-red]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
Originally posted by Fangz
Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
people who cant cope are doing it cos they dont have much choice then. And if a woman is in the military she should not have a child unless she is prepared to be there for it!
What about the men in the military then?


A mother has a different bond with a child than a father does, and im a father too. We're not talking about equality at the workplace here! I agree the bond is completly different with mum she's carried the baby for 9 months a baby needs its mother in a different way than its father not that i'm saying dads are not important because thats not what i'm saying at all what i mean is its a wrench for a 7 month old baby to be seperated from its mother for such a length of time. its not even suggested she went home because of her kids either. i'm glad she's gone and hopes she gets her prioritys right next time!

[laurajane]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
Originally posted by laurajane
I cant say too much... but Saffias life hasn't been easy
You'll all find out soon



nope u cant can u...cos u dont know anything lol....her life has been made a whole lot easier by entrapping rich men though .
No I actually do! So do not 4 one minute try and patronise me

[Saph]

to be honest that is complete tripe :rolleyes:

[Appearance_Of_A_Junky]

Originally posted by SmokeCrackItsGood
And obviously anyone currently serving abroad in the forces should be sent home immediately.


Hell yes!, nothing to with children though.

[userboo123]

I AGREE. the baby will not know that she will come back.
how could anyone leave their baby for potentially 2 months when they are just 7 months old
the babys primary bond is with the mother and being looked after by grandparents will be confusin and distressin