My girlfriend is talking about marriage!

[Jayson]

AAAARRRGGGGHHHH!!!
My girlfriend has started wondering if well get married! :cloud:
IM VERY FOCKIN SCARED
are there any girls that can tell me what to say to her?
PLEASE!

[Locke.]

You need advice from Sree

[Jayson]

Originally posted by David
You need advice from Sree :joker:

[Lewis.]

Oooh Lala ;)

[Jayson]

im seriously freakin out, im 20 years old goddammit!

[LemonJam]

I'm not a girl, but I think it's natural for someone to be immediatley scared at the prospect of marriage. It's something that might set. Kinda like jelly, it's useless once boiled but when it sets it's great. [/myshittyattemptatacomparison]

[Jen]

Originally posted by LemonJam
Kinda like jelly, it's useless once boiled but when it sets it's great.

D'awww.

:love:

[bronaaaa]

I can't wait to get married :lovedup:
Don't worry, she's probaly just fantiscing..I always do :laugh:

[dreamoutloud]

just tell her straight. You're not thinking about that kinda stuff yet.
she'll probably understand.

[LemonJam]

Originally posted by Jen
Originally posted by LemonJam
Kinda like jelly, it's useless once boiled but when it sets it's great.

D'awww.

:love:

Shut up and make me some jelly bitch.







:lovedup:

[GhettoSuperstar]

Tell her to go and marry a goat.

[Jayson]

Originally posted by LemonJam
I'm not a girl, but I think it's natural for someone to be immediatley scared at the prospect of marriage. It's something that might set. Kinda like jelly, it's useless once boiled but when it sets it's great. [/myshittyattemptatacomparison] lol,
I can see what you mean, but i know that shell never **** about it until i say something that will 1) end her curiousity and 2) make her realise im not getting married until im at least 30.

[Novo]

Tell her to be quiet and cook you a nice dinner

[Lisahenderson]

You could just get engaged and have a long engagement. I have been engaged for 8 years now:thumbs:

[30stone]

Originally posted by bronaaaa
I can't wait to get married :lovedup:
Don't worry, she's probaly just fantiscing..I always do :laugh:

Am Always here when you need me.

And Talk to her about how you feel about it, find out if she is serious about it to.

[Jayson]

Originally posted by dreamoutloud
just tell her straight. You're not thinking about that kinda stuff yet.
she'll probably understand. yeah, but you dont know her.
If i said to her that i was not going to have sex with her one night (which i would never ever say) she would cry and say i dont love her :rolleyes:

[Emzy-!!]

Just tell her you're not ready for marriage because you are 20!!!!!

[Jayson]

Originally posted by .Andy.
Tell her to be quiet and cook you a nice dinner lmao

[Ninastar]

Originally posted by 30stone
Originally posted by bronaaaa
I can't wait to get married :lovedup:
Don't worry, she's probaly just fantiscing..I always do :laugh:

Am Always here when you need me.

And Talk to her about how you feel about it, find out if she is serious about it to.

***** YOU THEN D*CK :bawling::sad::sad::sad::sad::bawling::bawling::ba wling::bawling::bawling:

[Tom]

Marriage is like a hurricane ... once all of the sucking and blowing stops you lose the house

ie ... DON'T DO IT!!!

[Jayson]

Originally posted by Tom
Marriage is like a hurricane ... once all of the sucking and blowing stops you lose the house

ie ... DON'T DO IT!!! :joker:
I hope its just a pondering that shes having, but it seems to me that shes set on being hitched by 21 :yuk:

[30stone]

Originally posted by Ninastar
Originally posted by 30stone
Originally posted by bronaaaa
I can't wait to get married :lovedup:
Don't worry, she's probaly just fantiscing..I always do :laugh:

Am Always here when you need me.

And Talk to her about how you feel about it, find out if she is serious about it to.

**** YOU THEN D*CK :bawling::sad::sad::sad::sad::bawling::bawling::ba wling::bawling::bawling:

:shocked::shocked: I was joking my love!

I would love to get married :lovedup:

[Lewis.]

BUSTED - Ben :P

[Jayson]

Originally posted by 30stone
Originally posted by Ninastar
Originally posted by 30stone
Originally posted by bronaaaa
I can't wait to get married :lovedup:
Don't worry, she's probaly just fantiscing..I always do :laugh:

Am Always here when you need me.

And Talk to her about how you feel about it, find out if she is serious about it to.

**** YOU THEN D*CK :bawling::sad::sad::sad::sad::bawling::bawling::ba wling::bawling::bawling: I would love to get married :lovedup: really :shocked:

[bronaaaa]

:love: Ben

[Ninastar]

Originally posted by 30stone
Originally posted by Ninastar
Originally posted by 30stone
Originally posted by bronaaaa
I can't wait to get married :lovedup:
Don't worry, she's probaly just fantiscing..I always do :laugh:

Am Always here when you need me.

And Talk to her about how you feel about it, find out if she is serious about it to.

**** YOU THEN D*CK :bawling::sad::sad::sad::sad::bawling::bawling::ba wling::bawling::bawling:

:shocked::shocked: I was joking my love!

I would love to get married :lovedup:

Lol same. None of my friends want marrige and I am like errmmm your kidding me right????
It would be one of the things in life I would have to do lol x

[Shaun]

Originally posted by Tom
Marriage is like a hurricane ... once all of the sucking and blowing stops you lose the house

ie ... DON'T DO IT!!!

And who said 'romance is dead'? :tongue:

[Annie]

Maybe you should say that you are too young to think about it just now but you do think about marriage for the far future. Dont mention if you think of it with her or not.

[hannah.]

tell her that you're not ready yet but that doesn't mean you're not serious about your relationship with her
go on about how much you love her etc
and that way if she gets all upset/shouts at you she has no ammunition

[M X]

Tell her that you are just not ready ;)

[Jayson]

Luckily she hasn't mentioned it again, next time she does ill just say im not ready yet. :angel:

[Annie]

My good mate's bird kept talking about marriage for AGES like all the time. They are now engaged and he seems happy although he didnt think he was ready either.

[Lauren]

Thing to do is not make her think you don't want to marry her, just say RIGHT NOW you don't want it.

If you say you don't wanna marry her, it'll seem like you seen an inevitable end to the relationship and so don't want to commit to it.

Whereas if you just explain it's marriage you don't want just yet, you're leaving the option open for the future so she knows you aren't just seeing an inevitable end.

If, however, you don't ever want to marry her ever, and see your future marrying someone else - don't lead her on with that haha.

[Sophii3x]

I may be getting married either next year or the year after and I'm 18. We both feel ready for it and it's what we want.

If you're definately not ready or never want to get married, you do need to tell her sooner rather than later.