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kellybsblover
04-07-2009, 12:23 AM
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

arsenalforever
04-07-2009, 12:26 AM
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

Kelly this forum is very pro Freddie and anything bad said about him you get it bad

I've beeen bullied too but he is been picked on no matter what age he is

gohan2091
04-07-2009, 12:27 AM
No matter how annoying someone is, Freddie is clearly a good person who means no harm. He does not create an argument, he is always calm when others kick off on one. People are clearly bullying him, it's really unfair how he is being treated. What do you expect him to do though? he has to talk, he can't sit there for the weeks ahead and not speak. He tries often to sort things out with people but they're just vile and walk away.

Prole
04-07-2009, 12:28 AM
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

Yeah, lots of people are bullied and usually it helps them to see the big picture. Usually.

kellybsblover
04-07-2009, 12:28 AM
I'm sorry I disagree. I trully believe Freddie those stuff on purpose with the full knowledge that he is anoying people but he doesnt care.

stonedape
04-07-2009, 12:29 AM
If Freddie was my neighbor, you're right, I'd never have him over. But that's not what we're talking about. We're talking about people locked up together. If I was locked up with Freddie, I don't care how annoying he was I wouldn't treat him like Lisa's crew. No one would want it done to them, and many admitted themselves they couldn't have taken what Freddie has.

Ergo, Freddie kicks ass.

p.s. we've all been bullied.

BB_Eye
04-07-2009, 12:30 AM
I've been bullied repeatedly throughout my life so I'm quite pleased, if a little surprised, to see Freddie getting so much support on TiBB. Kris and Lisa really are prize jackasses.

Enid
04-07-2009, 12:31 AM
They are also ADULTS. Ganging up on him like they have done so many times is very childish and unnecessary. I don't care if Freddie has an argument with someone 1 on 1, but it's when other people that have no relation to the argument get themselves involved.

kellybsblover
04-07-2009, 12:32 AM
See I was bullied for over 10 years but unlike Freddie I never did anything to deserve it.

ManicWolf
04-07-2009, 12:32 AM
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

You are aware that bullying can happen to anyone, at any age, not just children, right? There is such a thing as work place bullying, and bullying of adults in general. Someone simply being annoying is not a good enough reason to give out the crap that Freddie's been recieving. Yes, I have also been bullied, which is probably why I sympathise (although I liked Freddie even before all this started), and at least most people who are bullied (adults and children alike) can escape the bullies for a time. Freddie is stuck with them.

Prole
04-07-2009, 12:32 AM
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I'm sorry I disagree. I trully believe Freddie those stuff on purpose with the full knowledge that he is anoying people but he doesnt care.

Don't be sorry, if you disagree you disagree.

However... you don't think the others' behaviour is at ALL bad? If someone's different, you think that they deserve to be ganged up on and isolated like that? To be honest you sound more like you might used to be a bully rather than someone who was bullied. It's hard to see how you could not empathise even a little.

And incidentally, it's no only kids who bully. Adults are famous for it.

arsenalforever
04-07-2009, 12:33 AM
Originally posted by Enid
They are also ADULTS. Ganging up on him like they have done so many times is very childish and unnecessary. I don't care if Freddie has an argument with someone 1 on 1, but it's when other people that have no relation to the argument get themselves involved.

Its sad that grown ups have to act that way

stonedape
04-07-2009, 12:33 AM
So being annoying earns someone the right to be bullied? If Lisa is annoyed with Freddie, that's Lisa's problem. The people who bullied you probably thought you were annoying too, though in your mind you did nothing to deserve it. Same with Freddie...he's never been purposefully mean to anyone.

Enid
04-07-2009, 12:36 AM
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by Enid
They are also ADULTS. Ganging up on him like they have done so many times is very childish and unnecessary. I don't care if Freddie has an argument with someone 1 on 1, but it's when other people that have no relation to the argument get themselves involved.

Its sad that grown ups have to act that way
I know. Kris has the mentality of a 10 year old. "I'm not talking to you Freddie" repeated a hundred times. ****ing hell, grow up mate.

Z
04-07-2009, 12:36 AM
I think it's just the fact that he's got half a dozen people in a house of what is now nine other people, not including himself, picking on him for being different. He's certainly not gone out of his way to provoke arguments with them, he just seems to irritate them and they all gang up on him. I probably wouldn't want to be friends with him in real life, I'd be more like Rodrigo is with him, not really a fan but being respectful about it.

stonedape
04-07-2009, 12:37 AM
Originally posted by Enid
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by Enid
They are also ADULTS. Ganging up on him like they have done so many times is very childish and unnecessary. I don't care if Freddie has an argument with someone 1 on 1, but it's when other people that have no relation to the argument get themselves involved.

Its sad that grown ups have to act that way
I know. Kris has the mentality of a 10 year old. "I'm not talking to you Freddie" repeated a hundred times. ****ing hell, grow up mate.

Don't forget Lisa's "la la la la la la la"s and "ignore him everyone"s. I haven't heard that kind of debating style since 3rd grade.

kisywisy
04-07-2009, 12:37 AM
you can be bullied at any age

as someone that's been bullied, you have a very narrow view of bullying

Enid
04-07-2009, 12:39 AM
Originally posted by stonedape
Originally posted by Enid
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by Enid
They are also ADULTS. Ganging up on him like they have done so many times is very childish and unnecessary. I don't care if Freddie has an argument with someone 1 on 1, but it's when other people that have no relation to the argument get themselves involved.

Its sad that grown ups have to act that way
I know. Kris has the mentality of a 10 year old. "I'm not talking to you Freddie" repeated a hundred times. ****ing hell, grow up mate.

Don't forget Lisa's "la la la la la la la"s and "ignore him everyone"s. I haven't heard that kind of debating style since 3rd grade.
Yep. That too. Pathetic.

arsenalforever
04-07-2009, 12:40 AM
They are keeping all the drink to themselfs and poor freddie who deserves the booze for living with those fools is been told to bugger off

kisywisy
04-07-2009, 12:42 AM
Originally posted by kellybsblover
See I was bullied for over 10 years but unlike Freddie I never did anything to deserve it.

i've just read on through this thread and read this post :shocked:

how can you say that someone deserves to be bullied??

i'll bet the person/people that bullied you said the same thing, you deserved it (which is totally wrong). noone deserves to be bullied and i'm really shocked you could say something like that

does he deserve it because he is different from the rest of the group??

kellybsblover
04-07-2009, 12:42 AM
I know you can be bullied at any age but as an adult you should be able to handle it better then a child. No being anoying doesnt mean you should be bullied but it doesnt help.

Enid
04-07-2009, 12:45 AM
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I know you can be bullied at any age but as an adult you should be able to handle it better then a child. No being anoying doesnt mean you should be bullied but it doesnt help.
Explain.

Freddie has handled it very well. He hasn't broken down, he hasn't lashed out. He's very mature and remains calm even when nearly the entire house are shouting him down.

kisywisy
04-07-2009, 12:51 AM
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I know you can be bullied at any age but as an adult you should be able to handle it better then a child. No being anoying doesnt mean you should be bullied but it doesnt help.

i'm finding it hard to believe you were bullied. you wouldn't have such a bully-minded view if you had

adults are a lot better at mental abuse than children.

he's handling it very well also. what do you want him to do??

explain how he should handle it

arsenalforever
04-07-2009, 12:52 AM
Originally posted by Enid
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I know you can be bullied at any age but as an adult you should be able to handle it better then a child. No being anoying doesnt mean you should be bullied but it doesnt help.
Explain.

Freddie has handled it very well. He hasn't broken down, he hasn't lashed out. He's very mature and remains calm even when nearly the entire house are shouting him down.

He's too smart for them

They are too stupid to see it:joker:

golden
04-07-2009, 12:53 AM
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

I AGREE. Does no-one see him bitching? He gave Sree a hard time many times..He puts people down..He upset Rodrigo tonight & made Charlie feel bad for not flirting with him. This guy knows exactly what he's doing & can give as good as he gets.
Halfwit out next woohoo!:xyxwave:

Enid
04-07-2009, 12:54 AM
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by Enid
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I know you can be bullied at any age but as an adult you should be able to handle it better then a child. No being anoying doesnt mean you should be bullied but it doesnt help.
Explain.

Freddie has handled it very well. He hasn't broken down, he hasn't lashed out. He's very mature and remains calm even when nearly the entire house are shouting him down.

He's too smart for them

They are too stupid to see it:joker:
They are playing right into his hands.

kisywisy
04-07-2009, 12:55 AM
Originally posted by golden
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

I AGREE. Does no-one see him bitching? He gave Sree a hard time many times..He puts people down..He upset Rodrigo tonight & made Charlie feel bad for not flirting with him. This guy knows exactly what he's doing & can give as good as he gets.
Halfwit out next woohoo!:xyxwave:

how did he upset rodrigo tonight??

arsenalforever
04-07-2009, 12:58 AM
Originally posted by kisywisy
Originally posted by golden
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

I AGREE. Does no-one see him bitching? He gave Sree a hard time many times..He puts people down..He upset Rodrigo tonight & made Charlie feel bad for not flirting with him. This guy knows exactly what he's doing & can give as good as he gets.
Halfwit out next woohoo!:xyxwave:

how did he upset rodrigo tonight??

it was charlie who upset him

they had a fight tonight

kisywisy
04-07-2009, 01:00 AM
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by kisywisy
Originally posted by golden
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

I AGREE. Does no-one see him bitching? He gave Sree a hard time many times..He puts people down..He upset Rodrigo tonight & made Charlie feel bad for not flirting with him. This guy knows exactly what he's doing & can give as good as he gets.
Halfwit out next woohoo!:xyxwave:

how did he upset rodrigo tonight??

it was charlie who upset him

they had a fight tonight

why would golden say that freddie upset him then?? :shrug:

i think rodrigo and charlie could get it on lol

golden
04-07-2009, 01:06 AM
Originally posted by kisywisy
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by kisywisy
Originally posted by golden
Originally posted by kellybsblover
I don't quite understand everyone feelind bad for Freddie. The guy is a bit of a pain in the ass to begin with... if many of you had him as a neighboor I doubt most of you would be inviting him for tea all the time. He is an adult that is not liked in the house and many times put down but he is an ADULT.

I AGREE. Does no-one see him bitching? He gave Sree a hard time many times..He puts people down..He upset Rodrigo tonight & made Charlie feel bad for not flirting with him. This guy knows exactly what he's doing & can give as good as he gets.
Halfwit out next woohoo!:xyxwave:

how did he upset rodrigo tonight??

it was charlie who upset him

they had a fight tonight

why would golden say that freddie upset him then?? :shrug:

i think rodrigo and charlie could get it on lol

Somebody said someone had a stupid name...I presumed it was Freddy to Rodrigo cos Rodrigo got upset & Freddy was trying to apologise/explain. Rodrigo walked away then. I could be mistaken but Charlie & Rod aren't fighting..not now anyway!

arsenalforever
04-07-2009, 01:07 AM
They did for about ten minutes in the garden

golden
04-07-2009, 01:08 AM
Think that fight was earlier tho...this happened like 10 mins ago!

arsenalforever
04-07-2009, 01:10 AM
Originally posted by golden
Think that fight was earlier tho...this happened like 10 mins ago!

yep but it was over Rodrigo making comments to charlie and freddie about shagging

kisywisy
04-07-2009, 01:14 AM
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by golden
Think that fight was earlier tho...this happened like 10 mins ago!

yep but it was over Rodrigo making comments to charlie and freddie about sh*****g

huh?? doing the dirty??

arsenalforever
04-07-2009, 01:15 AM
Originally posted by kisywisy
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by golden
Think that fight was earlier tho...this happened like 10 mins ago!

yep but it was over Rodrigo making comments to charlie and freddie about sh*****g

huh?? doing the dirty??

Brokeback moutain style he said:joker:

golden
04-07-2009, 01:15 AM
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by golden
Think that fight was earlier tho...this happened like 10 mins ago!

yep but it was over Rodrigo making comments to charlie and freddie about sh*****g

Aah ... what was the name thing then..who said who had a stupid name?