Has anyone ever cheated on their Girlfriends or boyfriends? [Archive] - ThisisBigBrother.com

arsenalforever

17-07-2009, 11:05 AM

Originally posted by pinkmichk
:shocked: no i havent but i have been cheated on even before that its not something i have ever considered doing cos i have some morals and if you want to be with someone else then leave who you are with

i'm not cheating just wanted to see other people's take on it

arsenalforever

17-07-2009, 11:05 AM

Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by Marcjswp
No. I think being cheated on is the worst thing that could happen to someone in love. Thats whats holding me back the most.

Its a shame I actually love my girlfriend :sad:

your GF is hot i wouldn't cheat on her:tongue:

Jayson

17-07-2009, 11:08 AM

Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by Marcjswp
No. I think being cheated on is the worst thing that could happen to someone in love. Thats whats holding me back the most.

Its a shame I actually love my girlfriend :sad:

your GF is hot i wouldn't cheat on her:tongue: LOL, hands off :hugesmile:

If I ever end up with a girl i'm not too fond of then i'd make sure she never found out if I ended up cheating, and i'd dump her shortly afterwards to avoid it.

I would hate to be cheated on by someone I love, which is why I could never cheat on my current girlfriend.

Sod_James

17-07-2009, 11:09 AM

No i have never and i never would.

arsenalforever

17-07-2009, 11:10 AM

Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by Marcjswp
No. I think being cheated on is the worst thing that could happen to someone in love. Thats whats holding me back the most.

Its a shame I actually love my girlfriend :sad:

your GF is hot i wouldn't cheat on her:tongue: LOL, hands off :hugesmile:

If I ever end up with a girl i'm not too fond of then i'd make sure she never found out if I ended up cheating, and i'd dump her shortly afterwards to avoid it.

I would hate to be cheated on by someone I love, which is why I could never cheat on my current girlfriend.

I've cheated on girls who i hated cause i only got with them cause they had a nice body

pinkmichk

17-07-2009, 11:16 AM

so let me get this right if you dont love someone its ok to cheat on them? but not if you love them why not just finish with them before finding someone else

Marc

17-07-2009, 11:18 AM

Jayson

17-07-2009, 11:20 AM

Originally posted by pinkmichk
so let me get this right if you dont love someone its ok to cheat on them? but not if you love them why not just finish with them before finding someone else What i'm saying is that, personally, I would never ever cheat on someone who I loved and she loved me, but if I knew that I didn't like her and she didn't like me then I would cheat for the experiance, and then leave her to avoid her being hurt, although she probs wouldn't because she dislikes me :laugh:

I just think that it would be something i'd like to experiance before i'm long gone, and if we both hate each other then why not take the oppurtunity?

I would 100% make sure she never found out though, I can see why it would be hard to deal with.

arsenalforever

17-07-2009, 11:22 AM

Originally posted by Marcjswp
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by Marcjswp
No. I think being cheated on is the worst thing that could happen to someone in love. Thats whats holding me back the most.

Its a shame I actually love my girlfriend :sad:

your GF is hot i wouldn't cheat on her:tongue:

I wanna see her! LOL

go to meet the members

she's hot:lovedup:

Jayson

17-07-2009, 11:23 AM

deeayen

17-07-2009, 11:25 AM

i have in the past. and i hate myself for the amount of times i have...
no more though!!!!

pinkmichk

17-07-2009, 11:26 AM

Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by pinkmichk
so let me get this right if you dont love someone its ok to cheat on them? but not if you love them why not just finish with them before finding someone else What i'm saying is that, personally, I would never ever cheat on someone who I loved and she loved me, but if I knew that I didn't like her and she didn't like me then I would cheat for the experiance, and then leave her to avoid her being hurt, although she probs wouldn't because she dislikes me :laugh:

I just think that it would be something i'd like to experiance before i'm long gone, and if we both hate each other then why not take the oppurtunity?

I would 100% make sure she never found out though, I can see why it would be hard to deal with.

but i dont understand there is always the chance she could find out even if you didnt love each other it would still hurt her i personally couldnt live with the personal guilt i know i would feel by cheating on someone i just dont agree with it

Jayson

17-07-2009, 11:29 AM

Originally posted by pinkmichk
Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by pinkmichk
so let me get this right if you dont love someone its ok to cheat on them? but not if you love them why not just finish with them before finding someone else What i'm saying is that, personally, I would never ever cheat on someone who I loved and she loved me, but if I knew that I didn't like her and she didn't like me then I would cheat for the experiance, and then leave her to avoid her being hurt, although she probs wouldn't because she dislikes me :laugh:

I just think that it would be something i'd like to experiance before i'm long gone, and if we both hate each other then why not take the oppurtunity?

I would 100% make sure she never found out though, I can see why it would be hard to deal with.

but i dont understand there is always the chance she could find out even if you didnt love each other it would still hurt her i personally couldnt live with the personal guilt i know i would feel by cheating on someone i just dont agree with it I don't agree with it either, but I just think its something that I would like to experiance, not sure why, I guess its just a thrill :shrug:

bronaaaa

17-07-2009, 11:44 AM

Nope, I'd feel so bad, and I'd hate for it to be done to me

Rodrigo2Win

17-07-2009, 11:46 AM

Never...and never would.

Iceman

17-07-2009, 11:47 AM

I've cheated on ex's when I was younger not now though I'd feel too guilty.

Beastie

17-07-2009, 11:47 AM

i have NEVER cheated and NEVER will!!

its disgusting when people "cheat"

if you are bored or not satisfied with the relationship you are in.. at least have the decency to end it first!!!!!!!!

Beastie

17-07-2009, 11:49 AM

sorry to be very forward with this.. i mean its none of my business if anyone else who i know cheats.. but if my boyfriend cheats on me or if i cheat on him then obviously its our business! lol

Mikel

17-07-2009, 11:56 AM

Never will.
Never have.

It ruins relationships,friendships, and families.

Gemmer-x

17-07-2009, 04:43 PM

No.. but i helped someone cheat on their girlfriend :shocked: i felt dead bad after and have been hiding from her ever since incase she found out :laugh:

MrGaryy

17-07-2009, 04:45 PM

yes.
I cheated on Shaun.
with Hugo.

and I've never looked back. :lovedup:

Zac

17-07-2009, 04:51 PM

Nope. Never have and never will, well, we'll see.

30stone

17-07-2009, 04:53 PM

Nope, that and smoking are 2 things i cannot stand.

Wont ever i hope.

Enid

17-07-2009, 05:42 PM

Yeah. :sad:

No sex. Just foreplay. I told my boyfriend (at the time) as soon as it happened. Then I cheated on him again the following night. Didn't tell him about that one though. This was at the beginning of the relationship and I had no idea I was falling in love with him. He forgave me and we spent many happy months together.

Barbie

17-07-2009, 05:54 PM

Never cheated, been cheated on and its horrible

why stay with someone if you can't be faithful

Lauren

17-07-2009, 05:59 PM

No.

Anyone who "wants" to, or think it will be great - don't love their partner as much as they suggest, and should perhaps think about either letting their partners find someone worthwhile instead of wasting their time with a pathetic low will-powered "man" (or woman, if vice versa).

LemonJam

17-07-2009, 06:11 PM

Yup.

Ninastar

17-07-2009, 06:45 PM

No but if someone did it to me... then I would give them the best revenge ever

Christina

17-07-2009, 09:17 PM

Nope. I'd hate to be cheated on so i deffo would'nt be the one cheating!

KillER

17-07-2009, 09:20 PM

on an ex gf once years ago
shame on meee

Jen

17-07-2009, 09:20 PM

No.
Being cheated on is horrible. It makes you feel worthless and not good enough.

BBUK4LYFE

17-07-2009, 09:32 PM

Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by Marcjswp
Originally posted by arsenalforever
Originally posted by Jayson
Originally posted by Marcjswp
No. I think being cheated on is the worst thing that could happen to someone in love. Thats whats holding me back the most.

Its a shame I actually love my girlfriend :sad:

your GF is hot i wouldn't cheat on her:tongue:

I wanna see her! LOL http://i43.tinypic.com/xn829d.jpg
:shocked:

BBUK4LYFE

17-07-2009, 09:33 PM

What do you consider cheating? :whistle:

Legend

17-07-2009, 10:57 PM

I was cheated on by someone who I was SO in love with and it killed me, it really did. We ended it, I gave it another go as I'd have regretted not doing, although it was 'good' something was missing, and I ended up cheating. The first time we were together I wouldn't have dreamt of cheating, and I didn't conciously set out to cheat, it just happened one night and I didn't regret it the next morning ... and now I'm so happy with that person. Although it weren't nice what I did, it weren't just for a 'quick thrill' ... evidently as I'm still with the person I cheated with.

Everything happens for a reason eh.

HellShark

18-07-2009, 09:26 AM

Unless your planning to get married monogamy is bullshit and cheating is a meaningless word.

Squire

18-07-2009, 09:48 AM

Originally posted by Enid
Yeah. :sad:

No sex. Just foreplay. I told my boyfriend (at the time) as soon as it happened. Then I cheated on him again the following night. Didn't tell him about that one though. This was at the beginning of the relationship and I had no idea I was falling in love with him. He forgave me and we spent many happy months together.

Trashbag.

pinkmichk

18-07-2009, 09:59 AM

Originally posted by HellShark
Unless your planning to get married monogamy is bullshit and cheating is a meaningless word.

so respect and decency goes out the window?

Squire

18-07-2009, 10:05 AM

Originally posted by HellShark
Unless your planning to get married monogamy is bullshit and cheating is a meaningless word.

What a stupid thing to say.

SiaSiaSia

18-07-2009, 10:31 AM

-cough-
i'm far too nice... -cough-

HellShark

18-07-2009, 10:54 AM

Originally posted by Squire
Originally posted by HellShark
Unless your planning to get married monogamy is bullshit and cheating is a meaningless word.

What a stupid thing to say.

Spread your seed as nature intended. The pretense in relationships that you belong to one another only is unnatural. Why do you think people cheat?

It's not because they are immoral, it is because their bodies wish to be with many different people. Unfortunately society labels and judges our needs so that we think they are bad.

How often have you felt the urge to **** another woman whilst you've been in a relationship? I always act on my urges and live without regret. I'll never go against what my body wants.

Captain.Remy

18-07-2009, 10:55 AM

It was a long time ago when I was a right a$$hole with girls but then I met my ex-girlfriend, we stayed 2 years together and I never cheated. She was the first girl I loved so I couldn't do that.

Tom

19-07-2009, 10:39 AM

Yeah a few times ... don't like it but it just kinda happens. Went through a phase where I did it all the time. I've been a good boy with the last 2 though
:angel:

SiaSiaSia

19-07-2009, 10:53 AM

Originally posted by Tom
Yeah a few times ... don't like it but it just kinda happens. Went through a phase where I did it all the time. I've been a good boy with the last 2 though
:angel:

we'll see ;)

Tom

19-07-2009, 10:56 AM

Originally posted by SiaSiaSia
Originally posted by Tom
Yeah a few times ... don't like it but it just kinda happens. Went through a phase where I did it all the time. I've been a good boy with the last 2 though
:angel:

we'll see ;)

I wouldn't dream of it now tbh, when I did it I didn't really care about other people (in that way) and just used them to get what I wanted. I was a bit of an evil moron. As soon as I got over that I managed to hold down a longer relationship as well beating my previous record of 6 weeks with 17 months, and on 4 months atm :spin2:

TheOfficialAdam

19-07-2009, 11:01 AM

I would never cheat on my girlfriend. I wouldn't even think about it, i love her to bits.

kisywisy

20-07-2009, 02:00 AM

yeah i have but i'm now getting married to the guy i cheated with and having a baby. the other guy i'd only been with for a few months so it was nothing serious anyway

i don't really feel too bad abou it either coz i broke up with him the next day and he didn't seem too heartbroken either

The Human Santapede

20-07-2009, 02:05 AM

nope. I never have.

Lauren

20-07-2009, 10:34 AM

Originally posted by kisywisy
yeah i have but i'm now getting married to the guy i cheated with and having a baby. the other guy i'd only been with for a few months so it was nothing serious anyway

i don't really feel too bad abou it either coz i broke up with him the next day and he didn't seem too heartbroken either

Why didn't you break up with him before you cheated? If it meant nothing to either of you, it would've showed more thought to both people (the one you cheated with and on).

I never understand this about people who cheat, if they're willing to cheat, they obviously don't mind hurting their partner - so might as well break up with them first instead of playing games.

tinkerbell

20-07-2009, 11:01 AM

Yes recently and I asked why didn't you tell me and he said .....'You didn't ask'......Nice.

Tom

20-07-2009, 11:06 AM

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by kisywisy
yeah i have but i'm now getting married to the guy i cheated with and having a baby. the other guy i'd only been with for a few months so it was nothing serious anyway

i don't really feel too bad abou it either coz i broke up with him the next day and he didn't seem too heartbroken either

Why didn't you break up with him before you cheated? If it meant nothing to either of you, it would've showed more thought to both people (the one you cheated with and on).

I never understand this about people who cheat, if they're willing to cheat, they obviously don't mind hurting their partner - so might as well break up with them first instead of playing games.

For some its the thrill of not getting caught

Fangz

20-07-2009, 06:11 PM

Originally posted by tinkerbell
Yes recently and I asked why didn't you tell me and he said .....'You didn't ask'......Nice.
You got rid...right?

x_eztiger_x

21-07-2009, 12:11 AM

i hate cheating with a passion an i would be broken hearted if i was cheated on, really would but it aint summit u can stop from happenin if ur cheated on the person obviously dont care about u that much an as for me cheating i would never cos then there would be no point in me being in a relationship with my bf, an would hate t if hes cheated on me

Lauren

21-07-2009, 04:33 PM

Originally posted by Tom

For some its the thrill of not getting caught

So the thrill of not getting caught comes above a potentially lasting relationship? (Btw not aiming it at you, it's a response to what you said lol).

I don't see why anyone would willingly enter and stay in a relationship to which they know they won't stay committed in. They might aswell just sleep around.

Tom

21-07-2009, 04:44 PM

Originally posted by Lauren
Originally posted by Tom

For some its the thrill of not getting caught

So the thrill of not getting caught comes above a potentially lasting relationship? (Btw not aiming it at you, it's a response to what you said lol).

I don't see why anyone would willingly enter and stay in a relationship to which they know they won't stay committed in. They might aswell just sleep around.

I think at a younger age there isn't really an expectation to be in a lasting relationship and it probably isn't as intense as a couple in their mid 20s or 30s, so might not feel the need to stay committed. Or some might just be bored of the original relationship and need something to make it more interesting. I don't really understand the thrill thing though, for me it was never a thrill of not being caught, it just kind of happened.

Tom4784

21-07-2009, 04:59 PM

I've never cheated, it's just disrespectful. None of my relationships have been about love and intensity but I would never have cheated on them.

supernoodles!

21-07-2009, 07:46 PM

Urgh,yes,and Im so ashamed its the biggest regret of mine,I don`t have that many but yeh,I wouldn`t ever talk to anyone about it because I am really ashamed of it and I would never ever do it again.Its so horrible and sick and I dont even know why I did it because I did feel awful doing it,I felt sick to my stomach yet I still did it.It was a few years ago now and on someone who had cheated on me several times before but that doesn`t make it any better.Just don`t do it people,I know I said I never would and I hate that I actually broke that promise with myself but I guess I`ve moved on from it.
I just think its sick,being cheated on and cheated,I don`t understand people who repeatedly do it because it just made me feel dirty and sick and a bad person. =[

amy-jayne

22-07-2009, 10:51 PM

I've never cheated, and never would, you should never say never, but I'd like to think I'd never cheat.
If I was ever in the situation were I was in a relationship and found myself liking somebody else, I would finish the relationship, and wait for a bit out of respect to the person, then be with the person I did like.
I dont see why you need to cheat, if your not happy in a relationship to the point you have to go to someone else, get out of the relationship!

Ashleee:)

22-07-2009, 10:54 PM

I never have and never will. Peolpe who cheat are weak or just slutty skanks (sorry to the cheaters).
If you feel the need to sleep with someone else then why bother being in a relationship in the first place? It's completely selfish.
If my boyfriend cheats on me, he knows i will destroy him. (or just his penis)

amy-jayne

22-07-2009, 11:02 PM

Originally posted by Ashleee:)
I never have and never will. Peolpe who cheat are weak or just slutty skanks (sorry to the cheaters).
If you feel the need to sleep with someone else then why bother being in a relationship in the first place? It's completely selfish.
If my boyfriend cheats on me, he knows i will destroy him. (or just his penis) well said! :thumbs:

Ramsay

25-07-2009, 01:50 PM

I was drunkely with one of my best friends while she had a boyfriend if that counts

GypsyGoth

25-07-2009, 08:05 PM

Never have cheated but been cheated on twice.:sad: Both of them were jerks.

Annie

25-07-2009, 09:47 PM

I've cheated on everyone I have ever been with. Not because I am a bitch but for millions of different reasons. I regret doing it because I have also been cheated on and its horrible and heart breaking but for some stupid reason I think its alright for me to do when I am angry

1. I am greedy and love men and male attention
2. When I dont get enough attention from my partner I wander around
3. I was young a lot of the time
4. I fall out with someone and get back at them by cheating

But looking at myself now, being a MILF to be etc.. If I had another partner. I wouldnt really want to cheat because I wouldnt need attention from anyone cos I have my baby and my baby needs me. So its something thats now in the past.

Sophii3x

25-07-2009, 11:06 PM

No, I've never cheated and would never. I've been cheated on quite a bit and it's just hurt me so much each time.

Noel

25-07-2009, 11:11 PM

Twice when I've been drunk I've kissed one of my close friends, and she tells me she "likes me" etc., but it's just the drink and a bit of fun. I still feel really bad about it though. I see it as, if there are no feelings in it, then it means nothing. The guilt, however, will always be there.