I didn't see it happening for me either. Then I got so fed up of life and being miserable that I decided to make it happen. I had no real plan. I got my visa, booked my flight, booked a hostel for my first week in Melbourne and just went and hoped for the best. Ended up getting a cool house with cool people and getting a job that paid really well. Went from there. If you want to do something, do it.
