At that point when you became involved and tried to help Ben, frustration had already passed boiling point I'm sorry. We will never agree on thus but for me the bottom line and the root of the problem is that I was insulted. Yes it was offline THIS TIME but it was the same insults I have had directed at me at least twice before on the actual forum itself. Thats unacceptable for.a mid, no matter how its sugarcoated. Yes I was out of order and snapped at you and Matt. You don't need to tell me to think on it. But which came first. Without the insults the situation wouldn't even have arisen? Point taken?
Again, you may have got somewhere with me had you not snapped at me the way you did for no reason even though I was trying to help you. Something I'll leave you to think on.
Well, we can only agree to disagree then Ben, on that particular subject. I'm not going to leave the forum as I have had requests from all my friends here not to go. So I will stay for them. I still feel aggrieved and think that its a waste of breath trying to stand up for myself. Yes I was rude and in the wrong but it was as a result of frustration in not getting anywhere with my complaint.
Sorry Kate, but I personally see the way you behaved as your own fault. Even yesterday I tried to help you, and look where that got me. I agree you need some time away from here, and yes I know that some members wind you up and insult you, but you have been just as bad at times also. I'll say goodbye to you know then as I'll be off TiBB in a day, take care. I'm sorry we had to part on these terms.