Touche Monsieur Turtle, point taken. Now I know that at this exact moment in time you'd pribs like nothing better than to whack me with a baseball bat, fair enough. But we both said our piece, and listened to each other despite not agreeing? Aside from all that I dont adore you the person any less let's smoke the pipe of peace well you smoke it, I will just inhale.

And it just as much a pity that some members like to try OTT melodramatics to get their way in a lot of things, but that is life I suppose.

It is the same member - Vicky, both on and iffsite.I don't get why you think otherwise? Anyway, as you have asked, and dont want to discuss it any further then fine. Done. Finis. We bith know there is no point me bringing it up again in appeals or reporting her to admin. Been down that route already and got nowhere. It's a pity modship on here isn't a paid job with professionalism at all times a must and no posting as part of the forum. I know that's not pissible. But it would be much better.

Kate these insults you are referring to have nothing to do with yesterdays actions as that involved different members and those insults were on site. So honestly, no, I don't get why you are going on. The area you are most annoyed about is a completely separate subject. I really don't want to talk about this anymore. If you want to take things further, then you know the procedure to take.

I'm not disputing anything you say there Ben, but it feels like either you aren't properly listening to me or I am not explaining enough? These insults have been directed at me at least twice before on this actual forum is what I am saying. And yes I did report it previously. So that's why i don't get why its still happening if as you say, it has to be acted on.

The difference is Kate, the insults you are referring to happened off site, where as yours were on sight. I, and other mods, can do nothing about what happens off site, it is out of our hands, you know this, whereas if something happens on TiBB then we have act.

At that point when you became involved and tried to help Ben, frustration had already passed boiling point I'm sorry. We will never agree on thus but for me the bottom line and the root of the problem is that I was insulted. Yes it was offline THIS TIME but it was the same insults I have had directed at me at least twice before on the actual forum itself. Thats unacceptable for.a mid, no matter how its sugarcoated. Yes I was out of order and snapped at you and Matt. You don't need to tell me to think on it. But which came first. Without the insults the situation wouldn't even have arisen? Point taken?

Again, you may have got somewhere with me had you not snapped at me the way you did for no reason even though I was trying to help you. Something I'll leave you to think on.

Well, we can only agree to disagree then Ben, on that particular subject. I'm not going to leave the forum as I have had requests from all my friends here not to go. So I will stay for them. I still feel aggrieved and think that its a waste of breath trying to stand up for myself. Yes I was rude and in the wrong but it was as a result of frustration in not getting anywhere with my complaint.

Sorry Kate, but I personally see the way you behaved as your own fault. Even yesterday I tried to help you, and look where that got me. I agree you need some time away from here, and yes I know that some members wind you up and insult you, but you have been just as bad at times also. I'll say goodbye to you know then as I'll be off TiBB in a day, take care. I'm sorry we had to part on these terms.