Ach it does not really bother me

ahm not fussed about that and if people reply great, if not whatever! I am not an idiot. I did think it was silly however the wonders of forums things can get misconstrued and I guess out of hand

I really did not go out my way to offend her, it was when all the others started jumping on

but thank you - its really kind that you took the time to email me. Mx