Ah, so I probably do sound ungrateful.
I get on with my mom brilliantly (well we do argue), I hate my dad (but he doesn't know it) 'cause he's a homophobe, and he has other massive flaws in his personality and logic. My brother and I get on well now (we used to never talk since it was better than arguing constantly).
I love my brother's girlfriend though, we're great friends.