…I know it’s a strange thing to say but one ‘positive’ of a funeral is seeing family that you rarely see because of lives going in different directions, you know…?..it’s a bittersweet thing because it does have some things that are of great value too…

…and it’s a celebration for her also…?…for all of those whose lives she touched and who knew and loved her to honour that time they’ve shared together and the memories they hold for her…?…it’s kind of a bittersweet thing, I always think…because it’s impossible also not to feel how loved someone was and that’s fairly special……

…that’s perfectly fine, you be as quiet as you feel that you need to be…just know that I’m thinking about you……

……just saying hey…

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……I’m thinking of you…

…and she took those memories also, they were locked in her heart…how we remember people is how we carry them with us…..

……I’m just thinking about you right now and giving you a hug……

….awwwww, Scarlett….I'm so, so sorry……it’s so difficult to lose someone who is such a special part of your life …she’s left you with so much that you’ll never lose, though…you’ll always carry everything she meant to you but I know that doesn’t make it any less painful right now…I’m thinking of you my love……

…Happy Friday and Happy Weekend, you…..