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Originally Posted by Elliot
(Post 10283152)
There’s so much unwarrented paranoia surrounding them like the other housemates don’t do anything to them to warrant it. It just consistently brings the mood down too
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..I do think it’s warranted at times though, it’s just that it isn’t kept in perspective of the amount it’s warranted because of a more extreme character like Lewis in the house...he breeds and he enhances etc because of his own more extreme paranoia tendencies...there is no balance or middle ground with Lewis...other housemates show him so much understanding in terms of allowances made for him... but he shows others no such understanding himself...it’s either black or it’s white....(..and mostly it’s black for him in terms of tolerance of other people’s personalities..:laugh:..)....that’s who he is and he wants people to respect that, which is fine...but he doesn’t respect or accept who other people are unless they behave exactly as he would like them to with absolutely no give or take...
..I agreed with everything Kenaley said in her interview...being a deep thinker is what Lewis is all about but it isn’t what everyone is all about though...especially for a stay in the BB house...there has to be fun, their has to be laughter, there has to be silliness and pointlessness etc...he doesn’t have to take part in any of it but there has to be tolerance of it and no superiority felt toward it, of thinking it as shallow, as Kenaley said...there are so many lovely things about Lewis, so many things which make him liked within the house as well...but his paranoia and his intolerance to try keep his own stability squared up and his lack of self awareness in often being the very thing he accuses others of, just oppresses the house so much...and his paranoia will be so contagious in that environment...Cameron has always been susceptible to it because he idolises Lewis...Zoe is vulnerable atm because Cian has spread his friendship wings a bit more with Isabella and she’s feeing a sense of being left out...(...even though she’s the one leaving herself out so far as I can see...although it might be a bit of both..)....so yeah, they’re absorbing the paranoia more from Lewis ...the others keep more balance because they spend time with everyone and have a bit of deep thinking from Lewis and a bit of silliness and fun and surface stuff with the lighter crowd...but Cameron has had less and less of the lighter stuff as he’s spent more and more time only on the dark side without a balance that would be needed to maintain..:laugh:...now it seems to be happening with Zoe as well as she’s also withdrawing from the fun crowd ...with a personality like Lewis especially...that lighter and fun and silly and nonsense side is so much needed to help prevent the negativity and the paranoia and to keep it in balance ....
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