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thesheriff443 04-10-2012 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5525757)
He's 30 years of age, he's not a child, he's a creepy perverted wanker, who could have ruined that girls life along with his own. I feel sorry for his wife, the 15 year old had a lucky escape.

he maybe 30 in years but he did not act like a 30 year old.

Niamh. 04-10-2012 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 5525764)
he maybe 30 in years but he did not act like a 30 year old.

And that's an excuse how exactly?

Livia 04-10-2012 10:34 AM

I believe what he did was wrong, especially in light of the fact he was her teacher. Unforgivable... but I'm a little tired of hearing this girl referred to like she is a complete innocent in all this. We all know how provocative and manipultive fifteen year old girls can be, especially those of us who can remember being a fifteen year old girl. I think I said before, but it's worth repeating... the age of criminal responsibility in the UK is ten years old. That means that by ten, you understand the difference between right and wrong. You have to assume then, at fifteen, she fully understood what she was doing. I agree he should be prosecuted and never teach again, but I also think this "poor innocent" girl should be shouldering some of the blame.

Roy Mars III 04-10-2012 10:35 AM

this has probably been going on since she was even younger, they were holding hands on a trip when she was 14. The teacher deserves the charges he will get

Livia 04-10-2012 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Roy Mars III (Post 5525771)
this has probably been going on since she was even younger, they were holding hands on a trip when she was 14. The teacher deserves the charges he will get

So someone saw this, but never reported it at the time. Instead they held on to the information to give to the press?

thesheriff443 04-10-2012 10:37 AM

easy tiger!
im not making an excuse for him.
it takes two to tango, 15 year old girls know right from wrong these days.

Roy Mars III 04-10-2012 10:39 AM

the school was already investigating him so maybe it was brought to light beforehand

Niamh. 04-10-2012 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 5525776)
easy tiger!
im not making an excuse for him.
it takes two to tango, 15 year old girls know right from wrong these days.

I know that, I was a 15 year old girl once but what I'm saying is, as a 30 year old, married teacher, it was his responsibility not to cross the line with a girl of that age and a student

thesheriff443 04-10-2012 10:41 AM

schools these days work like the police there must be real evidence before anything can be done!

thesheriff443 04-10-2012 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5525786)
I know that, I was a 15 year old girl once but what I'm saying is, as a 30 year old, married teacher, it was his responsibility not to cross the line with a girl of that age and a student

but he did cross the line!
are these the actions of a mature adult?

Niamh. 04-10-2012 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 5525791)
but he did cross the line!
are these the actions of a mature adult?

Making excuses again I see, a bit of prison time might mature him up a bit :idc:

thesheriff443 04-10-2012 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5525792)
Making excuses again I see, a bit of prison time might mature him up a bit :idc:

how am i making excuses by asking you a question?

Livia 04-10-2012 10:48 AM

Fifteen year olds think they're grown. They want all the freedoms, they want to dress how they want, have access to all kinds of stuff that people their age didn't have access to even ten years ago. The line between child and woman is getting more blurred all the time. That's not to say I don't think what the bloke did was wrong... it totally was. But the girl needs to take some responsibility for her own involvement and stop being viewed as 100% victim. She was not abducted.

Niamh. 04-10-2012 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 5525799)
Fifteen year olds think they're grown. They want all the freedoms, they want to dress how they want, have access to all kinds of stuff that people their age didn't have access to even ten years ago. The line between child and woman is getting more blurred all the time. That's not to say I don't think what the bloke did was wrong... it totally was. But the girl needs to take some responsibility for her own involvement and stop being viewed as 100% victim. She was not abducted.

No, I agree with that to point but at 15 she may think she knows it all but it's not until she gets a bit older she'll realise that she didn't and parents and teachers have a responsibility to know this and try to help and protect her till then. So what he, as her teacher did was very, very wrong imo

Niamh. 04-10-2012 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 5525795)
how am i making excuses by asking you a question?

:pipe:

thesheriff443 04-10-2012 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 5525799)
Fifteen year olds think they're grown. They want all the freedoms, they want to dress how they want, have access to all kinds of stuff that people their age didn't have access to even ten years ago. The line between child and woman is getting more blurred all the time. That's not to say I don't think what the bloke did was wrong... it totally was. But the girl needs to take some responsibility for her own involvement and stop being viewed as 100% victim. She was not abducted.

great post,
if you listen to ten year olds in the park, im shocked at what i hear.
you only have to look at the clothes they sell these days for ten year olds
these days to see how things have changed.

thesheriff443 04-10-2012 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5525805)
:pipe:

what is with you mods lately!
you like to put your opinion across but when you get questioned you go all!
im above this!

thesheriff443 04-10-2012 11:01 AM

you cant run with the fox and hunt with the hounds!

Niamh. 04-10-2012 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 5525813)
you cant run with the fox and hunt with the hounds!

Never send a fox to mind the chickens :pipe:

thesheriff443 04-10-2012 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5525818)
Never send a fox to mind the chickens :pipe:

you can if he has all teeth pulled out!

Niamh. 04-10-2012 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 5525823)
you can if he has all teeth pulled out!

Interesting

Vicky. 04-10-2012 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5525717)
Are you serious? Of course they would, teachers are not allowed to get involved with their students, I'd go mental if my daughter was 16 and her teacher ran off with her.

Maybe the disappearing to france part. But my mate was shagging her teacher at college (she WAS 17 though, not 16) for years and everyone knew about it, and he still teaches there to this day.

Niamh. 04-10-2012 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 5525841)
Maybe the disappearing to france part. But my mate was shagging her teacher at college (she WAS 17 though, not 16) for years and everyone knew about it, and he still teaches there to this day.

That's wrong though imo, you wait till Sky(e) is 15 :joker:

Nedusa 04-10-2012 11:20 AM

Hard to know what charges if any this guy will have to answer to, she was not abducted and will never testify to that end so they would have a job proving child abduction, she can make a statement stating she went willingly and that so sexual intercourse took place thus eliminating any charges of a sexual nature. So whats left in regard to a criminal prosecution ?

He will certainly lose his job and his abilty to seek future work as a teacher as the breach of trust will almost certainly be classed as Gross misconduct.

Interesting to see if any court case arises from this.

Vicky. 04-10-2012 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5525843)
That's wrong though imo, you wait till Sky(e) is 15 :joker:

Oh I know its wrong. Was just saying I doubt there would be so much fuss if she was older :p

That said I guess if someone had gone to the papers about the guy my mate was shagging maybe there would have been a fuss over it, who knows...he was only like 10 years older than her...but still was her teacher. He was really ****ing hot though, not that that makes a difference :laugh:


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