Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10055717)

It's all down to fake news and perception, the forum is fine, it's just people have got into a habit of blaming SD for all the forums woes and obviously people are happy to run with that as it absolves themselves of any responsibility of how they behave

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 10055832)

Well of course you don’t see cheerleading as a problem with SD Kaz lol. It’s three quarters of the posts that you make there. It is seen as a problem though because it’s childish and causes hostility.

Using this most recent example
Cherie: people are envious
Withano: people are not envious
LT: when did you speak for everyone withano
Chuff: excellent joke LT

Its kinda hard to give your post any weight, if the squad cant see how utterly ridiculous you regularly portray yourself with an example that transparent, then its beyond the help you can receive from me.

In summary, SD is incredibly unpopular, and the reasons why is very clearly detailed in this thread on purpose, and on accident. Read through it if you want.

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 10055841)

Whilst we are on personal insults on how we should be posting,maybe you should know how utterly hostile and unfriendly you come over, I don't want you to give my post any weight,and I don't need your permission to do so,you can carry on with your 'squad' talk, it's quite obviously said to stop us all posting on the same topic,well it wont work,maybe you should just lighten up,have a laugh and let people do the same, :cheer::cheer:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 10055846)

You're the one implying people who take part in ML are ego-driven... and now this.. there is a gang of cheerleaders, they do come across as childish, their cheers do cause hostility, and it is a problem with SD.

I don’t know how I can be clearer.

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 10055892)

I still think you are just asking for your posts to get more love. Kaz have you good advice there tbh. Be nicer and not so hostile

:shrug:

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 10055840)

No. SD is to blame for problems in SD. The chat thread is to blame for problems in the chat thread etc etc.

Stop altering what people are saying because you've taken criticism of SD so personally that you simply must defend it.

You were allowed your opinions about the modding being a problem, other people are entitled to theirs.

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 10055841)

Whilst we are on personal insults on how we should be posting,maybe you should know how utterly hostile and unfriendly you come over, I don't want you to give my post any weight,and I don't need your permission to do so,you can carry on with your 'squad' talk, it's quite obviously said to stop us all posting on the same topic,well it wont work,maybe you should just lighten up,have a laugh and let people do the same, :cheer::cheer:

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10055942)

I'm not defensive at all, I can categorically say that I have never told anyone to go back to chat and games, and that goes for 99 per cent of SD posters as well, and if you were told that it was probably in jest

I can respond just the same as you can, no need to keep calling me defensive trying to get a rise

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 10055964)

You are defensive. Incredibly defensive.

I haven't said you can't respond?

Trying to get a rise? No. I And many others are making their thoughts known. You didn't mind when the modding was the topic of such honesty.

You can speak on behalf of 99 per cent of SD posters? You've read and taken part in every SD discussion and seen every single post made by every single poster to come to this amazing conclusion? Everyone else is wrong because Cherie herself doesn't see a problem?

Again, it doesn't work like that.

In all the back and forth we've had you've yet to actually respond with anything concrete to what I originally posted about SD that you disagreed with so probably best to leave it there.

Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 10055830)

...ehm, ehm...what about lbgt subforum? maybe Maru's right and we need something different from the usual, and go love/relationships/psychology route? Hopefully there'd be less bickering there?

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10056002)

You are trying to get a rise by continually saying I am defensive, I read most of the SD threads as it is the only forum I use in off season so yes I think I have an idea of what happen in there, probably more than you do in fact

Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 10055830)

...ehm, ehm...what about lbgt subforum? maybe Maru's right and we need something different from the usual, and go love/relationships/psychology route? Hopefully there'd be less bickering there?

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10056002)

You are trying to get a rise by continually saying I am defensive, I read most of the SD threads as it is the only forum I use in off season so yes I think I have an idea of what happen in there, probably more than you do in fact

Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 10055830)

...ehm, ehm...what about lbgt subforum? maybe Maru's right and we need something different from the usual, and go love/relationships/psychology route? Hopefully there'd be less bickering there?

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 10056031)

Except I'm giving my experience of SD.

I'm not speaking for other people unlike you.

Defend your mates all you want it doesn't change facts.

And yes I will say you're defensive. What other word is there for you jumping to SD's defence when something is said about it?

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 10055832)

Well of course you don’t see cheerleading as a problem with SD Kaz lol. It’s three quarters of the posts that you make there. It is seen as a problem though because it’s childish and causes hostility.

Using this most recent example
Cherie: people are envious
Withano: people are not envious
LT: when did you speak for everyone withano
Chuff: excellent joke LT

Its kinda hard to give your post any weight, if the squad cant see how utterly ridiculous you regularly portray yourself with an example that transparent, then its beyond the help you can receive from me.

In summary, SD is incredibly unpopular, and the reasons why is very clearly detailed in this thread on purpose, and on accident. Read through it if you want.

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10056149)

You my dear are by far the most hostile member on here !! you admitted (Comment 6 ) that you only came on to see what you were missing ,no doubt to pick the bones of someones comment ,ANYONE who goes in ML does it for one reason............ to see if their little childish group backs them ,I and others don't need that pat on the back as we already have it in our homes

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10055944)

glass houses etc

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 10056016)

Many people from the same gang are having trouble seeing and understanding the issues...


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:think:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 10047068)

Main reason I entered the thread tbh

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10056161)

I rest my case :dance::joker::cheer2::nono::wavey::conf::shrug::s hocked::laugh::hehe::blush::bawling::fist::hee:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 10056168)

That was my response to ‘imagine the breakdowns from certain members’

Completely forgot about that :joker:

If anybody wants the future told, pm me.

Damn, should have guessed which exact members they were too, pretty sure i would have got it 100% accurate

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10056149)

You my dear are by far the most hostile member on here !! you admitted (Comment 6 ) that you only came on to see what you were missing ,no doubt to pick the bones of someones comment ,ANYONE who goes in ML does it for one reason............ to see if their little childish group backs them ,I and others don't need that pat on the back as we already have it in our homes

Originally Posted by Twosugars (Post 10056226)

are you saying there that those who take part in Most Loved do it "to see if their little childish group backs them" ?

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 10056266)

Why would YOU go in it ? Its always baffled me to be honest, but then again Ive never felt insecure in my home life :shrug: