thats because you want all opposing views or opinions that make you question anything banned by the radical liberals

Did you choose your sexuality?

You can easily just get out of bed one morning and decide to try your luck with boys. Its not hard. That obviously comes under 'making a choice' like evander tried to say.
Im not defending him but in bits he was talking abit of sense.

I've not even stated my opinion on whether or not Evander was entitled to that opinion or not so I'd advise you actually try READING my posts before you jump to conclusions.

All I've simply said is that Sexuality is not a choice and it's very comparable to issues of race, which it is.

Of course I did ,I chose to marry a man

You could. You could make the choice now if you wanted to..easy enough done

I do not for one minute believe that the majority of gay people choose to be. But I do think these days some people chose to be gay as its seen to be the 'in' thing. Kinda like how 5 years ago everyone was bi, then when it wasnt trendy anymore, you never heard of bi people anymore :laugh:

I was just stating what i know from my experience and the knowledge i've personally absorbed in my lifetime. I never said "this is how it is in every single case for every single person!".
Without writing a whole page on the subject people have to generalize to a certain extent.

That's what we call living a lie, being in denial, etc etc

no its not comparable at all.....also to say its not a choice? who are you speaking for? yourself ? or every gay person on the planet? why are you allowed to express a view and evander isnt?

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so youre allowed to generalize and offer an opinion, but evander isnt? fair?

whoever does stuff like that in order to be cool or whatever is clearly not actually gay so it doesn't speak for the gay community and it's not relevant to anything

The gay community does have differing opinions though. We are not all one mind, one voice.

Never said it spoke for the gay community..even said in the same post that the huge majority of gay people are born gay... But some people DO make the choice.

Very true

who are you to say who speaks for the gay community? who are you to judge other peoples choices and behaviour? youre being as judgemental as those who criticize gay people now. ps why are you allowed an opinion on this matter and evander isnt?

Seems you are meant to be though. Come on Benjamin, join the ranks fgs :bored:

Choosing to marry a man isn't the same as choosing to be turned on by men.

Again, making a conscious decision and saying "I'm straight" is entirely different from choosing what gives you an erection or turns you on.

But mate, your still choosing..
Lie or no lie you are choosing.

Let me use you as an example, dont take offence to this but just a harmless example.
You could be straight right now because you choose not to be gay.
True or false?
Either way you choose your sexuality because if you want to be gay you can bloody be gay? If you choose not to be gay, you choose to go for girls and now especially if you like both sex's you CHOOSE to be bloody bisexual.

What people are getting mixed up is the feelings. You dont choose your feelings of course but you choose your sexuality, lie or not, that is the truth.

I disagree, sure you could sleep with someone of the same sex just like you could sleep with someone of the opposite sex who isn't attractive to you. Sex is Sex but you can't change your sexuality.

Simply saying that you're straight/gay/bi is different to actually being any of those things.

How are we created? Male mates with female. How is that ignorant?

This is what annoys me. A lot of younger gays (sorry to generalise here) seem to think that we should all think the same and if we don't then we must be ignorant and/or support homophobia.

Evander got warned for having an opinion on his beliefs but if the shoe was on the other foot and an individual claimed homosexuality was 'normal' should that individual in turn be warned? If not why not when that individual could possibly have 'offended' people of which are religious?

The world has gone PC mad, Evander was neither malicious or nasty, it was quite plainly an opinion that he had and shared. Whether he is right or wrong does not come into the discussion.

When did i say Evander isn't ?
I said in my first post on the subject that he IS entitled to his opinion but that i disagree strongly with it.
So you're saying that nobody is allowed to comment on anything unless they're prepared to write a complete thesis on the subject are you ? Like you do you mean........:rolleyes: