No. But then nobody gets introduced as "Ciswoman/man". So what exactly is your point?

I am not sure :conf2:

No, they really haven't.

You're still a woman. The word cis just denotes a woman born as such when discussing trans topics. The same as white woman when discussing race/skin colour related topics, heterosexual woman when discussing sexualities.

That's literally all there is to it. You're making a bigger deal out of it than it actually is.

I personally don't have an issue with the term "cis" to describe me. I can't think of an instance in my day to day life where I would ever use or where it would be used in my direction but if it was I wouldn't take offense. If it was thrown at me as an insult "cis scum" I would take offense but probably no more than if any insult is thrown at me.

I would hope noone would be rude enough to use that abhorrent term

Well exactly. Anything can be used as an insult if you stick a derogatory word after it.

The fuss being made about it is what's marginalising people, not the words themselves.

But, I imagine offence is automatically taken by a lot of people in regards to this topic, so they will automatically find offence by anything to do with it.

Indeed.......

Yeah I think that's why I don't like the term because anytime I've seen it (other than when we've talked in this forum) it's been used in an insulting and derogatory manner and also everytime I've seen it used in this way it's been used towards women which is why it' seems to me ore of womens issue rather than mens

Went to a Germaine Greer lecture years ago. She was promoting her book "about a boy", it was about art celebrating the beauty of young male body.
Her point was that women should reclaim the appreciation of fit males from gay men.
She also touched on trans issues, needless to say, she was very critical.
Had a word with her afterwards, her hostility or maybe suspicion of gays and trans was clear.
It is what it is. I can understand why women can feel suspicious and uneasy. After all, men have dominated their gender for, like, ever and things like drag queens, trans etc can be seen as invading their only safe space, their womanhood. And it doesn't matter that some of us may think trans progress is not a threat to womanhood.
If women, some or majority, feel this way, it has to be accepted and addressed. The bottome line is we can't have sexual progress at the real or perceived expense of women.
Both genders, but women in particular, need to be okay with whatever is done is that area. Imho.

There also can't be progress with women stubbornly refusing progress despite even the times they don't understand it or refuse to understand it, and shouting down any male who dares to speak.

She always was an irrational person.

Still, a common ground has to be found.
I would change the term cis if it's not accepted. And forget about self-identification and only take into account gender-reassigment surgery.

lol, she is "hardline", no question.

I know I said I would not post in here again, but I came across this article that I think fits really well here, especially with how the conversation has progressed.

https://fairplayforwomen.com/misogyny_hate_silencing/

Especially

And for my point earlier, about supposed 'male lesbians'

NOW I will no longer post in here. But there is a very real problem right now, and burying heads in the sand about it, or even actively joining in with the silencing of women, is anything but progressive. Its regressive.

I don't think changing the word would help. People are taking issue with having any word full stop. For reasons that still haven't been explained.

There are a lot who support you on this Vicki. Don't let them drive you away from SD!

Who's driving Vicky away from anywhere?

I did explain the reason i personally didn't like it.

Then I appear to have missed your post. :laugh:

That is beyond bad, I had no idea as I don't follow the topic properly.

Don't leave the convo, Vicky.

Here you go -

i will explain clearly why i think the cis description is entirely unnecessary. It is only in existence because the trans community want to be classified without distinction as being men or women. So they want unequivocal inclusion in those categories. The reality is that there is a distinction, so they have created the term cis and put everyone else in that bucket. So, in effect, they have removed the simple status of man and woman from those who were born as such and identify as such. With that being the basis of the distinction, it's just not going to be acceptable to the majority.

But isn't that like taking issue with the word "Irish" to describe your nationality? Just because some people might choose to try to offend you by adding insults before or after it?

Seems odd that a fairly innocuous word is being picked out because some not very nice people add insults after it.

I've heard "Hetero scum" a few times, it doesn't change what heterosexual means though.

Coming back to the new legislation about self identifying, exactly how can this work if I can the day after the law is passed put on a mans suit and tie walk into some longstanding all men's club and they have to accept me? as it stands at the moment (and I didn't know this until this morning) under the equality any man dressed in female clothes can access women's changing rooms and toilets, I really don't think this has been thought through properly at all.

It's not though. You think cis means that men and women are separated by women/ciswomen and men/cismen? So transpeople are taking men/women for themselves and we are all left with cis? :joker: No. It's men and women of which there are cis/trans within each.

Mountain out of molehill.

Now that I agree with.

And it flies in the face of all of the uproar we have had over gender stereotypes in regards to clothes, children's toys, colours where they shouldn't be associated with any particular gender anyway. So a woman in trousers being a man is so unprogressive and dated it's laughable. :joker:

I was explaining why I personally have a negative association with the word because before I ever heard the word on it's own as a descriptor or whatever it was put forward to me as being an insult

I knew what the words Irish and Hetero were and meant on there own before I ever heard them put together with an insult, if you get what I mean?

This is just my own personal experience btw, i'm not speaking for anyone else in here