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LaLaLand 16-02-2023 04:45 AM

This is such a peculiar case, and the fact that suddenly she's being painted as this menopausal alcoholic (not my words, horrible) is even stranger with regards to her disappearance.

IF someone has somehow taken/done something to her, this just makes their life a whole lot easier because it just screams to me that nobody official has even a single shred of an idea where she is or what happened. Zero, nothing. Literally vanished into thin air. Scary.

arista 16-02-2023 04:58 AM

I would say she was not drinking
on the School Run.

If some Evil Man has her
he must love the Police
who are still searching the River/Sea

bots 16-02-2023 06:52 AM

either way, the woman is still missing and no-one seems to have a clue what happened to her. You would have to be very callous not to feel for her family

Zizu 16-02-2023 07:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 11262259)
either way, the woman is still missing and no-one seems to have a clue what happened to her. You would have to be very callous not to feel for her family


^ THIS^


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AnnieK 16-02-2023 07:23 AM

There must be some logic to releasing that information, otherwise it's nothing but cruel to Nicola and her family. I can't think what it could be but you have to hope that they are not just doing it to cover up some of the woeful work they seem to have been doing.

bots 16-02-2023 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11262262)
There must be some logic to releasing that information, otherwise it's nothing but cruel to Nicola and her family. I can't think what it could be but you have to hope that they are not just doing it to cover up some of the woeful work they seem to have been doing.

i think they did it to show that whatever happened to her may have been affected by her not thinking clearly

thesheriff443 16-02-2023 07:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 11262266)
i think they did it to show that whatever happened to her may have been affected by her not thinking clearly

Absolutely
It’s to show this woman could of taken her own life

The police have some very intelligent men and women working for them

Cherie 16-02-2023 08:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 11262266)
i think they did it to show that whatever happened to her may have been affected by her not thinking clearly

Yes I think they are trying to quell the media speculation and tic tok detectives who were relentless, the detective said she had never known anything like it in 29 years of being on the force and it was a distraction as it seems they were getting a lot of false information and rumours, whilst it is horrible it makes more sense why she would enter the water while previous to this it seemed illogical, just awful for her family

GoldHeart 16-02-2023 08:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AnnieK (Post 11262262)
There must be some logic to releasing that information, otherwise it's nothing but cruel to Nicola and her family. I can't think what it could be but you have to hope that they are not just doing it to cover up some of the woeful work they seem to have been doing.

I don't know if there's any logic in it , and why were we not told from the beginning that Nicola was " High risk" :conf: :suspect: .

arista 16-02-2023 09:16 AM

Police were called to their home,
some time ago.


So there must have been a Fight
going on or something

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 09:30 AM

She may have attempted suicide before and hence "vulnerabilities" and why the police are obsessed with the river

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 09:36 AM


arista 16-02-2023 11:13 AM

An Ex Chief Police Lady
has stated the information
about her health, may have been put out
as they could close down the search
soon

Ch5HD PM Live Extra

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 11:41 AM

I wonder why the boyfriend did not tell Peter Faulding that she had "vulnerabilities" why the police did not?

He says it would have made his search completely different

arista 16-02-2023 11:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11262336)
I wonder why the boyfriend did not tell Peter Faulding that she had "vulnerabilities" why the police did not?

He says it would have made his search completely different


Yes The Police Told the Family
they were going to mention this

GoldHeart 16-02-2023 12:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by arista (Post 11262326)
An Ex Chief Police Lady
has stated the information
about her health, may have been put out
as they could close down the search
soon

Ch5HD PM Live Extra

I don't think it's going to help , feels like a stretch. It seems her personal issues are just put out there for the sake of it ....as the police don't have a clue what's happened to her.

It's like when Claudia the Chef from York went missing ,and a tabloid basically printed rubbish about all her previous 'partners' or something. It had nothing to do with the investigation. And to this day we still don't know what happened to poor Claudia!! .

But it's always difficult when people aren't around to defend themselves,and all sorts of theories, fantasies, half truths to pure speculation is said about them.

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 12:49 PM


Cherie 16-02-2023 01:28 PM

Well the family have put a statement out now, they approved the statement released by the police as someone was threatening to sell a story to the press....nice people out there eh....

"Although we know that Nikki would not have wanted this, there are people out there speculating and threatening to sell stories about her. This is appalling and needs to stop.



Nicola Bulley's family have lashed out at "speculation and rumours into her private life" in a new statement issued through Lancashire Police. The plea comes after Lancashire Police faced a furious backlash for disclosing the 45-year-old suffered "some significant issues with alcohol" in the past, which had resurfaced over recent months. On Wednesday, senior officers from the force held a press conference. They said Ms Bulley was "vulnerable" and classed by police as a "high-risk" missing person immediately after her partner Paul Ansell reported her disappearance.


The family of the 45-year-old - who has been missing since January 27 - said in a statement through Lancashire Police: "As a family, we were aware beforehand that Lancashire Police, last night, released a statement with some personal details about our Nikki.

"Although we know that Nikki would not have wanted this, there are people out there speculating and threatening to sell stories about her. This is appalling and needs to stop.


"The police know the truth about Nikki and now the public need to focus on finding her.

"Due to the peri menopause Nikki suffered with significant side effects such as brain fog, restless sleep and was taking HRT to help but this was giving her intense headaches which caused Nikki to stop taking the HRT thinking that may have helped her but only ended up causing this crisis.

"The public focus has to be on finding her and not making up wild theories about her personal life.

"Despite what some media outlets and individuals are suggesting, we are being updated daily and receive support from our family liaison officers.

"Nikki is such a wonderful daughter, sister , partner and mother and is missed dearly - we all need you back in our lives.

"Nikki, we hope you are reading this and know that we love you so much and your girls want a cuddle. We all need you home. You can reach out to us, or you can contact MissingPeople.org.uk. Don't be scared, we all love you so very much."

Cherie 16-02-2023 01:40 PM

Please God she comes home .....

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 02:19 PM

Around 13,000,000 women in the UK are currently going through menopause at the moment

Cherie 16-02-2023 02:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11262415)
Around 13,000,000 women in the UK are currently going through menopause at the moment

No every woman will have the same symptoms, Nicola was on HRT but it gave her headaches, so she came off it and her symptoms returned, it can cause brain fog, anxiety and depression plus if she came off it in one it hit these symptoms would have hit her like a ton of bricks

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 02:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11262416)
No every woman will have the same symptoms, Nicola was on HRT but it gave her headaches, so she came off it and her symptoms returned, it can cause brain fog, anxiety and depression plus if she came off it in one it hit these symptoms would have hit her like a ton of bricks

I am sure like probably millions of women in the UK so why mention this in relation to her disappearance? What do they imply?

AnnieK 16-02-2023 02:37 PM

It does feel a bit like victim blaming like when they report a rape victim has on a revealing outfit.

I echo Cherie's sentiment that I hope she comes home :sad:

bots 16-02-2023 02:41 PM

the police act like there has never been speculation over an unexplained event ever in the past. Everybody does it all the time, and there has never been a more stupid statement than don't speculate.

The police have put this information out because they know the have made a pigs ear of the investigation and they are trying to deflect

Cherie 16-02-2023 02:46 PM

Its not victim blaming at all, her mental health issues have been caused by the menopause and that is relevant in that she is normally stable...bit like when women can have issues around their period due to hormonal changes....they didnt want to put out the statement but due to the lowlife who was threatening to go to the press they had to

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 02:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11262420)
Its not victim blaming at all, her mental health issues have been caused by the menopause and that is relevant in that she is normally stable...bit like when women can have issues around their period due to hormonal changes....they didnt want to put out the statement but due to the lowlife who was threatening to go to the press they had to


If it has no bearing on the case then why do the Police care if it gets into the press?

If it has a bearing on the case (like she had stated she felt suicidal) then that should have been disclosed to explain their fixation on the river?

Cherie 16-02-2023 02:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11262423)
If it has no bearing on the case then why do the Police care if it gets into the press?

If it has a bearing on the case (like she had stated she felt suicidal) then that should have been disclosed to explain their fixation on the river?

I believe the family directed the police to issue the statement about vulnerabilities and the follow up statement and this was to prevent someone getting a payday for selling the story.....I am sure they will still try to sell it but the main gist is out there now

bots 16-02-2023 02:53 PM

it's also a pretty important fact in it all that the police visited her house the week before she disappeared. Why was that not considered relevant

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 02:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 11262426)
it's also a pretty important fact in it all that the police visited her house the week before she disappeared. Why was that not considered relevant

I think the partners black eye could relate to that?

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 03:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11262431)
I think the partners black eye could relate to that?

https://cdn.jwplayer.com/v2/media/YD....jpg?width=480

"stop speculating LT :oh:"

bots 16-02-2023 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11262434)

the dog can't talk you know :fist:

AnnieK 16-02-2023 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 11262420)
Its not victim blaming at all, her mental health issues have been caused by the menopause and that is relevant in that she is normally stable...bit like when women can have issues around their period due to hormonal changes....they didnt want to put out the statement but due to the lowlife who was threatening to go to the press they had to

Ahhhh I didn't realise that bit. Makes more sense now to come from the Police with the family's knowledge then.

arista 16-02-2023 04:43 PM

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/02...6567938415.jpg


https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-failings.html

arista 16-02-2023 05:06 PM

Lancashire Police have now referred
themselves to the Watchdog



SkyNewsHD Live

bots 16-02-2023 05:34 PM

i don't know why it's appalling that people are speculating and trying to sell stories. Both have happened for as long as i can remember and it's not breaking any law

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 11262494)
i don't know why it's appalling that people are speculating and trying to sell stories. Both have happened for as long as i can remember and it's not breaking any law

the faux moral outrage on Twitter is so tiring

arista 16-02-2023 06:26 PM

[Nicola Bulley: Stopping menopause drugs
'ended up causing this crisis', family says


The family's statement comes as Lancashire Police
faces criticism for disclosing that the
mother-of-two suffered
"some significant issues with alcohol"
in the past brought on by
"ongoing struggles with the menopause".]

https://news.sky.com/story/nicola-bu...-says-12812469

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 06:28 PM

that deliberately vague language helps no one

and will only create more speculation

more PR disaster moves - who is advising them??

Crimson Dynamo 16-02-2023 07:50 PM


arista 16-02-2023 10:19 PM

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