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Originally Posted by Jake.
(Post 6753764)
I think a female might be interested in me, this is a rare occurrence :think:
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..:lovedup:..that sounds like a young lady with exceptional taste to me, Jake...
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Originally Posted by Z
(Post 6753964)
Is there anything worse than a friendship that ceases to exist when that person gets into a relationship? Because on the one hand you're happy for them but on the other hand if that relationship ends the friend comes crawling back and depending on the length of the relationship, they might not have been there for any of you for months or years even.
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Originally Posted by Z
(Post 6753975)
My best friend (since we were 12) broke up with his girlfriend a couple of months ago, they'd gone out for 2 years and as happy as I was for him, I just couldn't warm to her, she never tried to get to know any of his friends and would spend all of her time with him so he just never spent any time with us... and now they've split up and we speak every day like we used to before she was on the scene and I'm happy about that, obviously, but my life's moved on a lot in the last two years and I'm sort of wondering whether, after enough time has passed, if I should say something about how ****ty it was to just drop all of his friends for that long and to just reappear like nothing happened :/
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,,I'm not sure it would achieve anything by saying something though, would it..?..I mean it wouldn't change anything that's happened and I think with anyone in your life/friends etc...you just have to make a decision about now and about whether you want that person as a friend and part of your life because we're all flawed and maybe it wasn't the best way to handle his friendship/s when he met someone..but then everyone is different when they meet someone they really care about...some people just become totally absorbed in their feelings and that person and that's all they see..and I don't think it's an intentional thing to exclude friends, it's just that they don't always have the capabilities to manage different relationships all at the same time ...hmmmm, I just think that mentioning it now won't really achieve anything and when he meets someone again, the same thing could happen..all we can do is to decide whether we want that friendship 'warts and all'...or whether we feel that person isn't someone we want in our lives.....
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