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Originally Posted by Zee
(Post 6597096)
Uch he just gets ideas in his head because his friends will say things and when he's drunk he fixates on something and won't drop it, one of his friends said that at his job, they normally get graduates sending in CVs at this time of year, so my dad comes home and is all "you should be applying for jobs now, why aren't you" even though I spoke about it just two weeks ago, he clearly wasn't listening... meh. At any rate my mum knows what my plans are and why I'm doing/not doing certain things and she's supportive, he's just drunk and looking for an argument :laugh:
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..I think that quite often, People do get fixated on stuff/smaller things etc and maybe stuff that their friends say when maybe their minds could really be avoiding bigger stuff that they don't want to think about..?...and it's always negative stuff as well..I don't know really, Zee..I obviously don't know your dad at all and he could just be concerned about your future and maybe you missing out on a job but his communication comes out wrong, that might just be the type of person he is...but I would say that if his complaint is that you're not applying for jobs now because he's heard that's the thing you should be doing..?...well, I think that's pretty good going in that you must be a pretty good son and person if that's the worst of it...I know that's no consolation and it's pretty crumby...but well, families eh..:hug:...
..whether you start applying for something today or in 6 months or whenever, I think you'll get the right job for you, which is the important thing and so the time will always be right...
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