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Kizzy 22-07-2013 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 6199229)
Mary Whitehouse would have also opposed gay marriage, I think she was a despicable woman who is a prime example of religious intolerance masquerading as morality. I agree that the porn industry ought to be regulated, but why should we be screened and vetted to access something legal? If I want to watch a man and a woman have sex, or a woman and a woman, or a man and a man, or a group of people, all take part in consensual sex; and I am an adult in all authorities, why should that be taken away from me because there are people under the age of 18 with an internet connection in this country?

Surely the size of the porn industry tells you something about how ridiculous this measure is. Freedom of information goes right out the window. I should be able to look up pornography if I want to do so - providing it was made by consenting adults and is all legally sound. Of course it's a question of being a prude - how long do you propose we protect children's innocence for? Until they're 18? Until they're going to get married to their virgin husband or bride to be? Indefinitely, because they are not sexual beings? Yes, it is wrong that 9 year old children can be exposed to all sorts of sexual imagery at a young age - but it's EVERYWHERE in our culture, let's not put porn on a pedestal just because it's the most basic form. Music, music videos, film, television, advertising, talk shows... it's glamorised and it's all around us.

You make it sound like people accidentally right click their mouse and it somehow warps them into a world of porn with no way out. Yes, sometimes you click on adverts that accidentally take you to porn sites - but that's a problem with advertising; that ought to be banned. I can't think of another way you would "accidentally" end up on a porn site. Either you clicked an advert by mistake or you were looking for porn. There are countless ad-blocker softwares that are used for a variety of reasons - I have one on my Firefox because it makes pages run faster if I have adverts blocked. Let's not pretend that the internet invented porn and talk about morality - the Victorians were absolute filth; there were syphilis epidemics because people were so repressed by society that they did everything behind closed doors and nobody spoke about things in an honest way. There has never been a time in human history where we've stopped being sexually active; or else we wouldn't all be here today. Sex is part of life, because it creates life, and trying to make depictions of sex disappear seems like such a silly waste of time that I wonder if they're just having a bit of a boring Monday in 10 Downing Street and if this isn't all some kind of warped joke.

It's unfair to second guess the views of a woman who died before you were born zee, the problem of hardcore porn flooding the internet has become an issue that needs addressing this seems to be the message.
Not sure what your problem with the Victorians is, you seem to have it in for them :joker:
Thanks to philanthropists of that era we are having this conversation today, the improvements to society are fluid. Then it was medicine and housing that maintained an ordered society... today it is ensuring the vulnerable are safeguarded with regulations on internet access.

Z 22-07-2013 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 6199396)
It's unfair to second guess the views of a woman who died before you were born zee, the problem of hardcore porn flooding the internet has become an issue that needs addressing this seems to be the message.
Not sure what your problem with the Victorians is, you seem to have it in for them :joker:
Thanks to philanthropists of that era we are having this conversation today, the improvements to society are fluid. Then it was medicine and housing that maintained an ordered society... today it is ensuring the vulnerable are safeguarded with regulations on internet access.

She prosecuted Gay News because it published a poem about a Roman Centurion having an erotic fantasy about Jesus Christ. That woman loved nothing more than oppressing people under the name of morality, I think it's safe to say she would have furiously opposed gay marriage. I wasn't the one to bring her up, but either way it was a throwaway comment.

Margaret Thatcher harped on about wanting a return to Victorian values and she ended up creating the yuppie generation which led to today's culture. David Cameron is similarly seeking to send us back to the dark ages; and I just used the Victorians as an example because that's what Thatcher wanted. These are the same people that sectioned people with syphilis and left them to die in "sanitoriums" rather than admit that everyone was randy and getting it on with prostitutes and multiple partners and that's how diseases were spread. They were blaming everything from fresh air to the work of the devil before they were blaming themselves, so that's why I'm particularly opposed to viewing the Victorian era as being some kind of morally perfect era that we should be harking back to...

And I agree that the vulnerable should be safeguarded... by having their parents and guardians block their access to porn, rather than the other way round! I don't know why this is even up for debate. The idea is a good one but it's been approached in the completely wrong way. It's not difficult to track down households with people under the age of 18 living in them. Apply this to all of those households that have internet access; and thereafter it is down to the parents to take risks regarding smart phones, letting their children stay over at friends' houses and generally going out and growing up. What more can they do? This doesn't even cover a fraction of the ways that people can share nude images. Text messages, blogs, instant messaging services, personal databases ("wank banks") being swapped, a black market for porn... and don't think for a second that it wouldn't happen, because it would. The citizens of the USSR relied heavily on black market culture to get through life; if you knew how to fix machinery you could arrange to fix something for a bag of rice or a loaf of bread. We of course live in a much more developed country, but the concept is the same. Whether it be straight up cash for porn swaps or something less savoury like swapping sexual favours for porn, there are a plethora of problems that come with something as extreme as this.

Z 22-07-2013 11:52 PM

How easy would it be to switch this to:

Question 1: Are there any occupants in your home or people who regularly use your internet connection who are under the age of 18? Yes/No

(If No) End of questionnaire. No further action taken. (No one individual should be allowed to decide on the behalf of the rest of the household)

(If Yes) Question 2: Do you wish to restrict access to adult material (link to a list of what is considered adult material) in your household? Yes/No

(If Yes) Material is blocked.
(If No) Onus has firmly been placed upon someone to choose; they have opted not to do so.

Some form of identification should be required to verify the decision, but it should only be binding if it can be proven that the person completing the form is doing so to protect someone under the age of 18 and isn't just doing it because they believe it's immoral to view pornography in spite of the wishes of the other members of the household. It's just so deeply flawed. I've already seen someone I know complain about how his deeply religious mother would not allow pornography in their house even though he's 22 and the youngest in his family. That shouldn't be acceptable in my opinion.

Kizzy 23-07-2013 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 6199503)
How easy would it be to switch this to:

Question 1: Are there any occupants in your home or people who regularly use your internet connection who are under the age of 18? Yes/No

(If No) End of questionnaire. No further action taken. (No one individual should be allowed to decide on the behalf of the rest of the household)

(If Yes) Question 2: Do you wish to restrict access to adult material (link to a list of what is considered adult material) in your household? Yes/No

(If Yes) Material is blocked.
(If No) Onus has firmly been placed upon someone to choose; they have opted not to do so.

Some form of identification should be required to verify the decision, but it should only be binding if it can be proven that the person completing the form is doing so to protect someone under the age of 18 and isn't just doing it because they believe it's immoral to view pornography in spite of the wishes of the other members of the household. It's just so deeply flawed. I've already seen someone I know complain about how his deeply religious mother would not allow pornography in their house even though he's 22 and the youngest in his family. That shouldn't be acceptable in my opinion.

Hang on... a person shouldn't be allowed to block it because of their personal beliefs?
Zee let's leave it, it's getting more complicated than it needs to be :laugh:

arista 23-07-2013 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Sticks (Post 6197895)
More from Picard and the STNG episode Drumhead



Yes Sticks
It has to start some place

Z 23-07-2013 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 6199800)
Hang on... a person shouldn't be allowed to block it because of their personal beliefs?
Zee let's leave it, it's getting more complicated than it needs to be :laugh:

In relation to other people living in the household. If you're living in a household with other adults and no children, you shouldn't be allowed to block access because you don't agree with it, each individual adult should have a say. It's only fair, it's affecting everyone in the country. And as I've said in previous posts in this thread, what exactly is going to be dubbed adult material? One person's 'art' is another person's 'porn', and one person's perception of 'hardcore' isn't anything to raise an eyebrow at to another. How would this even work in practice?

arista 23-07-2013 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Jack_ (Post 6195783)
'Victory for the Mail' how nauseating

They'll publish this article and then next on the sidebar will be 'leggy 14 year old looks good in dress as she steps out with her celebrity mum'

****ing ******s


Hows the Anger a day later
Jack.


Never Mind the the D.M


This is something thats was being built up
so Labour or Conserv-LibDem or even UKIP
its has to come in.


A Big Pop Up 5" x 8"
from your Internet Provider will Pop Up
in the next 12 months

Click

Yes to Legal Porn

Or No to Porn (family mode)



You can not escape it
until you click Yes or No


Why is it a Problem?

Z 23-07-2013 07:48 AM

It's a problem because they've put it on a "per household" basis rather than an individual one; and while it may be necessary to have to openly snoop on what people are up to (it's a badly kept secret that they monitor people anyway) I think it's very wrong and like something out of fiction that our government is bulldozing this measure through and telling us "this will happen" with no further discussion. We didn't vote for that.

arista 23-07-2013 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 6200211)
It's a problem because they've put it on a "per household" basis rather than an individual one; and while it may be necessary to have to openly snoop on what people are up to (it's a badly kept secret that they monitor people anyway) I think it's very wrong and like something out of fiction that our government is bulldozing this measure through and telling us "this will happen" with no further discussion. We didn't vote for that.


Hang on Zee
Lots to be Modified.

It can be to Each Laptop or Computer as well


And Many debates will happen in the next 12 months on this

Z 23-07-2013 07:56 AM

As things stand though arista, he has simply stated this will be an all-encompassing ban which is to be rolled out within the next 6 months with no apparent debate or attempt to consult the public; and evidently lots of people have got a problem with this decision for what it represents as well as it stopping people from watching porn, and plenty of those people have suggestions on how to improve existing technology or how to make this system less awkward - suggestions which won't be listened to because Mr Cameron has not asked for opinions, he's simply stating that this will happen, end of discussion.

Roy Mars III 23-07-2013 08:02 AM

won't stop anything. My parents wouldn't even let me use a computer when I was younger for fear of what I would see.

Paid a kid at school ten bucks to steal one of his dad's playboys for me when I was 12. If a kids want porn they'll find it

Won't effect me but regulation of the internet anywhere is a scary sight

arista 23-07-2013 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 6200219)
As things stand though arista, he has simply stated this will be an all-encompassing ban which is to be rolled out within the next 6 months with no apparent debate or attempt to consult the public; and evidently lots of people have got a problem with this decision for what it represents as well as it stopping people from watching porn, and plenty of those people have suggestions on how to improve existing technology or how to make this system less awkward - suggestions which won't be listened to because Mr Cameron has not asked for opinions, he's simply stating that this will happen, end of discussion.


Zee it does not work that Easy.

Its about stopping very young children watching porn.


And some USA sites like directv.to
do not show what you are viewing
so the IP is just directv (they know you are over 18)

Even though you are watching a JWplayer
showing 3 way porn or One on One

Z 23-07-2013 08:05 AM

Yes I know arista, but David Cameron has stated this in a "this is happening" factual manner, there is no hint of democratic debate in there at all and it makes me wonder how he's going to railroad this through government without asking the people of Britain first. If it's about stopping young children watching porn, why will 95% of households in the country be affected by this decision? Not every household has children living in it.

Cherie 23-07-2013 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Roy Mars III (Post 6200224)
won't stop anything. My parents wouldn't even let me use a computer when I was younger for fear of what I would see.

Paid a kid at school ten bucks to steal one of his dad's playboys for me when I was 12. If a kids want porn they'll find it


Won't effect me but regulation of the internet anywhere is a scary sight


You are missing the point though. Firstly you were 12 and curious and that is fine, lots of kids do stuff like that, what is not fine, is 5,6 7 8 9, or older depending on maturity googling fairly innocuous words and coming across stuff they shouldn't be seeing. A bit like a Top Shelf for the internet I suppose.

arista 23-07-2013 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 6200228)
Yes I know arista, but David Cameron has stated this in a "this is happening" factual manner, there is no hint of democratic debate in there at all and it makes me wonder how he's going to railroad this through government without asking the people of Britain first. If it's about stopping young children watching porn, why will 95% of households in the country be affected by this decision? Not every household has children living in it.


Yes Opt In



He has a fight on
so he will come over Banging his fist.

Cherie 23-07-2013 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 6200228)
Yes I know arista, but David Cameron has stated this in a "this is happening" factual manner, there is no hint of democratic debate in there at all and it makes me wonder how he's going to railroad this through government without asking the people of Britain first. If it's about stopping young children watching porn, why will 95% of households in the country be affected by this decision? Not every household has children living in it.


That is a very valid point.

Roy Mars III 23-07-2013 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 6200229)
You are missing the point though. Firstly you were 12 and curious and that is fine, lots of kids do stuff like that, what is not fine, is 5,6 7 8 9, or older depending on maturity googling fairly innocuous words and coming across stuff they shouldn't be seeing. A bit like a Top Shelf for the internet I suppose.

set up parental controls for your computer

Z 23-07-2013 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 6200229)
You are missing the point though. Firstly you were 12 and curious and that is fine, lots of kids do stuff like that, what is not fine, is 5,6 7 8 9, or older depending on maturity googling fairly innocuous words and coming across stuff they shouldn't be seeing. A bit like a Top Shelf for the internet I suppose.

But I just think it's such an impossible thing to measure. How do you measure a child's innocence or maturity levels? My best friend hit puberty in primary 7, aged 11, his voice was broken and he'd already started to develop into a young man the first day I met him - I didn't really hit puberty until I was 14 or 15 years old. We all develop at different rates that we have no control over and it's one thing for you and I to say that 12 years old is fine, but plenty of other people would say that's immoral because they aren't even teenagers yet - when we all know that "being a teenager" isn't a process that starts on your 13th birthday and ends on your 20th. It's just madness. I do agree that a "top shelf of the internet" makes sense, but it should be about discretion just as a person shouldn't have to declare who they are having sex with as soon as they start having sex with someone in real life; nor should you have to announce "I am going to masturbate!" whenever you feel like it, because that's exactly what this is asking the entire country to do.

Roy Mars III 23-07-2013 08:16 AM

read this somewhere else but it said that people are going to have to call their internet provider and tell them that they want porn unblocked for their computer.

Z 23-07-2013 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Roy Mars III (Post 6200245)
read this somewhere else but it said that people are going to have to call their internet provider and tell them that they want porn unblocked for their computer.

Which is completely outrageous.

Livia 23-07-2013 10:44 AM

David Cameron is furiously back-peddling already. Anti-censorship and sexual health organisations are already making noises and just as expected, another ill-thought through idea by Mr Cameron is going to fall on its face.

Parents really do need to step up to the plate and stop expecting everyone else to be as concerned about their kids as they are. I have three nieces, they all have laptops, they all have parental controls set and they are monitored all the time they're using them. They aren't allowed to use them in their bedrooms they use them in the family room or somewhere adults are present. These proposed controls won't safeguard children, only vigilant parents can do that.

arista 23-07-2013 11:09 AM

http://media.skynews.com/media/image...-1-329x437.jpg

yes see ZEE

Kizzy 23-07-2013 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Zee (Post 6200194)
In relation to other people living in the household. If you're living in a household with other adults and no children, you shouldn't be allowed to block access because you don't agree with it, each individual adult should have a say. It's only fair, it's affecting everyone in the country. And as I've said in previous posts in this thread, what exactly is going to be dubbed adult material? One person's 'art' is another person's 'porn', and one person's perception of 'hardcore' isn't anything to raise an eyebrow at to another. How would this even work in practice?

I don't know zee, there is to be more discussion on it and it does appear to be quite rushed which is worrying...
My first thought is that the person that has the ultimate say is the bill payer, if the connection is in their name then any illegal content accessed can be traced to them if they choose to opt out, but as you say if there are multiple users in the home the original problem exists.
If they opt in to the filter then that's their right as the service user and nobody else has a say unfortunately.
There seems to be a conflict as to what is the driving force behind this is it the ease of access or the illegal practices nobody seems to know.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology...et-pornography

Z 23-07-2013 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 6200610)
David Cameron is furiously back-peddling already. Anti-censorship and sexual health organisations are already making noises and just as expected, another ill-thought through idea by Mr Cameron is going to fall on its face.

Parents really do need to step up to the plate and stop expecting everyone else to be as concerned about their kids as they are. I have three nieces, they all have laptops, they all have parental controls set and they are monitored all the time they're using them. They aren't allowed to use them in their bedrooms they use them in the family room or somewhere adults are present. These proposed controls won't safeguard children, only vigilant parents can do that.

This is exactly right. The options available to parents are be strict and ensure your kids can't access things you don't want them to within the confines of your home and limit their free time; or be relaxed about it and hope that your kids don't come across these things. Anywhere in between is going to default back to being relaxed about it; it's either strict or nothing. And in all honesty, beyond shocking torture porn and criminal porn, anything they come across is either going to disgust them and they're going to turn it off or they're going to find something they like and learn a bit more about themselves. Isn't that a good thing when it comes to anything else in life? You learn whether or not you like people, hobbies, jobs etc by trying them out and seeing for yourself if it's for you or not. Having irrational fears about things you have never seen or that might be out there are just that. Irrational. People act like the internet is a porn tycoon out to get their children if they take their eyes away from the screen for a moment.

It just bothers me that porn has become the obsession of the morality discussion simply because it's the most basic form of sexual expression. Shouldn't we be just as, if not more, concerned about subliminal forms of sexual expression like in music, advertising, television, film, fashion etc? It's everywhere. Porn's probably the only form of it that's considered a private activity, so of course it's all too easy to go after the secretive aspect because it's too much of a challenge to say "our children are being corrupted by our surroundings and it's all of our faults." Little girls shouldn't be wearing glittery t-shirts that say "babe" on them. Topshop and River Island and the like shouldn't be selling t-shirts with half naked models on them. We shouldn't be listening to pop music with lyrics about having sex, taking drugs and all those other things. We shouldn't be watching videos of popstars writhing on beaches. But the fact is, we are, and it comes from all over the world, and there is no way to block it out. What we can do, as a country, is be more honest and educate ourselves and our children in a more honest way.

The Nazis had their book burnings to try and suppress what they deemed sensitive material; China has limited social networks and has restricted access to pages criticising the Chinese regime and while the subject of what they're trying to get rid of differs, the method is exactly the same and I don't agree with it at all.

Z 23-07-2013 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 6200709)
I don't know zee, there is to be more discussion on it and it does appear to be quite rushed which is worrying...
My first thought is that the person that has the ultimate say is the bill payer, if the connection is in their name then any illegal content accessed can be traced to them if they choose to opt out, but as you say if there are multiple users in the home the original problem exists.
If they opt in to the filter then that's their right as the service user and nobody else has a say unfortunately.
There seems to be a conflict as to what is the driving force behind this is it the ease of access or the illegal practices nobody seems to know.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology...et-pornography

Yeah I've been reading the Guardian this morning and there've been quite a few interesting pieces about this over the last couple of days. As you say, if the bill payer gets to decide what is accessed and what isn't accessed, then that's unfair on the rest of the household. But while you can split the bill, you can't split the decision. It's a simple yes or no and whatever decision is selected will apply to all devices connected to that network. So you might have everyone in a household opposed to banning porn bar the bill payer who might object to it for any number of reasons and no amount of haggling with them would change their mind. The only other viable option is for people to pay for separate connections ("porn packages!" :laugh:) solely so they can view adult content; which then has stigma attached to it and obviously anyone objecting to it in that household will know exactly why they have a separate connection. I think porn is one of those concepts that is best left alone to the individual to make their minds up about; it shouldn't be a government-based or a family-based decision. If you're old enough to be searching for it, you're old enough to know what you're watching and old enough to know what you want. That doesn't include little kids accidentally clicking on porn, because they're not going to know what they're watching. But existing safe search filters are out there, adblock software exists for browsers, there are lots of ways to block sensitive material but none of them are irreversible.


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