Originally Posted by Tilly83 (Post 2689254)

Wow really! I like to stay friend if i can, TBH Rob is the only ex i still talk to, mainly because he knows everything about me and is always there to help me no matter what.

On the other hand some ex's i would quite happily walk past them in the street and not even look at them.

I guess we all deal with things differently, Right now I dont have to many friends I can rely on 100% so the ones I can trust I keep close

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 2689277)

If i were you I would do some volunteer work. Ideal to focus the mind and stop self analysis. Try your local church.

Originally Posted by Tilly83 (Post 2689285)

I really want to do the the Nepal Trek for help the heros, you have to raise nearly £3000 to do that tho. Im going to look into a few things to do, I think what with a very stressful month or so and now this virus, its making things feel worse.

I am also looking for a new job one that is fun and interesting, I really want to do a teaching course but money is short so will have to start saving

Originally Posted by arsenalforever (Post 2689264)

they remind me of the bad times and anyway i have no need to talk with them really.All you need is your friends and you be okay.

nice picture by the way :)

Originally Posted by Tilly83 (Post 2689288)

Yeah, they can do, I was with Rob for nearly 3yrs we never argued, unfortunately i fell out of love with him.

Thank you btw :)

Originally Posted by InOne (Post 2689305)

You do like a drink don't you Leather lol

Originally Posted by arsenalforever (Post 2689244)

yep thats true i never talk to ex's ever

Originally Posted by InOne (Post 2689305)

You do like a drink don't you Leather lol

Originally Posted by Niamhxo (Post 2689326)

I have to talk to one of them cos he's my daughters dad but we're not "friends" Most of my other exes I'd be friendly with if I met them, I'm friends with one of them on facebook but we don't go out socializing together or anything. Don't think Gav would like that very much, I wouldn't either if it was the other way round!

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 2689329)

I dont normally drink on a tues. mon-weds is gym and drink free but i had an argument and all bets were off, as was the top of the Teachers.

Originally Posted by Niamhxo (Post 2689326)

I have to talk to one of them cos he's my daughters dad but we're not "friends" Most of my other exes I'd be friendly with if I met them, I'm friends with one of them on facebook but we don't go out socializing together or anything. Don't think Gav would like that very much, I wouldn't either if it was the other way round!

Originally Posted by arsenalforever (Post 2689340)

i can't stand to be around ex's cause i hate them all:joker:

Originally Posted by Niamhxo (Post 2689359)

Ironically the only ex that I hate is the one I have to talk to :bawling:

Originally Posted by arsenalforever (Post 2689364)

which is understandable niamh
i always walk by them eevn when they say hello:joker:

Originally Posted by Niamhxo (Post 2689367)

I have to say all my exes apart from him are lovely fellas though!

Originally Posted by arsenalforever (Post 2689373)

do you think thats a bitchy thing to do not say hello and walk by them?

for guys ex's are just trouble but for girls they are alright

Originally Posted by Niamhxo (Post 2689376)

Depends on why or how messy the break-up was I suppose.

If I didn't have a child with my ex I'd probably walk right passed him on the street too!

Originally Posted by arsenalforever (Post 2689379)

i just hate them cause i get bored with girls if they don't interest me in a smart way

Niamh you really hate him don't you:hugesmile:

Originally Posted by Niamhxo (Post 2689387)

Thats not really a reason to hate someone though, not for me anyway.

Yes, I do really hate that prick but he deserves my hatred