A "nice" narcissist? Isn't that an oxymoron? Lol

Probably but that's me. :hugesmile:

I'm not nice and not doing too badly

I'm really manipulative, I can flip my personality to get what I want and if I don't get what I want (rare) then I go on the war path against those who got in the way

We definitely should create our own club lmao

Nice people and haters to the left. :D

My hubby is a nice guy and he never finishes last!!!

I'm going with the notion that those that talk the talk - don't walk the walk! :joker:

and how do you draw that conclusion?

Often the case!

Brilliant idea! It could be called "The Nazi Party"

Tom as Hitler and Remy as Mussolini, or Stalin. Your choice really.

Doesn't mean its always the case though does it? And looking at the bigger picture I'd say on the whole nice guys do finish last.

Hitlers tash would to nothing for me, so I'm not being him!

Well fight it out between ya. :P

Your avatar is pretty much a female version! :joker:

Both lol

And being a nice narcissistic bastard doesn't mean being a dictator from what I know. :laugh:

But if Tom and I were to create this club, would you join the fun ?

Poor Maggie :(

See, I do have a nice side! Its just a shame that my not so nice side is more dominant

Am I a nice narcissistic bastard? :laugh:

By the way, life isn't a fairy tale, sharks often finish first. At some point, you need to be ruthless and cut throat to be a leader in Business situations.
I could say it's the same in sports (as a sportsman myself) because you need to be strong, tough and play it nasty sometimes but it depends on the context.
Being nice in life will somehow gets your screwed big time.

And if you're too nice people will walk right over you thinking they can take the piss.

My life is pretty damn good atm but I've had some pretty dodgy decisions/situations to get it there ... would be nowhere near the same if I was nice

Maybe not but you have enough vice and perverseness to bring out. :wink:

Well in that case, if I join I want to wear an SS uniform. They were super sexy.

Jesus did ok in the end, well apart from the crucifixion bit.

Don't agree! You can certainly be nice but savvy - and in contrast - a thick shark. It's intelligence that begets success - not playing it nasty!

I'm still trying to figure you out, LT. Tough nut to crack. :laugh:

Exactly. By always saying yes and showing you're too available, people won't see the red line and good luck to bring it back. Like I said, you're screwed at the point.
By being mean and cold, you can prevent people from taking over or upsetting you. You have the control. However, to not be bitten back is an art

I'm pretty intelligent (did very well in school/college) and I'm much more aware of situations than people realise I am ... and I use that to get my own way by twisting other people

So I wouldn't say its intelligence itself that gets you somewhere, its how you use it. Like say if I have a degree, I can get a better job. But what about using your mind and other people to get another job which is just as well paid as the one you could get?

:hugesmile:

I am a simple soul who has a bottle of Bells close at hand but also has to do a church powerpoint for am tomorrow

ooooh the temptation:devil: