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andyman 09-03-2010 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3071892)
Yeah I know what you mean, seen a few like that. This one just seemed to have a bit of a less balance, as it was so personal kinda thing. Most don't try to play on your heart strings.

And about the text, hmmmmmm :S

The system can't help everyone, clearly Victoria wanted to die and showed signs of being sane.. Like a mask.

Patrick 09-03-2010 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Enid (Post 3071894)
Sweet, sweet irony.

I just feel embarrassed for ya. Sorry.

I dont need you feeling embarressed for me, just ****.

InOne 09-03-2010 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3071923)
The system can't help everyone, clearly Victoria wanted to die and showed signs of being sane.. Like a mask.

Yep, my favourite term 'The Mask Of Sanity' It's a shame when it happens but it does.

andyman 09-03-2010 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3071937)
Yep, my favourite term 'The Mask Of Sanity' It's a shame when it happens but it does.

Sane and insane go together, it's our human nature, it's our nature to think, to use our minds..
What gives me the creeps are them 1950s mental health hospitals.. Electric shock treatment. :shocked:

InOne 09-03-2010 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3071960)
Sane and insane go together, it's our human nature, it's our nature to think, to use our minds..
What gives me the creeps are them 1950s mental health hospitals.. Electric shock treatment. :shocked:

They still have a form of that I think, for acute depression. That might just be in the states though. And yeah, if you look at all the personality disorders, everyone has one to some degree or the other. Even stuff like bipolar, it all overlaps. We know alot about mental health but realistically we've only scratched the surface.

andyman 09-03-2010 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3071969)
They still have a form of that I think, for acute depression. That might just be in the states though. And yeah, if you look at all the personality disorders, everyone has one to some degree or the other. Even stuff like bipolar, it all overlaps. We know alot about mental health but realistically we've only scratched the surface.

Many years of research has helped but still a taboo subject that brings up tabloid images, I think America is more open.. Maybe due to drug companies.

InOne 09-03-2010 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3071983)
Many years of research has helped but still a taboo subject that brings up tabloid images, I think America is more open.. Maybe due to drug companies.

Indeed, although Americans give diagnosises out like they're candy which is not good.

andyman 09-03-2010 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3072002)
Indeed, although Americans give diagnosises out like they're candy which is not good.

That is true, there was one drug that cause mood swings and death.. Forgot the name but it had bad press back in the 90s.

InOne 09-03-2010 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3072016)
That is true, there was one drug that cause mood swings and death.. Forgot the name but it had bad press back in the 90s.

Hmmm not sure, but there have been a few bad ones and still are. I mean some anti-depressants can trigger mania.

andyman 09-03-2010 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3072025)
Hmmm not sure, but there have been a few bad ones and still are. I mean some anti-depressants can trigger mania.

Pills aint the answer for the long term, that will sound crazy to many but I stand by that..

Stephen Fry had some problems, I think he still does but over time he has been able to deal with dark episodes.. So easy to think negative when the dark clouds show.

InOne 09-03-2010 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3072077)
Pills aint the answer for the long term, that will sound crazy to many but I stand by that..

Stephen Fry had some problems, I think he still does but over time he has been able to deal with dark episodes.. So easy to think negative when the dark clouds show.

Yeah watched his doc, was quite good, he's on nothing at the moment. Yeah pills aren't the answer, they don't stop you thinking, so whatever thoughts and feeling are there will still be there, almost like pushing the problem aside. It's a hard one though as some don't always respond to therapy either, it takes a little will power I guess but not everyone has that.

andyman 09-03-2010 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3072117)
Yeah watched his doc, was quite good, he's on nothing at the moment. Yeah pills aren't the answer, they don't stop you thinking, so whatever thoughts and feeling are there will still be there, almost like pushing the problem aside. It's a hard one though as some don't always respond to therapy either, it takes a little will power I guess but not everyone has that.

Lifestyle change can bring fresh air to the mind, but a mind under any dark episode would feel that is too far, not within reach.. Of course people like Victoria are far from help when they us their brains to fool others.. Like a serial killer.

bbfan1991 09-03-2010 09:27 PM

How awful, poor girl:(:bawling:.

InOne 09-03-2010 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3072200)
Lifestyle change can bring fresh air to the mind, but a mind under any dark episode would feel that is too far, not within reach.. Of course people like Victoria are far from help when they us their brains to fool others.. Like a serial killer.

Yep indeed, like you can be going great for years and then slip up one time and your whole life can fall apart. Plus if you get put under a section 3 you're not allowed to live in some countries.

andyman 09-03-2010 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by bbfan1991 (Post 3072206)
How awful, poor girl:(:bawling:.

I can't feel sorry for her, she wanted this and even went so far to fool the doctors.. Still sad but her father was the only one who knew the truth..

andyman 09-03-2010 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3072227)
Yep indeed, like you can be going great for years and then slip up one time and your whole life can fall apart. Plus if you get put under a section 3 you're not allowed to live in some countries.

:shocked: section 3 bad then?

InOne 09-03-2010 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3072250)
:shocked: section 3 bad then?

Like a section 2 is for treatment but a section 3 is when they know what is wrong with you, and you're a definate danger to yourself or the public.

andyman 09-03-2010 09:40 PM

Nobody should be out if section 3 is that bad.. Not saying everybody is a risk under section 3 because that could be a lazy blanket to cover many problems..

InOne 09-03-2010 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3072268)
Nobody should be out if section 3 is that bad.. Not saying everybody is a risk under section 3 because that could be a lazy blanket to cover many problems..

Depends I guess, their history, how many times they've been sectioned before. Like if they didn't know they were ill and it was a first time thing, I think they should be let out. But people will a long mental health history record probably should be looked at more closely.

InOne 09-03-2010 09:45 PM

Also section 3 is for at least 6 months

mummymaz 10-03-2010 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3071384)
Damn :(, thing is though, people can act very very well, you would not even know they were suicidal or anything

so true, my best friend died on 15th feb this year - he killed himself. I had been talking to him just a few hours before and i didnt pick up on the signs, i'll never forgive myself for not being able to talk him around, or see that things were so bad. Horrible thing about sucicide is the heartache it leaves behind.

InOne 10-03-2010 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by mummymaz (Post 3073145)
so true, my best friend died on 15th feb this year - he killed himself. I had been talking to him just a few hours before and i didnt pick up on the signs, i'll never forgive myself for not being able to talk him around, or see that things were so bad. Horrible thing about sucicide is the heartache it leaves behind.

Awww yeah. That is the thing, people often see it as a very selfish thing to do, but once you get past the point of no return it's hard to come back. If you didn't know it's not your fault, there would have been nothing you could have done.

Vicky. 10-03-2010 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by andyman (Post 3071868)

Off topic.. Just been sent a random txt.. Can't be true without a valid source.

John Venables new name is David Calvert, he lives in Fleetwood and rapped a 19-year-old female in Warrington.
He spent time at Barton child unit so knew the area.
...

I got that too.

Except mine ends in

'Some prison warden doesn't think it should be kept quiet either! Pass it on to as many people as you can'

NettoSuperstar! 11-03-2010 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 3071535)
Pretty much. People are able to on a front very well. And if their sole purpose to die, they will often manipulate mental health workers very easily, that is the thing about them, so trusting...

So trusting...balls! Its got **** all to do with trust, if someones telling you they want to leave and theyre not going to hurt themselves without sufficient evidence to prove they are in immediate danger there is **** all you can do, thats the system, if someone wants to kill themselves that badly, they will, end of

Niamh. 11-03-2010 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by NettoSuperstar! (Post 3075840)
So trusting...balls! Its got **** all to do with trust, if someones telling you they want to leave and theyre not going to hurt themselves without sufficient evidence to prove they are in immediate danger there is **** all you can do, thats the system, if someone wants to kill themselves that badly, they will, end of

Yeah, I agree, there's only so much people can do.


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