what age is Ben and how much older does he go for in women?

Lovely that you would be happy to admit that you're happily swearing on your mother's life.......but then admit it's a very false scenario.

I'll take it as red that your story telling has as much credence to it.

Some people don't have it in them to embrace further education, besides which, I didn't sign up for Extra Curricular Teaching Classes.

I'll wait for Laurac giving all the info on this subject:- ... after all, she's very clued up on this it would seem.

nothing wrong with that anyway even if it is true btw tbh it's refreshing from the usual men going for girls young enough to be their grand daughters!

but that's normal ben's obsession with older woman and his nappy wearing story didn't sit well with me, it made me think he had a very unhappy child hood and he was looking for a mother

Less perverse that's for sure!

And there is something very true about older women being far more ....cough.... experienced!! LOL ;)

It's normal for a man who is old enough to be a young woman's grandfather, to be together? Really!!! PMSL !!

You're story is a non story Laurac. It's going nowhere credible.

sorry I din't understand your post could you retype it in a different way please?
ah ok you are talking about an old man perving on a young girl, no I don't get that either
But then I think it's about the man refusing to grow old and find older wrinkly woman attractive, which makes slightly more sense than a youngish man finding an old wrinkly woman attractive

No. It's perfectly understandable as it is.

what age is Ben?

30 I believe.

and what age women does he like? how much older I mean? or is that just a rumour?

I'll await Laurac's reply seeing as she's the one giving it all the 'credible' information on Ben.

ok, though I have to say liking someone older isn't a worry at all imo, it's the people who like very young people I'd be concerned about, anything between consenting adults is all good as far as I'm concerned

Make your mind up ! One minute you say 'But that's normal', the next, when you are challanged on it, you say, "Old man perving on a young girl, no I don't get that either'.

As for the rest of your post... do you realise how absurd it sounds!!! LOL

I agree. I don't see the big deal. If a man who is 30, wants to enjoy someone older's company - I don't see what the issue is.

Same as if a woman in her 30's likes the company of an older man, what's the problem.

I'd far rather see that either way: than seeing a 30 year old man, dating a 16 year old.

well Joan Collins is 77, Shirley bassy 73 Joan Crawford is dead and the woman from the women's institute he dated when a male escort looked like they were between 50-60 years old

absolutely.

he dated Joan Collins? really? and he was an escort?:shocked:

I'm learning loads from you two I have to say!

I think it was the nappy story that made me :shocked: worried , comeon Sigmund Freud would have something to say about that

he fancies joan collins and he was an escort to older woman

You're suggesting he escorted Joan Crawford - who died in 1977!!! oh... pullleez !!! :joker::joker::joker:

Nah, Laurac's trying hard to build a story based on ..... well, rubbish really.

Well, I know some people do have that fetish, you would wonder alright where it developed as it is a strange one but I doubt it is really true cos he'd never readily admit that on TV imo anyway:joker:

fancying an older famous woman doesn't actually mean he dates older women though and was he really an escort??