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Kazanne 25-10-2011 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by stitch1 (Post 4685132)
the only ones messing with fayes head are her sister and mother and not aaron

this^

Kazanne 25-10-2011 11:20 AM

No real evidence then,just proving that people are jumping on the bandwagon because whoever they are a fan off dissed him,sad really

alex_front2 25-10-2011 11:23 AM

I know, for a minute I was worried that there was some footage that I'd missed but it seems a bit based on what Harry cryptically said, Aaron admitting early on that he had some sort of game plan, Aaron kissing Maisy (before he got with Faye), the fact that Aaron often refuses to pander to Faye and an impression that Aaron gives off. That's it. That's it.

Niamh. 25-10-2011 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 4683408)
In my honest opinion...Fayes mother and sister have made her look more of a fool than Aaron could have ever done.

They have basically told the world that at 21 she is incapable of making her own decisions...still needing mummy and big sis' backing for everything. Fayes mum had to wait like 2 weeks to tell her daughter her concerns, not do it on TV where 1m ish people will see. Shes kinda made her a laughing stock :/

Yep. You hit the nail on the head there. You can bet your life, her mothers nomination will have humiliated and hurt her far more than anything that's gone on between her and Aaron.

jet 25-10-2011 12:05 PM

Yes, Faye IS emotionally needy and insecure. Whether she is like this in the outside world I have no idea, but in the house Aaron unfortunately entered into a relationship with her and his odd behaviour towards someone he says he fancies IS messing with her head - and being the way she is, she is reacting to that.
This is only 1 example - when she burped, he rejected her and it almost ended the relationship. How normal is this? How could he possibly let something like that cause someone he cared for to feel disgusting? He goes around shaking his head and sulking over things she does that don’t please him. The overall impression is that he disapproves of her and is only with her because she perseveres. When she is open about her feelings, he is often cold and cagey. He refused to try and mend bridges with Jem, which he would have done if he really cared for Faye. All Aaron really cares about is himself and how HE feels.
He is certainly not aggressive towards her - his actions are subtle and manipulative. If Aaron really wanted her and made her feel cared for, Faye wouldn’t have any reason to be needy and Jem, her mother, the other mothers and many more of us who can see the true dynamics in this relationship would have no inclination to ‘pick’ on Aaron. He is playing her like a cat plays with a mouse - and stupidly she lets him and goes back for more.
I am not a fan of Aaron, obviously. I liked him the first week or two, then I was on to him. I don’t particularly like Faye either, but she is a young girl and Aaron has more experience of the world - he already has a failed marriage behind him. It seems to me that any woman entering into a relationship with him will have to mould herself to be what Aaron wants, or else she will be subjected to his moods and periods of aloofness. This is what people see who are not Aaron fans, and therefore more objective - from what I have observed on the net.

jyunga 25-10-2011 12:30 PM

Aaron: I really like you.
Faye: *burp*
Aaron ignores Faye for 24 hours.

That's not treating someone you care about very good. Should be telling someone how much you like them and then doing things that show you don't really care about them as you say.

kistar 25-10-2011 12:31 PM

I think Aaron is quite self contained and knows his own mind who he is excetera, Faye tries to make him react to situations and what she says and generally he doesnt, I think she finds that quite frustrating . Its like she wants to know she can "move" him but he isnt that type of person , also the age difference along side her emmotional immaturity makes it seem like he is playing with her , however in my opinion he is just not playing her game.

MeMyselfAndI 25-10-2011 12:39 PM

Half the people that say all of this, you'd think were living in the house itself or had 24 hour live feed :idc:

jet 25-10-2011 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by MeMyselfandI (Post 4685556)
Half the people that say all of this, you'd think were living in the house itself or had 24 hour live feed :idc:

Well, the other boys ARE living in the house. Maybe you would believe them? Watch the latest video on facebook.
http://apps.facebook.com/bigbrother-...s&fb_bmpos=1_0

alex_front2 25-10-2011 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jyunga (Post 4685536)
Aaron: I really like you.
Faye: *burp*
Aaron ignores Faye for 24 hours.

That's not treating someone you care about very good. Should be telling someone how much you like them and then doing things that show you don't really care about them as you say.

But that's exactly what I'd do to be fair! :nono: You don't always have to pander to your partner. A relationship doesn't have to be about giving in. Besides I think it's good to sometimes be emotional unavailable.:joker:

Besides I think Faye was worst when she ignored Aaron, sought out Anton, leaned on him and asked him if he had a semi and didn't berate Jay when he called Aaron 'that'

Kazanne 25-10-2011 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by jyunga (Post 4685536)
Aaron: I really like you.
Faye: *burp*
Aaron ignores Faye for 24 hours.

That's not treating someone you care about very good. Should be telling someone how much you like them and then doing things that show you don't really care about them as you say.

She didn't just 'burp' though did she,WHY would she chose to do it down his ear!!! doesn't she realise SOME people were brought up with manners,not everyone finds this kind of behaviour acceptable.If Aaron did not like it,why should he pretend he did,just to keep the peace with her?Love someone who sticks to their principles no matter what.

Niamh. 25-10-2011 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 4685585)
Well, the other boys ARE living in the house. Maybe you would believe them? Watch the latest video on facebook.
http://apps.facebook.com/bigbrother-...s&fb_bmpos=1_0

Yes, that's the same Tom who just the other day said that Aaron was the consistent one of the two of them and Faye was the mess? You don't think that the family nominations could have changed his mind at all?? Shock. Horror. :idc:

http://apps.facebook.com/bigbrother-...and-talk-Faye/

Vicky. 25-10-2011 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 4685786)
Yes, that's the same Tom who just the other day said that Aaron was the consistent one of the two of them and Faye was the mess? You don't think that the family nominations could have changed his mind at all?? Shock. Horror. :idc:

http://apps.facebook.com/bigbrother-...and-talk-Faye/

Exactly.

Just how they were planned to do too :wink:

The housemates now think that Aaron is massively unpopular with the general public just because of a couple of people, when they couldnt really be more wrong. Only JAY...and this shocked me a lot...seems to not have changed in his attitude towards Aaron :shocked:

Niamh. 25-10-2011 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 4685810)
Exactly.

Just how they were planned to do too :wink:

The housemates now think that Aaron is massively unpopular with the general public just because of a couple of people, when they couldnt really be more wrong. Only JAY...and this shocked me a lot...seems to not have changed in his attitude towards Aaron :shocked:

Yeah, I was impressed with Jay actually, he seems to have turned into Aarons unlikely and only allie. Fingers crossed that he beats Jem on Friday but I'm getting less and less sure as time goes on.

Vicky. 25-10-2011 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 4685824)
Yeah, I was impressed with Jay actually, he seems to have turned into Aarons unlikely and only allie. Fingers crossed that he beats Jem on Friday but I'm getting less and less sure as time goes on.

Yeah I'm pretty sure hes gone on friday too.

I'm at work friday night though so will miss the eviction :laugh:

jet 25-10-2011 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 4685786)
Yes, that's the same Tom who just the other day said that Aaron was the consistent one of the two of them and Faye was the mess? You don't think that the family nominations could have changed his mind at all?? Shock. Horror. :idc:

http://apps.facebook.com/bigbrother-...and-talk-Faye/

They were talking about a specific incident, not about the relationship as a whole, as they were in the sauna. :nono:
So do you think Harry's mind has been changed by the family noms too? He feels the same as Tom.

Niamh. 25-10-2011 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 4685861)
They were talking about a specific incident, not about the relationship as a whole, as they were in the sauna. :nono:
So do you think Harry's mind has been changed by the family noms too? He feels the same as Tom.

Yes I do think that............seeing as Harry actually said that........

Kazanne 25-10-2011 02:19 PM

Aarons a thinker,Fayes a drinker,they need to split

ibkaz 25-10-2011 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 4683294)
Seems to be the other way round to me.

Though I still like Faye and think shes just highly emotional rather than doing it on purpose.

This

I feel Faye is far to needy, and wants Aaron to express how he feels about her more and it is not happening. They are very awkward with each other when it comes to expressing feelings. I mean she beats round the bush in explaining how she feels and expects Aaron to guess what she is trying to say, and then gets a bit huffy when he not getting the vibes. When he has tried she like 'what you mean?, or oooooooo kaaaay.

I'm afraid the realationship is doomed now, and for anti Aaron fans he is in a no win situation. Faye is in the I don't know what to believe situation. Aaron is like what the .....?

flamingGalah! 25-10-2011 02:44 PM

Aaron has done NOTHING wrong to Faye at all... :nono:

And for those nominations to mention that he has, smells more fishy than Jay's fingers after his night with Louise... The friends/relatives have only seen the broadcast hi-lights that we have all seen, so either they were lying, were told to nominate him, or have had access to 24 hour live feed where Aaron has been treating Faye apallingly... Hmmm...

jet 25-10-2011 02:47 PM

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Aaron has done NOTHING wrong to Faye at all...
Good Lord. You couldn't make this stuff up. :laugh2::laugh2::laugh2:

ibkaz 25-10-2011 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 4685463)
Yes, Faye IS emotionally needy and insecure. Whether she is like this in the outside world I have no idea, but in the house Aaron unfortunately entered into a relationship with her and his odd behaviour towards someone he says he fancies IS messing with her head - and being the way she is, she is reacting to that.
This is only 1 example - when she burped, he rejected her and it almost ended the relationship. How normal is this? How could he possibly let something like that cause someone he cared for to feel disgusting? He goes around shaking his head and sulking over things she does that don’t please him. The overall impression is that he disapproves of her and is only with her because she perseveres. When she is open about her feelings, he is often cold and cagey. He refused to try and mend bridges with Jem, which he would have done if he really cared for Faye. All Aaron really cares about is himself and how HE feels.
He is certainly not aggressive towards her - his actions are subtle and manipulative. If Aaron really wanted her and made her feel cared for, Faye wouldn’t have any reason to be needy and Jem, her mother, the other mothers and many more of us who can see the true dynamics in this relationship would have no inclination to ‘pick’ on Aaron. He is playing her like a cat plays with a mouse - and stupidly she lets him and goes back for more.
I am not a fan of Aaron, obviously. I liked him the first week or two, then I was on to him. I don’t particularly like Faye either, but she is a young girl and Aaron has more experience of the world - he already has a failed marriage behind him. It seems to me that any woman entering into a relationship with him will have to mould herself to be what Aaron wants, or else she will be subjected to his moods and periods of aloofness. This is what people see who are not Aaron fans, and therefore more objective - from what I have observed on the net.

This is a fairly good read, however Faye has put Aaron down many times too, mention his son, calling him wierd because he hasn't slept with anyone for so many years, or snogged anyone for x amount of months, she even told him he is like a very attractive geek

Many a time when she be trying to have a conversation with him she would 'expect a certain answer to suit what she asked' when this didn't happen, she would say 'oh Aaron' and make him look small < hard to explain, but to me this is the same moulding situation that you speak of Aaron.

I think Aaron likes prim and proper ladies, it is not really his fault if he shows anoyance if he sees what he think os as childish behaviour ( this is probably from his upbringing)

He over reacts about things about Faye as much as she gets stroppy over things with him.

flamingGalah! 25-10-2011 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by jet (Post 4685940)
Good Lord. You couldn't make this stuff up. :laugh2::laugh2::laugh2:

Please give an example to what he has done wrong then??!!?? :conf:

Vicky. 25-10-2011 02:54 PM

I see as usual noone has a convincing argument about how Aaron is so horrible to Faye.

Interesting that the main thing seems to be when he got pissed off over her burping in his face. I wonder how many of the people slating him for that would be happy with their partner of a few weeks purposely burping in their face...knowing they didnt like it... because someone they disliked told them to ;)

waterhog 25-10-2011 04:03 PM

if any man dose not no what he wants at his age < then he is messing with everyone heads < has he been like alex < harry < and kept himself to himself < not he has jumped in the deep end and he can not swin well.


aaron dont ask me to chuck in the red ring to help you swim, and yes i am being serious.


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