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MTVN 27-11-2011 09:18 PM

Yeah I know, and you'd think he must have known he was going to do it then as well :/ I can't comprehend how he must have been feeling

Pyramid* 27-11-2011 09:21 PM

It's this kind of thing, the 'rumoured' reporting that may (may?) appear in forthcoming days that would be completely out of order.

The man took his own life. I'd say he has suffered enough whatever the reason to do that, and certainly, his family will be suffering enough without his private life being dragged through the papers and them having to contend with that on top of such tragedy.

King Gizzard 27-11-2011 09:23 PM

I think they mean it as a possible reason why he took his own life

Grimnir 27-11-2011 09:29 PM

why? very strange

heard rumours about him being gay or either him or wife having affair, those don't seem likely reasons to go to the extreme of suicide though

however it could be something else sexual that was discovered about him, something so terrible that if reached the public domain he would be completely destroyed?

that is the only thing that would make sense really

don't wanna offend anyone by being too specific but you can read between the lines and see what i mean right?

Pyramid* 27-11-2011 09:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nathan (Post 4785351)
I think they mean it as a possible reason why he took his own life

It still a matter that I don't think should be plastered over the papers for the same reasons I mentioned earlier.

Jackie 27-11-2011 09:34 PM

Something will come to light soon it always does.

Pyramid* 27-11-2011 09:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Grimnir (Post 4785368)
why? very strange

heard rumours about him being gay or either him or wife having affair, those don't seem likely reasons to go to the extreme of suicide though

however it could be something else sexual that was discovered about him, something so terrible that if reached the public domain he would be completely destroyed?

that is the only thing that would make sense really

don't wanna offend anyone by being too specific but you can read between the lines and see what i mean right?

and conversely: it could be completely non sexually orientated at all. it could have been something that most of us would consider 'not enough to take your own life' but at the time, it WAS enough to push the guy to the limit. Old saying about walk a mile in a person's shoes and all that......

Grimnir 27-11-2011 09:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pyramid* (Post 4785389)
and conversely: it could be completely non sexually orientated at all. it could have been something that most of us would consider 'not enough to take your own life' but at the time, it WAS enough to push the guy to the limit. Old saying about walk a mile in a person's shoes and all that......

walk a mile in his shoes?

so i get to be a successful footballer, manager of wales national team, married to hot wife, 2 kids, wealthy, large house in country, lots of mates.....

sounds good to me :D


people jump to the conclusion "oh he must have been depressed" why?

Pyramid* 27-11-2011 09:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Grimnir (Post 4785410)
walk a mile in his shoes?

so i get to be a successful footballer, manager of wales national team, married to hot wife, 2 kids, wealthy, large house in country, lots of mates.....

sounds good to me :D


people jump to the conclusion "oh he must have been depressed" why?

I actually find your use of your big grin smiley given the subject matter, very distasteful to say the least - along with what you consider to have been a great life - it wasn't so great that he wanted to stay alive.

Most people who are in a sound, contented, happy state of mind, don't take their own lives.

I'm not jumping to any conclusions as to him being depressed.

Kerry 27-11-2011 10:38 PM

I'm absolutely gutted and shocked to the core. Poor man :(

God Bless x

Novo 27-11-2011 11:36 PM

forgot you supported Sheffield United, he was only managing and playing for them last year

Mystic Mock 27-11-2011 11:42 PM

R.I.P Gary Speed,I definitely think something really bad must have happened in his last few hours to have made him commit suicide.

Kerry 27-11-2011 11:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4785701)
forgot you supported Sheffield United, he was only managing and playing for them last year

Yeah :(

Callum 27-11-2011 11:52 PM

Rip :(

InOne 27-11-2011 11:52 PM

Damn, RIP :(

MattySlug 28-11-2011 09:25 AM

http://img189.imageshack.us/img189/6...eedtribute.jpg

bbfan1991 28-11-2011 10:50 AM

RIP Gary Speed, so young to go:(. He seemed such a nice guy, very professional and loved footie so much and of course loved his family more than anything else.

I cannot imagine what he felt and just hope more awareness about depression is available now after this..

Kerry 28-11-2011 11:33 PM

http://img.skysports.com/11/11/496x2...es_2684195.jpg

http://images.mirror.co.uk/upl/m4/no...-527627064.jpg

King Gizzard 26-11-2012 11:36 PM

Been a year since this now

Shaun 26-11-2012 11:37 PM

So strange, was a cause of death ever given?

Marc 26-11-2012 11:38 PM

Yeah thats odd.. I never really heard much from this..

What happened exactly and why

Ramsay 26-11-2012 11:38 PM

Cant believe it's been a year :/

Marsh. 26-11-2012 11:39 PM

Wow, I was a bit surprised seeing a post of Kerry's there for a sec.

It's strange/frightening how things change and time flies.

Petershaw1984 26-11-2012 11:39 PM

Mis adventure or sumat...... very sad

GypsyGoth 26-11-2012 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by 08marsh (Post 5651549)
Wow, I was a bit surprised seeing a post of Kerry's there for a sec.

Same

:sad:


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