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Me. I Am Salman 04-03-2012 07:56 PM
Some beautiful stuff I'm reading :')

Ammi 05-03-2012 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 4996820)
I think you have no control when you fall in love with someone. If you're lucky you fall in love with a totally suitable person who returns your love. Lots of people are unlucky enough to fall for a total arse but they still love them completely. Although I think it's possible to "control yourself" and deny yourself, most people wouldn't. However, we're all ready to say that other people should control themselves... as in the teacher/pupil story. We're all judge and jury when it comes to other people's business, especially when we only have a snippet of a story.
It's certainly true many fall for the complete wrong person..yet continue to love them and find no fault..as in wife abuse cases, where they excuse the behaviour, no matter what.
In the tutor/student case, I think I was concentrating on the 'married' part than any other and how the wife and family would feel..it's hard sometimes to stay detatched on a subject...personal experiences come into it.
....I agree on the age thing...it's not up to us to judge and as for the 'abusing his position'.....we don't know all of the facts

Kizzy 05-03-2012 12:19 PM
When you are young you can be carried away by romance, when you are a hardened biatch like me it takes a lot more than a bunch of daffs and a soppy grin to win my heart. If i knew then what i know now...Believe me i had a div magnet, if there was a div in a 50 mile radius i would get him. And they are harder to get rid of than the clap! lol

Ammi 05-03-2012 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted by kizzy (Post 4998016)
When you are young you can be carried away by romance, when you are a hardened biatch like me it takes a lot more than a bunch of daffs and a soppy grin to win my heart. If i knew then what i know now...Believe me i had a div magnet, if there was a div in a 50 mile radius i would get him. And they are harder to get rid of than the clap! lol
..ebay it Kizzy...I think you'll get a decent bid

Novo 05-03-2012 12:33 PM
anyone else ever think that the worst situation is moving in a house with your wife and kids 10 years into the future and you find out that your childhood love is your next door neighbour.. i had a nightmare about this once it was so real as well :joker:

Jesus. 05-03-2012 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4998033)
anyone else ever think that the worst situation is moving in a house with your wife and kids 10 years into the future and you find out that your childhood love is your next door neighbour.. i had a nightmare about this once it was so real as well :joker:
Wasn't your childhood love, the local priest, though?

Novo 05-03-2012 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ (Post 4998034)
Wasn't your childhood love, the local priest, though?
You have me mixed up for a Catholic

Spoiler:

Just a joke before anyone ( Kizzy) reports

Niamh. 05-03-2012 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4998033)
anyone else ever think that the worst situation is moving in a house with your wife and kids 10 years into the future and you find out that your childhood love is your next door neighbour.. i had a nightmare about this once it was so real as well :joker:
:laugh2: I think I'd have to move if that happened to me

Ammi 05-03-2012 12:44 PM
..I married my childhood sweetheart..I've covered all bases

Novo 05-03-2012 12:45 PM
Okay then you'll find out that he has a twin soon

Jesus. 05-03-2012 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 4998045)
..I married my childhood sweetheart..I've covered all bases
Have you been together since you were childhood sweat hearts, or did you have a break where you both explored different people?

Josy 05-03-2012 01:01 PM
I'm still with my childhood sweetheart too, never been seperated or even had a huge argument where one of us leaves for a few days.

There was one before him though and I suppose it would be really weird if he was a neighbour.

Josy 05-03-2012 01:05 PM
I just realised how daft childhood sweetheart actually sounds lol

Novo 05-03-2012 01:06 PM
That is why i said Childhood love

Niamh. 05-03-2012 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 4998095)
I just realised how daft childhood sweetheart actually sounds lol
:laugh:

Ammi 05-03-2012 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ (Post 4998076)
Have you been together since you were childhood sweat hearts, or did you have a break where you both explored different people?
No, we've never been apart..well, apart from when he leaves me..on business....Oh sh*t, don't tell me it's not really business.....

Jesus. 05-03-2012 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 4998119)
No, we've never been apart..well, apart from when he leaves me..on business....Oh sh*t, don't tell me it's not really business.....
I find that really odd (not in a bad way), as I know I'm just not built that way. I can't imagine anyone keeping my interest for that long, as I've changed so much as a person since I was "childhood love" age. How old were you when you got together?

fruit_cake 05-03-2012 01:23 PM
I think maybe we can control ourselves from falling in love with someone, but who we fall in love with initially is a bit random and based a lot on circumstance imo

Ammi 05-03-2012 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ (Post 4998148)
I find that really odd (not in a bad way), as I know I'm just not built that way. I can't imagine anyone keeping my interest for that long, as I've changed so much as a person since I was "childhood love" age. How old were you when you got together?
18..I guess I can't imagine it any other way..but it's what works for the individual..

King Gizzard 05-03-2012 01:24 PM
Never been in love

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lz5n0yyY2Z1qbdbxf.gif

Jesus. 05-03-2012 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 4998158)
18..I guess I can't imagine it any other way..but it's what works for the individual..
Absolutely - different strokes for different folks. I, personally, wouldn't class 18 as "childhood love" age. I picture it more as a 14/15yr old age. You are an adult at 18 (however immature we may be at that time).

Jesus. 05-03-2012 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Nathan (Post 4998161)
Have you got one of these?

http://www.handresearch.com/news/us-...right-hand.jpg

Then you have been in love.

Niamh. 05-03-2012 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Nathan (Post 4998161)
But..........but..........but........:bawling:

Ammi 05-03-2012 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ (Post 4998165)
Absolutely - different strokes for different folks. I, personally, wouldn't class 18 as "childhood love" age. I picture it more as a 14/15yr old age. You are an adult at 18 (however immature we may be at that time).
..yes, I wasn't a child...I probably should have said 'first boyfriend'...it took me 18 years to have the courage to have a bf

King Gizzard 05-03-2012 01:30 PM
Me and Mrs Hand have been acquainted for a very long time


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