I would just try and support her through whatever decision she chooses. It's her body and therefore her decision as to whether she wants to keep the kid. The best I could do is just help her work through whatever she decides.

Abort. I have never wanted children anyway, but even if I did I would not want a constant reminder of such an ordeal

Tbh I wouldn't want the child if those was the circumstances so I would probably want her to abort it, afterall it would bring back the reminder that she was raped if the hypothetical child lived and the child wouldn't get a happy life either because of that fact.

Get rid of it

As the girl, sit down and rationally think about dates.

Rape victims generally don't have sex with their nearest and dearest for a while after the rape.

Weigh up the probabilities of whose child it was then make a decision after discussing it with my partner, doctors etc.

As the man, sit and listen don't offer advice just listen, let her explain how she feels and support her, get the best possible advice from healthcare professionals. Then you support her.

I'd kill myself if anyone forced themselves on me.

It's ok GypsyGoth, I'll protect you.:devil:

Thanks JF :D

This is a stinker Zee,

I would hope,really hope, that because I must really love that person and none of this was her fault or even the baby's she would be carrying that I would be able to say, despite my reservations that I may have, whatever she wanted to do,then I would support fully any decision she makes and more to the point stand by her all through it all.
I personally don't agree with abortion except on medical grounds so if she decided against it, I would be there all the way for her.

She would have been through enough with the rape never mind to then have me shouting the odds at her, as long as she was there, still in my life I would be I am sure, grateful for that fact and if she decided to keep the baby, then it is also no fault of the baby's either in fact.

Hopefully that is what I would be able to do and would set out to do,for both of us.

Don't even have to think twice about this. Abort.

^This.

abort.

Personally I don't think I could ever have an abortion no matter what the circumstances. But that's just me personally.