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the truth 20-07-2012 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by jyunga (Post 5319130)
Sounds like most people didn't bother to listen to what she said and just heard what they want to her. Seems pretty obvious she was exaggerating about the money and venting about how men all cheat. Maybe it's cause she's the men she has been with have cheated on her?

all men do not cheat...I would flip the script and ask, who do these cheating men cheat with? women right? why do so many women chase married men?

88Paul99 20-07-2012 06:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 5318927)
She has a horrible attitude towards men.

She was joking ffs.

She's hardly the type who would want a useless house-bound man.

BigBrotherfan4ever 20-07-2012 07:00 AM

To me she is a total control freak, I think that's why I don't like her.

joeysteele 20-07-2012 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 5319137)
all men do not cheat...I would flip the script and ask, who do these cheating men cheat with? women right? why do so many women chase married men?

Also very often,from what I have seen it is also married women cheating with the married men as well.
The things I have witnessed at social occassions for Uni and when generally just out is amazing.
Both sexes are capable of cheating, one is no worse or better than the other, I have gone out with friends and seen women and men take their wedding rings off when they come into a pub etc;
As I said a while ago on another thread in the past,I have seen both lie as to even being married,saying they are not married even.

However, it is bad enough that Deana states all men will cheat but selectively leaves the women out of the equation but to then go on about if she had a man who cheated,she would cut off his money supply to make him toe the line.

It would seem whoever,if ever, she was to marry,is not going to be able to keep any funds of his own but only have what she allows him to have which is then at risk if he doesn't toe the line and do all her way.
What a cynical and cold calculating attitude to a whole gender of people and in my view, her comments do at least border on prejudice or even generalised possibly being offensive comments too.

They cannot possibly be offensive to anyone of course because it is Deana saying them.
I would like to take her on as to her view there, I am amazed no one really did get into doing so but then most of them are now all likely to be scared to, At least Adam had to get in that what she was describing really was a house slave.
What a cold,selfish individual she is and an even worse attitude to marriage/relationships.

Calliekins 20-07-2012 07:28 AM

well i had a good laugh reading some of these comments, especially those who think its 2012 not 1950 and therefore attitudes should change.
Im young, single and know in the 1950's more marriages succeeded because women didn't give lip, sorry girls but even as another female i believe there is a difference between having an opinion and giving lip. Problems occur when the female tries to take on the male role and way too many do unnecessarily. However this does not give any man the right to be dominant over her either.
When two people work together then a marriage succeeds but not when one tries to be something they should not

arista 20-07-2012 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 5318877)
She wants to earn loads of money just so she can keep her man completely under the thumb and enslaved and she thinks every husband will definitely cheat on his wife at least once

Some very messed up views right there

Yes she has had bad times in Love
not met the right one.


But someone in her home has told her she is a Queen
above all.
That was a error

fruit_cake 20-07-2012 07:43 AM

she's just turning the tables on how women have lived for centuries, but suddenly when it's men in that position there's uproar :bored:

joeysteele 20-07-2012 07:51 AM

I believe that both sexes get things wrong, if a man is happy to be dominated totally as to his life then that's his problem and vice versa, however to bring in money and to use it as a controlling tool and controlling what funds a man/husband has is a very cold attitude.
Thankfully times have moved on from the past where some men totally dominated their wives lives but it is hardly a forward step to now have the role reversed,what happened to equality.

I wonder had Luke S said this as to Ashleigh,or Aaron last year made comments like this as to Faye,what would the outcry likely have been on here, I would guess rightfully very strongly full of condemnation,it should in my opinion still be the same now Deana has made them,no difference at all in this day and age.

starry 20-07-2012 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 5318877)
She wants to earn loads of money just so she can keep her man completely under the thumb and enslaved and she thinks every husband will definitely cheat on his wife at least once

Some very messed up views right there

You actually took all that seriously, or you just dislike Deana?

cassieparis 20-07-2012 08:18 AM

Deana is a power bottom as are most of you haters. :idc:

Kazanne 20-07-2012 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 5318893)
I'd be her sex slave but not her house slave

I think you would be in for a rude awakening,:joker:

Kazanne 20-07-2012 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by starry (Post 5319387)
You actually took all that seriously, or you just dislike Deana?

Oh right ,so she is a liar aswell:hugesmile:

joeysteele 20-07-2012 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by kazanne (Post 5319399)
Oh right ,so she is a liar aswell:hugesmile:

:joker:Nice one kazanne, she is though,or she is at least very inventive as to the truth at times concerning others at any rate.

JamesBond 20-07-2012 08:26 AM

I think my car would be better than any she would offer. I know these type of women who want to spend hour and hours pleasing you, its really not that bad :) if know how to handle the clingy part.

Kazanne 20-07-2012 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 5319404)
:joker:Nice one kazanne, she is though,or she is at least very inventive as to the truth at times concerning others at any rate.

yes,Joey have noticed this over the weeks ,felt sorry for her over the Conor thing,but really she does stir things ,then retreats,but those wearing rose tinted specs will never see that.

sampvt 20-07-2012 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by kazanne (Post 5319415)
yes,Joey have noticed this over the weeks ,felt sorry for her over the Conor thing,but really she does stir things ,then retreats,but those wearing rose tinted specs will never see that.

Spot on Kazanne, she starts the ****, retires and cries about it and then plays the victim card and the prods are letting her get away with it to placate Ofcom. Fantastic gamer, **** person.

starry 20-07-2012 08:36 AM

I'd hardly say it was stirring things up. If some people want to take seriously any over the top remarks then that is their problem, and reveals their lack of intelligence. More likely they don't take it seriously they just pretend to, same with most of the audience. So they are are the biggest pretenders or liars.

fruit_cake 20-07-2012 08:53 AM

Deans was just having a laugh, she was only half serious. I'm sure there are men out there that would be quite happy to fill that role too to be fair.

MrWong 20-07-2012 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by starry (Post 5319429)
I'd hardly say it was stirring things up. If some people want to take seriously any over the top remarks then that is their problem, and reveals their lack of intelligence. More likely they don't take it seriously they just pretend to, same with most of the audience. So they are are the biggest pretenders or liars.

Exactly. Luke and Adam laughed along with her.

The posts bubbling over with faux outrage are funny and a tad desperate.

smeagol 20-07-2012 09:12 AM

she says what most women say when they have been hurt before. and what alot of men say as well.

waterhog 20-07-2012 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 5318877)
She wants to earn loads of money just so she can keep her man completely under the thumb and enslaved and she thinks every husband will definitely cheat on his wife at least once

Some very messed up views right there

i respect her for saying it - but would you have a problem if a man said it ? or is it because she is a lady.

sampvt 20-07-2012 09:22 AM

Lets try and put this into context. If a man cheats, in general its to make another notch on Mr Wiggely or to make his ego feel better (generalisation) HOWEVER if a woman cheat, she is looking for a change of man and looking to ruin a home and lives........who is the worst........Now whos on the higher moral ground.

cassieparis 20-07-2012 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by sampvt (Post 5319511)
Lets try and put this into context. If a man cheats, in general its to make another notch on Mr Wiggely or to make his ego feel better (generalisation) HOWEVER if a woman cheat, she is looking for a change of man and looking to ruin a home and lives........who is the worst........Now whos on the higher moral ground.

:joker::joker::joker:
Cheaters cheat mainly out of insecurity regardless of gender.
You sound just like Deana with your fear and generalisations around gender. :devil:

Kizzy 20-07-2012 10:20 AM

From what she says I would guess her father cheated on her mother and her mother has raised her to be like her, bitter with a bad perspective on men.
Which is a shame, she is young and beautiful I don't think those cynical views are her own.

sampvt 20-07-2012 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by cassieparis (Post 5319577)
:joker::joker::joker:
Cheaters cheat mainly out of insecurity regardless of gender.
You sound just like Deana with your fear and generalisations around gender. :devil:

I SOUND LIKE DEANA, wtf, I nearly fell off my sofa laughing. Let me tell you something, the only thing Deana and me have in comon is we both like popadoms and there is where the similarity ends. :wavey:


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