Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 5340326)

At least she's up front about being awful, he tries too hard to come across as a decent human being.

Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 5340331)

I'm starting to agree with this really, I don't mind him but he's desperate to present himself as a really nice, genuine guy contrasted with the terrible human beings of the Insiders

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 5340297)

Is he hellaslike !! you are talking out of your ass ,what wrong are you a Deana fan ? has it sunk in Luke A will win ? sour grapes flower ....very hard to swallow

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5340364)

People deserve to be treated the way they treat others, only way they'll learn imo

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5340364)

People deserve to be treated the way they treat others, only way they'll learn imo

Originally Posted by kistar (Post 5340385)

I personally think you should treat others how you want to be treated your self, live by example it's the only way to make a difference, tit for tat is ridiculous and things never get resolved, in a personal war like they are having one party needs to move things forward by changing how they are , understanding the bigger picture and knowing that's how to get resolution. Luke A is 31 he should be doing that.

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 5340377)

I think this is lacking in Carolines life, clearly been spoilt to the extreme,maybe by parents who have dumped her off in boarding school and made her someone elses problem

Originally Posted by kistar (Post 5340385)

I personally think you should treat others how you want to be treated your self, live by example it's the only way to make a difference, tit for tat is ridiculous and things never get resolved, in a personal war like they are having one party needs to move things forward by changing how they are , understanding the bigger picture and knowing that's how to get resolution. Luke A is 31 he should be doing that.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5340419)

That seems pretty likely Chuff.



I disagree, in my own personal experience I've found if you let people get away with bad behaviour they'll keep on walking all over you, if you stand up for yourself and give back what you're getting from them, they tend to not treat you badly in future. It doesn't change them in general but it does make them treat you personally different because they know you won't be treated that way easily. I don't think people like Caroline learn from others being nice, that just makes them push boundaries even further.

What you're saying should be the way to change peoples perspectives but sadly it just doesn't work on most people.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5340419)

That seems pretty likely Chuff.



I disagree, in my own personal experience I've found if you let people get away with bad behaviour they'll keep on walking all over you, if you stand up for yourself and give back what you're getting from them, they tend to not treat you badly in future. It doesn't change them in general but it does make them treat you personally different because they know you won't be treated that way easily. I don't think people like Caroline learn from others being nice, that just makes them push boundaries even further.

What you're saying should be the way to change peoples perspectives but sadly it just doesn't work on most people.

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy (Post 5340403)

So because Luke is 31 he should take **** from a teenage brat ? i dont think so

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 5340442)

He should be old enough to know to rise above it.

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 5340442)

He should be old enough to know to rise above it.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5340419)

I disagree, in my own personal experience I've found if you let people get away with bad behaviour they'll keep on walking all over you, if you stand up for yourself and give back what you're getting from them, they tend to not treat you badly in future. It doesn't change them in general but it does make them treat you personally different because they know you won't be treated that way easily. I don't think people like Caroline learn from others being nice, that just makes them push boundaries even further.

What you're saying should be the way to change peoples perspectives but sadly it just doesn't work on most people.

Originally Posted by MatthewS (Post 5340448)

^^

You think that Caroline is a dominant person? Compared to Luke A? :conf:

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 5340453)

Caroline is childish and looking for a reaction, by playing her at her own game he's just shown himself to be just as bad rather then being seen as being better.

It takes a better person to rise above it then to resort to tit for tat.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5340455)

I think she's a person who has constantly tried to belittle her HMs and acts in an incredibly insensitive manner

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 5340453)

Caroline is childish and looking for a reaction, by playing her at her own game he's just shown himself to be just as bad rather then being seen as being better.

It takes a better person to rise above it then to resort to tit for tat.

Originally Posted by MatthewS (Post 5340473)

Kinda like how she belittled Sara last night? :joker:

Originally Posted by Ellen (Post 5340479)

Agree, Caroline could not care less what Adam or Luke A do or think about her, by resorting to playing her games they just look has childish has her & for grown men at their age it is sad.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 5340419)

That seems pretty likely Chuff.



I disagree, in my own personal experience I've found if you let people get away with bad behaviour they'll keep on walking all over you, if you stand up for yourself and give back what you're getting from them, they tend to not treat you badly in future. It doesn't change them in general but it does make them treat you personally different because they know you won't be treated that way easily. I don't think people like Caroline learn from others being nice, that just makes them push boundaries even further.

What you're saying should be the way to change peoples perspectives but sadly it just doesn't work on most people.