Clootie Dumpling |
30-08-2012 09:59 PM |
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Originally Posted by boomoo
(Post 5449374)
Not the bully word again. My daughter was bullied at school for years and then at university because she was so intelligent. Believe me Julie is not a bully. Maybe unpleasant behaviour but it is not bullying. Asking a man if he is being played cannot be bullying of the female concerned. This only happened once that I saw. Bullying has to be repeated attacks. You may call a friend a few names because you are mad at them. That is not bullying.
CBB is a game and every one who goes in has supposedly been assessed as to whether they can play the game.
If a contestant is nice to you and then noms behind your back does not amount to bullying. That is the game and a risk for the person because the audience will turn against someone who is blatantly two faced.
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If you've been through this experience with your daughter and if you've read the link, you will understand that it's how the victim feels that defines whether it's bullying, or not.
I don't make this claim about Julie lightly, as I've experienced this form of bullying myself.
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