i speak to my ex's every day and meet up now and then, its not easy. but there is no reason why people shouldn't be friends.
most people when split up put it the past and move on but thats crazy. that means all the time spent was a waste thats no way to live your life. every second is the past anyway.
if they are good enough then people should hold on to the people they care about. not throw it all away.
though depends on the people. some stayin friends would be impossible or require a lot of time. me i'm different lol

i agree. the people i've had relationships with, they were all great people, just because i don't want to have a sexual relationship with them anymore, doesn't mean they are any less awesome. Some of them we actually have a better relationship after we stopped having sex.

One of my exes, he's like a brother to me now, he's amazing and such a good friend. i can honestly say that i love him more now than when we were having a sexual relationship.

i am freinds with my ex

It depends from the person. Sometimes you can, others not.

This.

This is weird tbh for me just thinking back, I've had three 'main' exes.

I had massively bad breakups with two of them, and the other one - I cheated on, and she cheated on me - so we both equally ****ed up and accepted that. And now me and her are friends, occasionally have the odd 'encounter' but thats as far as it would go - no relationship again.

One of my other exes, we had a horrible breakup and I was in bits. We ended up despising eachother. And never spoke for a year, then exactly one year after we broke up - she rang me and we've been good mates ever since.

The other ex is abit more complicated, and I don't think I'll ever manage to be friends with her - but that's probably because there's still feelings between us both - so IMO until the feelings and hurt completely die out, you can't be friends.

me

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What of it? :hmph:

My ex is getting married tomorrow....that feels kind of weird....I'm really happy for him but he invited me to the wedding and I can't quite bring myself to go...(although the nosey side of me would love to)

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... that must feel quite weird Annie...

I thought I was fine with it...I am happy he is happy etc...just feels strange...I can't explain it really...

..yeah, I can understand that..I think I would feel strange as well..I guess it would be the association and memories it would conjure...the actual ceremony, I mean..the vows etc..and having 'been there' before with the exact same person....

I've stayed friends with my ex's up until this day