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Vicky. 29-06-2013 09:14 PM

Yup I would.

Honestly thinking about it, I dont even think it would bother me too much. I would be pissed off but I dont think I would be as upset as others would be.

Niamh. 29-06-2013 09:15 PM

such a weirdo Vicky :laugh:

A guy walks into a bar. He asks the bartender, "Do you have any helicopter flavored crisps?" The bartender shakes his head and says, "No, we only have plain."

Natalie. 29-06-2013 09:24 PM

:joker:

King Gizzard 29-06-2013 09:24 PM

I want some helicopter flavoured crisps now

Samuel. 29-06-2013 09:30 PM

My last partner cheated on me twice, and I foolishly forgave her.

I'm pathetic when I'm in love. She was a terrible girlfriend.

Ammi 29-06-2013 09:36 PM

..it depends on the circumstances, who it is, how you feel about each other etc..I don't think you can say a definate yes or no until it happens to you..

Josy 30-06-2013 01:45 AM

No I probably wouldn't forgive a cheat tbh.

I met my current partner when I was 15 and we have been together since then (I'm 31 now) and he has never cheated on me nor have I cheated on him but before I met him I was with someone else for about a year and a half too and he did cheat but we were both really young so I suppose a serious relationship was a bit too much at that age anyway, once I found out he cheated on me I done the same to him and that went on like tit for tat for a couple of months before we called it day.

Bit of a life story there but there you go LOL

Smithy 30-06-2013 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Lee. (Post 6118856)

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reece(: 30-06-2013 01:56 AM

Probably not, what's to stop them doing it again and trust will be broken permanently.

Jords 30-06-2013 02:01 AM

I want to be in a relationship so I can have a hot steamy affair.

Kizzy 30-06-2013 02:02 AM

No I think it's best to warn new partners too so they know it will be game over if they do.

Novo 30-06-2013 02:02 AM

i want a hot steamy affair with that Polish Minx in your Sig

Drew. 30-06-2013 02:05 AM

im too forgiving and i think i would forgive them, but if i was put in the situation i hope i wouldnt.

Firewire 30-06-2013 02:13 AM

if i was like away abroad for like a year and i couldn't bring a partner and they ****ed someone else then i would forgive them because how are they supposed to hold off for a year

Firewire 30-06-2013 02:13 AM

although saying that, i would break up with them before going away

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 30-06-2013 02:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6119037)
such a weirdo Vicky :laugh:

A guy walks into a bar. He asks the bartender, "Do you have any helicopter flavored crisps?" The bartender shakes his head and says, "No, we only have plain."

idgi

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 30-06-2013 02:18 AM

oh i just got it

Jenn-CityIVLyfe 30-06-2013 04:23 AM

No, I don't think I could ever forgive a guy for doing that.
I'm a bit cynical of most men anyways and that would just push me over the edge.

Niamh. 30-06-2013 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Josy (Post 6120073)
No I probably wouldn't forgive a cheat tbh.

I met my current partner when I was 15 and we have been together since then (I'm 31 now) and he has never cheated on me nor have I cheated on him but before I met him I was with someone else for about a year and a half too and he did cheat but we were both really young so I suppose a serious relationship was a bit too much at that age anyway, once I found out he cheated on me I done the same to him and that went on like tit for tat for a couple of months before we called it day.

Bit of a life story there but there you go LOL

I'm always amazed at people who've stayed with their b/f/g/f from that age. I'm just judging by myself of course But I was 21 before I even stayed with someone for longer than 4 months :laugh:

Shaun 30-06-2013 12:34 PM

I'm sure I posted in here... why's it been deleted :suspect:

edit: nvm. Was in the "would you have an affair" thread.

Kazanne 30-06-2013 12:37 PM

I think you can try to forgive it once,but that's it.

lostalex 30-06-2013 01:06 PM

It totally depends on the circumstances. If he did it while we were not getting along, and didn't do anything that jeopardized our relationship in any other way, i could forgive him. I'd probably even give him permission to do it if i felt that we weren't on the same page. As long as it was just sexual, I wouldn't have a huge problem with it.

If he was falling in love with someone else, then I would have a big problem with that.

Roy Mars III 30-06-2013 01:17 PM

No I would not

Z 30-06-2013 02:55 PM

No, it happened to me once and I was so hurt by it, it ruined my life for a while, it was all I could think about and what could I have done to have stopped it from happening. It took me a long time to really believe that I wasn't at fault in any way, which is stupid, because of course it wasn't my fault... I've been single ever since then, it's been almost 2 years now and I'm only just feeling ready to get into a relationship again. Being cheated on is horrible - especially when the other person is having an affair. It makes you feel worthless.


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