..I think that's it for me as well, it's not the sleeping with someone else so much as the deceit and lies, because it would be like not recognising your partner as the person you know and love...like you'd never known them at all...

Agree with that.

I was with a girl in a clearly dying relationship and I met another girl who I connected with very quickly over a week period. She was flying home the next day so I did what I had to do and never looked back.

I broke up with my girlfriend days after because she was interested in someone else anyway so **** her. :idc:

I've been cheated on. It's not a nice feeling. It's something I wouldn't inflict on any partner of mine.

Was you not going to have an affair with a married bloke? :laugh:

Didn't you once contemplate having a relationship with a married man or am I just imagining things

Snap

No I wasn't :hmph:

After I found he was married I ceased contact with him.

I came on to see what everyone's views on it thank you very much. Although I did consider it got like a fraction of a second coz he was hot :idc:

Homewrecking *****

He was obviously unhappy in his marriage anyway :hmph:

Glenn nearly falling for a pretty face.

I'm so shallow :bored:

I am so too.

Swim to the deep end

But that's effort though

Post of the year potentially.:joker:

Shallow and deep? Is this another thread descending into smut?

I've been cheated on in the only proper relationship I've ever been in and I would say it's completely ruined my ability to trust or be in another relationship and it will take a long time to work past it. It's already been two and a half years since it happened and I've remained single ever since, at the time it was the worst thing anyone had ever done to me and I'd still rank it up there even now. It takes a really scummy person to do that to someone they're supposed to care about. If you feel that you're with the wrong person - break up with them before you get with the person you'd rather be with. They'll still be upset about it but at least it won't undermine their confidence in themselves. It just makes you feel sick, that you'll never be good enough for anyone ever again and you end up blaming yourself; the person they cheated on you with and anything but the actual person to blame - the cheater.

I hated the person I was dumped for, for a very long time, until I realised very slowly that my anger was misplaced and that while they weren't exactly innocent, they weren't the one who deceived me over a period of months, lied to me about what they were up to or broke my heart, so I shouldn't be angry with him, not really.

I was accused of having some sort of affair with someone from London :s all their friends added me on msn and were hyping so I was gonna get the coach to london and fight them, I was 15 I think

Don't mess with Germyle or you'll get your ass kicked.

The whole of the musclebound TIBB will help him out as well.

Yeah those were my ratchet days lol, even though I'm still ratchet but im not as rude/short tempered (am I?)

You don't come across that way on here to me anyway.