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Marsh. 19-03-2014 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 6762683)
Ruthless is okay so long as you don't crap on people in the process because they remember it.

Isn't crapping on people the definition of ruthlessness though? A lack of care about others and all that.

InOne 19-03-2014 10:28 PM

If people get in my way then they have to be whacked. It's just business :idc:

lostalex 19-03-2014 10:39 PM

I don't like ruthless people. whether that makes them good or bad, i don't know, but i certainly don't care to surround myself with ruthless people.

I enjoy watching ruthless people get their just desserts. What goes around comes around.

Livia 19-03-2014 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by 08marsh (Post 6762748)
Isn't crapping on people the definition of ruthlessness though? A lack of care about others and all that.

I guess that's one definition. It seems to me that in certain circles of business, ruthlessness in men is quite highly regarded, while it's frowned upon from women. This may be just my perception. I need thetruth to come and put me right on that one.

Marsh. 19-03-2014 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 6762797)
I guess that's one definition. It seems to me that in certain circles of business, ruthlessness in men is quite highly regarded, while it's frowned upon from women. This may be just my perception. I need thetruth to come and put me right on that one.

:laugh: I look forward to his contribution in the morning.

Kate! 19-03-2014 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 6762757)
If people get in my way then they have to be whacked. It's just business :idc:

D:

Marsh. 19-03-2014 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne (Post 6762757)
If people get in my way then they have to be whacked. It's just business :idc:

In a horny way?

Vanessa 19-03-2014 11:44 PM

http://cdn.uproxx.com/wp-content/upl...ng-Day-GIF.gif They have to be whacked? :laugh:

lostalex 19-03-2014 11:55 PM

To me, ruthless means overly competitive people, people who want to win at any cost. It's okay to want to be successful, but success doesn't mean that everyone else has to lose.

Ruthless people don't try to find win/win solutions, they think that their success depends on destroying other people. Instead of trying to raise themselves up, they try to tear down everyone else.

Marsh. 19-03-2014 11:56 PM

Yeah, it's a lack of compassion for others.

Vanessa 19-03-2014 11:57 PM

I feel sorry for eveyone, except those people who are always mean to me.

the truth 20-03-2014 03:08 AM

its the worst trait we have as english people. we save to wallow in being cold and ruthless.....its something that shames me of being english sometimes.....stoicism is great, stiff upper lip isnt so great and when it becomes a cold ruthless detachment it fast becomes disturbing. Ive found in my travels people from other parts of the world seem far warmer than us in many places

the truth 20-03-2014 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 6762797)
I guess that's one definition. It seems to me that in certain circles of business, ruthlessness in men is quite highly regarded, while it's frowned upon from women. This may be just my perception. I need thetruth to come and put me right on that one.

I think thats totally untrue. In fact Id say in general these days women are far far more ruthless

Ammi 20-03-2014 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by 08marsh (Post 6762748)
Isn't crapping on people the definition of ruthlessness though? A lack of care about others and all that.

..yeah, a lack of compassion/heartlessness etc..I don't think that many people would be 'ruthless' with that actual definition but I understand what Livia means in that I think that if you work in a male dominated environment and one that is largely opposed to females in higher positions, then you have to be very focused and I think that is a more accurate way to describe it...

Ammi 20-03-2014 05:15 AM

..but no, I wouldn't say I was a ruthless person, I don't think many people are..in terms of my job though, I don't work in a competitive environment so I don't really feel any pressure like some people do...when it comes to keeping 'clutter' and stuff though, I am fairly 'ruthless' with not hanging on to too many things..

Kyle 20-03-2014 07:27 AM

Ruthless is just an excuse to be a c v n t.

Synonyms are cruel, heartless, pitiless, merciless, callous, cold-blooded, unsympathetic etc.

Not good attributes.

Niamh. 20-03-2014 09:08 AM

I'm too lazy to be ruthless really, far too much effort

Crimson Dynamo 20-03-2014 09:12 AM

Its not good if you run a children's nursery but i would imagine that if you are the head of a Mexican drug cartel it can be useful

lostalex 20-03-2014 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 6763122)
Its not good if you run a children's nursery but i would imagine that if you are the head of a Mexican drug cartel it can be useful

or being the president of Russia.

Nedusa 20-03-2014 10:48 AM

I love the way some people can be totally Ruthless and trample all over someone, cause them immense grief which can affect that person's health and their relationship with their family..........and then justify it all by saying

"Its just Business"....

Nedusa 20-03-2014 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 6763150)
or being the president of Russia.

Alex you need to let the "Russia" thing go now........it's time to move on !!

lostalex 20-03-2014 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Nedusa (Post 6763224)
Alex you need to let the "Russia" thing go now........it's time to move on !!

As a star trek fan, you really need to take spock out of your siggy. You don't represent the values of star fleet at all. :hmph:


Z 20-03-2014 11:08 AM

It can help you get ahead but it also ensures that people will relish kicking you on your way back down again

lostalex 20-03-2014 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by the truth (Post 6763314)
yet more sexist male hating brainwash

Ammi is not hateful towards anyone, don't accuse Ammi of such things, she's probably the most docile, least hateful person on this damn forum dude, so you really are looking a fool calling HER hateful or man-hating. give it up.

the truth 20-03-2014 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by lostalex (Post 6763320)
Ammi is not hateful towards anyone, don't accuse Ammi of such things, she's probably the most docile, least hateful person on this damn forum dude, so you really are looking a fool calling HER hateful or man-hating. give it up.

I gave my genuine opinion on what she said. I stand by it 100%.


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