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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier
(Post 7083637)
I think Chris is old / intelligent enough to simply have a platonic appreciation of her, both aesthetically and as a person. You don't have to have a crush on / be flirting with someone to realise that they are attractive, and I personally think people (especially in Britain) are far too shy about showing that, most BECAUSE they're worried that people will then think that they "fancy that person" or want anything to happen with them.
For example, I have absolutely no sexual inclination for other males, at all. Not even a hint of bi-curiosity. But I can still appreciate the male physical form and when another male is "good looking". But wouldn't be able to say that to them as they (and others) would likely think I'm after some bumfun. Which is really sad, when you think about it. If everyone was more open about just saying to each other, without agenda, "I just think you're awesome", people in general would be much happier!
In fact, I'm going to text / FB some friends right now, just to tell them what I like about them :D.
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..good post TS, I think there's often that thing and maybe especially in reality TV ..?...that if a 'connection' is seen, that the expected thing is a romantic thing when people can feel deeply connected/bond with someone but in a purely platonic way and nothing more and in a BB environment I would think a bond would be something you would want just to keep you sane/have someone to share thoughts with/a 'trusted person' etc....mind you, I'm a heterosexual female but with other females I know who are gorgeous/beautiful/sexy etc, I do openly tell them so without feeling that it would be taken as any interest in them, it's just a compliment and appreciation of them as any other about their character would be, like saying ..you're kind/thoughtful etc... |
