He likes a finger up his arse but responds to being asked "are you gay?" with **** off.

That sounds like Gary was the one being offensive.

Not one aggressive word left Gary's mouth, James on the other hand immediately told Gary to **** Off and then mentioned he had never hit a 70 year old man.

actions speak louder than words...

James is a prick. He was pretty much taking the piss out of Leslie (albeit in a non offensive way) and then Gary does his bull in a china shop version and he can't handle it. Comfortable with his sexuality my arse.

Really?

Like the act James was carrying out before Gary joined the joke?

Really don't see how you can say James done nothing wrong tbh.

If you're going to "assume the position" and wave your arse around, you shouldn't be surprised when somebody makes a joke of it.

totally, james is on a mission to raise his profile is all.

Just don't raise a finger. :hehe:

..James was right in saying that it was rude to shhhh someone but it was because he was trying to say something while Gary was talking which I've noticed him do a few times with people and he doesn't appear to me to always really be listening just impatient to speak himself...so they were both right there but then James went on to make it a....'I'm only telling you so that you 'fit' in with us/this is what we do'...thing...who are the 'you' and who are the 'us'..?....what's he talking about..?...

..oh the other thing..I'm not sure he's arrogant but extremely judgemental when in the live-feed he told Claire that he was refraining from getting to know Dee/talking to her because of who she is/on benefits..?..so rather than talk to her/maybe ask her stuff about herself/find out her 'truth' to her life..he'll judge her instead..?...

...he's a bit of an eejit...