Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 7265532)

..it still doesn't say anything about the poster though and gives no one the right to comment on them...there are lots of reasons why people 'support' housemates or even like or are interested in them...whether they see 'beyond' what is surface etc and whether that intrigues them or gives them any empathy etc...in terms of 'housemates' we all view differently what we see in terms of 'entertainment' and in terms of what we feel those housemates's character are and how we view those characters also depends on a lot of individual things and personal life experiences and people we know..or can do, if that's your thought process...and none of that can and should ever be judged by another forum member because it really is all very subjective....there are many people who failed to see the 'value' as a person of the civilian BB winner and the fact that they also 'entertained' at the expense of others..much more so than James in my own opinion...my opinion though was not of the 'majority' opinion of public and voters...so whose opinion was 'right'..?..no ones..not the majority/not the minority..just differing opinions and for different reasons....


..anyway, my opinion still stands...posters and members post their opinions and thoughts on housemates who have put themselves up to be 'judged' so that's what we all do and enjoy doing and always have done...I find it very sad personally that I have seen so many interesting members being 'put off' from posting their thoughts on housemates because of personal comments to themselves for doing so...I don't know why this has been allowed or seen to be allowed so frequently, that saddens me as well but as it has, then my opinion is obviously here in the 'minority' as well ....

Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 7265419)

..yeah I agree that I think his behaviour masks many insecurities..whether they be deep rooted ones or to do with his loss of place on Strictly and maybe a 'crisis' in his life, I really don't know but I do hope he resolves whatever his 'demons are'..I.and no, it's never going to sit well with the public to behave as he has done because it's only behaviour and the effect of it that we really mostly look at and no matter how much empathy or understanding we try to have, the results of that behaviour to the people around him are the same..interestingly in this case though I don't think Gary or Audley were that particularly effected anywhere near in a way that they may have been because they're both in such a good place and so much 'secure' within themselves...I do think that 'failing' to get a reaction not just for James but for some other housemates as well just made them completely frustrated and maybe 'worse'..?...because they're not in the place that Audley and Gary are and so would like to be...because they can't be and can't 'reach it' they sneered, you know..?...