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King Gizzard 20-09-2014 07:29 PM

I hope he has a ****ty day tomorrow and the day after and forever

thesheriff443 20-09-2014 07:30 PM

life in the big bad world!

Firewire 20-09-2014 07:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 7277686)
...I think you were probably so shocked and upset though that you just probably did it/moved it and didn't have time for any thought processes about whether you should have...

That was it. If it happens to me again I know how to react next time. I should have left the car where it was and walked away. Why should I move it?

rubymoo 20-09-2014 07:34 PM

I'm sorry that happened to you.

Try to look at it from this angle, he can't be very happy with his life if he hurled that abuse at you, he probably has few friends because who'd want to be friends with that?

He is obviously a bully and bullies are usually bullied, people who spout hate are so unhappy and aren't privilledged in their lives to know friendship and love, you have a beautiful soul, and should pity him.

And remember he'll get his.....karma can be a bitch but she always puts it right;)

smudgie 20-09-2014 07:34 PM

Potatoes in the exhaust..a couple of slashed tyres, teach the obnoxious twit a lesson.

Kyle 20-09-2014 07:34 PM

Don't waste any more of your time on that loser and what you did or didn't do. Chalk it down to experience and revel in the fact the best part of that man ran down his moms leg.

rubymoo 20-09-2014 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyle (Post 7277720)
Don't waste any more of your time on that loser and what you did or didn't do. Chalk it down to experience and revel in the fact the best part of that man ran down his moms leg.

:laugh:

Ninastar 20-09-2014 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Kizzy (Post 7277661)
Build a bridge, who cares what some halfwit bag head said? get some perspective!

#toughlove

i actually agree. When people get upset by what someone said, I like to raise the point that if that is all they think of you then why should their opinion matter?

I'm glad you didnt get affected by it Jonathan, that's really really good and not a lot of people can say it didnt upset them. I totally and completely understand why it annoyed you so much that someone would do that. One of my biggest hates is truly insufferable people, and while their opinions dont bother me, the fact that they think they can treat people like that, truly sets me off.

Firewire 20-09-2014 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ninastar (Post 7277748)
i actually agree. When people get upset by what someone said, I like to raise the point that if that is all they think of you then why should their opinion matter?

I'm glad you didnt get affected by it Jonathan, that's really really good and not a lot of people can say it didnt upset them. I totally and completely understand why it annoyed you so much that someone would do that. One of my biggest hates is truly insufferable people, and while their opinions dont bother me, the fact that they think they can treat people like that, truly sets me off.

It wasn't the insult that affected me. He could have said anything and I would have felt the same way. I was truly shocked and confused. Of course his opinion doesn't matter, it's just the fact he thinks he can speak to me like that when I had done nothing wrong.

Kizzy 20-09-2014 07:45 PM

Here's some advice ... some people are twats.

Locke. 20-09-2014 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by JoshBB (Post 7277659)
Can't you like, report the guy for harassment?

You can't report someone to the police because they called you fat. This kinda thing probably happens hundreds of thousands of times every day, should be stamped out but there is no way for it to be really.

Benjamin 20-09-2014 07:47 PM

Urgh I hate douchebags like that. karma will come and get him one day, Jonathan. :hug:

Vanessa 20-09-2014 07:47 PM

Some people are just shallow. They thinks looks are everything. I feel sorry for them, to be honest.

Margarine. 20-09-2014 07:57 PM

Hope you are okay! On the bright side you got your chicken bites

andybigbro 20-09-2014 08:01 PM

Ugh I hate people like that firewire!

He's just a bully! Karma is a bitch so don't worry :)

Josy 20-09-2014 08:26 PM

Right

What's the bawbags reg plate and we will go smash the motor up?

Seriously though don't let ***** like that bother you Jonathon.

Marc 20-09-2014 09:09 PM

That's jut rude tbh

Firewire 20-09-2014 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Josy (Post 7277995)
Right

What's the bawbags reg plate and we will go smash the motor up?

Seriously though don't let ***** like that bother you Jonathon.

:laugh2:

I'm gonna go snooping, don't worry. I'll catch him.

Firewire 20-09-2014 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Marc (Post 7278120)
That's jut rude tbh

ikr i didn't even do anything wrong :shrug:

Quote:

Originally Posted by andybigbro (Post 7277856)
Ugh I hate people like that firewire!

He's just a bully! Karma is a bitch so don't worry :)

hopefully! he'll get his comeuppance sooner or later

Quote:

Originally Posted by Le Freak (Post 7277836)
Hope you are okay! On the bright side you got your chicken bites

they were glorious :love:

Jake. 20-09-2014 11:27 PM

What a dick.. He must feel pretty insecure with himself anyway, if that's how he spends his time.. Don't worry about it :)

Firewire 20-09-2014 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Jake. (Post 7278394)
What a dick.. He must feel pretty insecure with himself anyway, if that's how he spends his time.. Don't worry about it :)

Absolutely, I'm fine now I was just in shock earlier!

Jake. 20-09-2014 11:31 PM

At the end of the day, your weight can change (not that it'd need to, I'm sure you're fine as you are) whilst his dickish personality is stuck with him forever..

I hope he wakes up with thrush.

Firewire 20-09-2014 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jake. (Post 7278398)
At the end of the day, your weight can change (not that it'd need to, I'm sure you're fine as you are) whilst his dickish personality is stuck with him forever..

I hope he wakes up with thrush.

It wasn't the fact that it was a weight jibe, it could have been a gay jibe or even him just calling me something that doesn't particularly relate - I would have felt the same way. I was just caught off guard as I'd never experienced that before. Now that's it has happened I hope I can deal with it better next time.

But you're absolutely right.

Jake. 20-09-2014 11:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Firewire (Post 7278405)
It wasn't the fact that it was a weight jibe, it could have been a gay jibe or even him just calling me something that doesn't particularly relate - I would have felt the same way. I was just caught off guard as I'd never experienced that before. Now that's it has happened I hope I can deal with it better next time.

But you're absolutely right.

Yeah I see what you mean, i think I'd feel the same.. Powerless in a sense.. We all react in different ways to situations, perhaps the way you reacted (not giving him the time of day) was what was meant to happen?

Firewire 20-09-2014 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Jake. (Post 7278408)
Yeah I see what you mean, i think I'd feel the same.. Powerless in a sense.. We all react in different ways to situations, perhaps the way you reacted (not giving him the time of day) was what was meant to happen?

I'm not confrontational anyway. I mean if it's someone I know then it's completely different. But I would never engage in any sort of conflict with someone I don't know. He doesn't deserve the time of day. If he wanted a parking space so bad he could have it. There was loads of spaces nearby, so I don't see why the one I was in was particularly important.


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