Yes, it took me a couple of years to get over it and it started to happen all over again (with the same person) and I don't really know where I am right now emotionally.

If you feel history is repeating itself get out, if you're just scared it will hang on :)

I have been heartbroken but luckily I've had the kids to focus on to stop me wallowing.

Yeah but it was silly looking back that I took it all so hardly.