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Benjamin 22-01-2015 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 7517562)
What is interesting is that the gay members of this forum do not seem to like him or kav and have gone very silent about michelle

The history of this forum is that most gay males in BB are hated, especially by other gay males. I'm actually struggling to remember one that was liked.

Jack The Cat 22-01-2015 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 7517740)
The history of this forum is that most gay males in BB are hated, especially by other gay males. I'm actually struggling to remember one that was liked.

What about Brian Dowling, surely everyone liked him as a contestant.

Amy Jade 22-01-2015 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by thom_bombadil (Post 7517552)
He's not doing anything. Michelle is offended, and any sheep amongst the viewers that are easily influenced by what she says. Perez dancing around the garden making sex noises was funny, regardless of whether you like him or not.

Ermm nah I never found it even slightly funny.

daniel-lewis-1985 22-01-2015 12:36 PM

He's damaging our reputation by going around constantly accusing people of being homophobic. How the hell do gay people expect to be treated equally when the heterosexual community are scared they may say something that offends us.

He can behave however he likes but when he throws such accusations out there he generalises all of us and its very damaging and disrespectful to the LGBT community who fought so hard for equal rights and were faced with ACTUAL homophobia.

Benjamin 22-01-2015 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 7517765)
He's damaging our reputation by going around constantly accusing people of being homophobic. How the hell do gay people expect to be treated equally when the heterosexual community are scared they may say something that offends us.

He can behave however he likes but when he throws such accusations out there he generalises all of us and its very damaging and disrespectful to the LGBT community who fought so hard for equal rights and were faced with ACTUAL homophobia.

:laugh3:

Niamh. 22-01-2015 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack The Cat (Post 7517746)
What about Brian Dowling, surely everyone liked him as a contestant.

Best HM ever :love:

daniel-lewis-1985 22-01-2015 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 7517773)
:laugh3:

Whats so funny?

daniel-lewis-1985 22-01-2015 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 7517722)
oh, well..that makes all the difference!!:joker:

It does actually.

Creggle 22-01-2015 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by MelihV (Post 7517456)
I will only talk for myself I find Perez very offensive because there are lots of gays out there besides me who doesnt have basic rights specially people who lives in syria, iran, iraq etc gets killed and they cant escape from it. For example isis threw 2 of them from an apartment just because they are gay recently. (well they kill everybody but this is just an example) Perez has freedom and perez uses his life in such a disgusting way and it makes me upset. I have a little bit of hope and chance in life but i feel really really bad when people get killed because of who they are and people like perez just use their life in a disgusting way. With that being said Perez is a good housemate for creating drama but he sucks at life.

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Miranda123 22-01-2015 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 7517415)
I don't get the outrage, what is he doing that is offended so many homosexuals?

I dont care if he is gay, straight, square, round or oblong

He is a Grade A C..t and I cant wait for him to get outside and see how hated he is..................

Here's hoping that Child Services in LA are keeping a watchful eye on that poor baby, as for the women who gave the child to him, she needs locking up!

Miranda123 22-01-2015 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 7517765)
He's damaging our reputation by going around constantly accusing people of being homophobic. How the hell do gay people expect to be treated equally when the heterosexual community are scared they may say something that offends us.

He can behave however he likes but when he throws such accusations out there he generalises all of us and its very damaging and disrespectful to the LGBT community who fought so hard for equal rights and were faced with ACTUAL homophobia.

well said, but its not just the homophobe angle, he uses every 'phobe' out there to justify his ****ty behaviour and try to get others into trouble for questioning his disgusting antics

I dont think the gay community should be too bothered by him, humanity has many 'rejects' and they come in many shapes, sizes, and sexual preferences

Wishing someone would kick him in the bo llocks so I can watch him squeal like the bitch he is!

daniel-lewis-1985 22-01-2015 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Miranda123 (Post 7517880)
I dont care if he is gay, straight, square, round or oblong

He is a Grade A C..t and I cant wait for him to get outside and see how hated he is..................

Here's hoping that Child Services in LA are keeping a watchful eye on that poor baby, as for the women who gave the child to him, she needs locking up!

Low blow bringing his kid into it.

He could actually be a really good dad, I think his behaviour in the CBB house is one big act to entertain the British public.

We should really stick to discussing his house antics and not bring children into it or his personal life on the outside.

abhorson 22-01-2015 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Miranda123 (Post 7517880)
I dont care if he is gay, straight, square, round or oblong

He is a Grade A C..t and I cant wait for him to get outside and see how hated he is..................

Here's hoping that Child Services in LA are keeping a watchful eye on that poor baby, as for the women who gave the child to him, she needs locking up!

**** me :joker: Harsh but to the point.

You were right about Nadie on the fan thread but very naughty to do so :wavey:

Miranda123 22-01-2015 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 7517886)
Low blow bringing his kid into it.

He could actually be a really good dad, I think his behaviour in the CBB house is one big act to entertain the British public.

We should really stick to discussing his house antics and not bring children into it or his personal life on the outside.

I dont see how you can suggest that someone so obviously deranged can be a good father, Ive no doubt he loves the child, and would not mean to do anything bad to it, but his influence will destroy this childs life as sure as the nose on your face

This is not about gay adoption/surrogacy etc but about a manic schizophrenic bringing up a kid without medication, no adoption agency would sanction his parentage and therefore he should not be allowed to raise a child

Id say the same about Alicia, unfortunately, she is already giving her kids the idea that dying is better than having no boobs

Im sure breast cancer sufferers loved that little gem of hers, thick f..king insensitive bitch!

Miranda123 22-01-2015 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by abhorson (Post 7517891)
**** me :joker: Harsh but to the point.

You were right about Nadie on the fan thread but very naughty to do so :wavey:

yeah kinda forgot I was ON Fan thread there, oops

abhorson 22-01-2015 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Miranda123 (Post 7517917)
yeah kinda forgot I was ON Fan thread there, oops

Made me bloody laugh. I have been wanting to do it!

Kazanne 22-01-2015 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Miranda123 (Post 7517898)
I dont see how you can suggest that someone so obviously deranged can be a good father, Ive no doubt he loves the child, and would not mean to do anything bad to it, but his influence will destroy this childs life as sure as the nose on your face

This is not about gay adoption/surrogacy etc but about a manic schizophrenic bringing up a kid without medication, no adoption agency would sanction his parentage and therefore he should not be allowed to raise a child

Id say the same about Alicia, unfortunately, she is already giving her kids the idea that dying is better than having no boobs

Im sure breast cancer sufferers loved that little gem of hers, thick f..king insensitive bitch!

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Benjamin 22-01-2015 01:55 PM

I stand by my point. If fags want to be offended that he his representing them, then so be it. But he does not offend me or my sexuality and he does not represent all gay men and those gay men that think differently clearly have a long way to go with feeling comfortable with themselves.

Vanessa 22-01-2015 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 7517968)
I stand by my point. If fags want to be offended that he his representing them, then so be it. But he does not offend me or my sexuality and he does not represent all gay men and those gay men that think differently clearly have a long way to go with feeling comfortable with themselves.

:clap1:

chuff me dizzy 22-01-2015 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 7517833)
Best HM ever :love:

God !! :worship:

lime 22-01-2015 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin (Post 7517968)
I stand by my point. If fags want to be offended that he his representing them, then so be it. But he does not offend me or my sexuality and he does not represent all gay men and those gay men that think differently clearly have a long way to go with feeling comfortable with themselves.

Well said Ben:lovedup:

chuff me dizzy 22-01-2015 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Miranda123 (Post 7517898)
I dont see how you can suggest that someone so obviously deranged can be a good father, Ive no doubt he loves the child, and would not mean to do anything bad to it, but his influence will destroy this childs life as sure as the nose on your face

This is not about gay adoption/surrogacy etc but about a manic schizophrenic bringing up a kid without medication, no adoption agency would sanction his parentage and therefore he should not be allowed to raise a child

Id say the same about Alicia, unfortunately, she is already giving her kids the idea that dying is better than having no boobs

Im sure breast cancer sufferers loved that little gem of hers, thick f..king insensitive bitch!

:clap1: THIS is clear proof that surrogacy is wrong No adoption/social services agency would allow someone so clearly mentally insane to adopt a child ...I also agree with what you say about Alicia too

Shaun 22-01-2015 02:04 PM

It's not a direct link. It's not as clear cut as saying "if Perez does a bad thing, then everyone watching will hate gays". And the comparisons made here with "if Nadia did a bad thing everyone would hate straights!!!" are really just another tedious example of heterosexuals thinking they are in any way relevant, comparable or marginalised, lol.

I think from Michelle's viewpoint she spends 90% of her time living, working with drag queens and overly-dramatic people, but these are (for the most part) stage characters and masks that're put on for a show. She doesn't usually deal with these sorts of people (as hysterical and melodramatic as Perez) in a 24/7 environment. So she's quite used to distinguishing the "on-stage" and "off-stage" personalities of drag queens.

Whilst, yes, we should accept that people who identify as gay have a wide variety of personalities and some of them are going to be as toxically awful as Perez's, at the same time there are those who're 100% unfamiliar with gay people. I know this to be true, I'm surrounded by tiny little white villages where everyone's happily married and the gays are these weird little foreign identities. So the whole cause she's a part of is of a relevance that's different to every community. In New Jersey (where she's from), it's more of a case of "we want marriage equality", whereas in other places it's just the right to be represented and heard. I'm sure that 99% of people on here are able to see that Perez =/= all gays. I'm not sure that a lot of others are.

I don't know. I'm conflicted about the whole thing :laugh: I can see why she's appalled and worried by the prospect of people judging a community by him, but at the same time obviously they shouldn't. It's just a question of whether they do. In my experience some do.

And obviously a lot of people are writing her off because of connected incidents with Alicia, and how she's aligned with Katie Hopkins. Believe me, I'm probably the most frustrated by the latter fact :laugh: But they're really unrelated incidents.

chuff me dizzy 22-01-2015 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by daniel-lewis-1985 (Post 7517886)
Low blow bringing his kid into it.

He could actually be a really good dad, I think his behaviour in the CBB house is one big act to entertain the British public.

We should really stick to discussing his house antics and not bring children into it or his personal life on the outside.

You've watched it on BB ,would you let it babysit your child ? I certainly would not

Crimson Dynamo 22-01-2015 02:05 PM

well perez has put me off going gay


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