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LukeB 17-08-2015 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 8066711)
As i have posted earlier, the holes in the barrel can be sharp and damaged due to coins etc so it is no place for a child and he could have grabbed the door by error and gut shut in and then to open it it would need to be switched on


its immense stupidity

:clap1:

Niamh. 17-08-2015 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 8066710)
Petty sure alot of families have pics like these of toddlers in situations they shouldn't be in, it was naive of her to post it on social media given how easily people get offended and take any opportunity to have a go, but being driven from her house is OTT, I wonder if the people who have caused this realise how upsetting it is for her son to have to relocate somewhere else :umm2:

Exactly. Someone brought it up on the last thread about this story but I will bring it up again, I wonder if all these people demonising her and driving her out of her home have a good laugh at the kids clips on you've been framed?

Liam- 17-08-2015 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 8066711)
As i have posted earlier, the holes in the barrel can be sharp and damaged due to coins etc so it is no place for a child and he could have grabbed the door by error and gut shut in and then to open it it would need to be switched on


its immense stupidity

So you're hating on her, on the off chance that she puts coins or other foreign objects through the washing machine? there's also nothing on the inside of a washing machine door that is able to be held onto, especially not by a baby, so the chance of the kid being able to grab hold onto the door and shut it from the inside, is incredibly slim, impossible at most.

Niamh. 17-08-2015 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 8066716)
So you're hating on her, on the off chance that she puts coins or other foreign objects through the washing machine? there's also nothing on the inside of a washing machine door that is able to be held onto, especially not by a baby, so the chance of the kid being able to grab hold onto the door and shut it from the inside, is incredibly slim, impossible at most.

and to add to that, my washing machine doesn't need to be turned on to open the door if the machine is off :conf:

LukeB 17-08-2015 01:05 PM

I nearly went into a unplugged washing machine once and my mother stopped me straight away because a washing machine is no place for a baby unplugged or plugged. Life is unpredictable and that is a fact.. anything can happen and you just don't even know it. The hate is OTT but you can't expect people to be pleased/happy with what happened.

It's her own fault

Liam- 17-08-2015 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8066718)
and to add to that, my washing machine doesn't need to be turned on to open the door if the machine is off :conf:

Mine either :laugh:

The doors aren't electronically controlled, it's a simple latch mechanism, able to be opened any time, on or off.

Niamh. 17-08-2015 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 8066720)
Mine either :laugh:

The doors aren't electronically controlled, it's a simple latch mechanism, able to be opened any time, on or off.

The only time mine won't open is if there's a wash on other than that in can be opened or closed anytime

Liam- 17-08-2015 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8066721)
The only time mine won't open is if there's a wash on other than that in can be opened or closed anytime

Oh well yeah, then they're electronically shut.

This washing machine obviously wasn't on, so the door would have been able to be opened if by some unknown miracle this kid happened to shut it, no real danger, no real issue :clap1:

Niamh. 17-08-2015 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 8066724)
Oh well yeah, then they're electronically shut.

This washing machine obviously wasn't on, so the door would have been able to be opened if by some unknown miracle this kid happened to shut it, no real danger, no real issue :clap1:

Yeah, it'd be almost impossible for him to close the door himself from the inside

Crimson Dynamo 17-08-2015 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam- (Post 8066716)
So you're hating on her, on the off chance that she puts coins or other foreign objects through the washing machine? there's also nothing on the inside of a washing machine door that is able to be held onto, especially not by a baby, so the chance of the kid being able to grab hold onto the door and shut it from the inside, is incredibly slim, impossible at most.

Its almost impossibly slim for a child to hang itsself on a cord of a set of blinds, yet every year it happens


thousands of children die every day from almost impossible situations


and everyone washes clothes with coins in their trousers from time to time

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...g-machine.html

http://www.japantoday.com/category/n...e-washer-dryer

"Police said the boy had gotten into the drum and was trapped after the door closed behind him, locking him in."

http://www.scmp.com/news/china-insid...omicide-police

Two toddler sisters died after crawling into a washing machine at their home and accidentally turning it on.

Police have ruled out the possibility of homicide after the pair, aged 2 and 3 (earlier media reports said she was 4), were found dead hours after a spin cycle had been activated at their home in a suburban town in Jiangxi province on Saturday, Xinhua reported on Tuesday.


there are plenty more

Crimson Dynamo 17-08-2015 01:18 PM

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/wo...a-9708416.html

It was unclear how the door managed to close and lock the girl inside but the spin cycle was activated for several minutes before the woman noticed what had happened.

Niamh. 17-08-2015 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 8066736)
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/wo...a-9708416.html

It was unclear how the door managed to close and lock the girl inside but the spin cycle was activated for several minutes before the woman noticed what had happened.

The machine was unplugged so no chance of that happening, is there?

Crimson Dynamo 17-08-2015 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8066737)
The machine was unplugged so no chance of that happening, is there?

Says she after the fact

how many folks do you know who unplug their washing machine?

Niamh. 17-08-2015 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 8066740)
Says she after the fact

how many folks do you know who unplug their washing machine?

so you only believe what supports your view of the article then? :laugh:

Honestly, it's not the first thing I check when I go round to someones house and it's not a common topic of conversation but I know I turn the socket switch off at the wall on mine when I'm not using it

Crimson Dynamo 17-08-2015 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8066746)
so you only believe what supports your view of the article then? :laugh:

Honestly, it's not the first thing I check when I go round to someones house and it's not a common topic of conversation but I know I turn the socket switch off at the wall on mine when I'm not using it

I would wager not many on here, who own machines unplug them

Niamh. 17-08-2015 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 8066749)
I would wager not many on here, who own machines unplug them

Speculation your honour

RichardG 17-08-2015 01:48 PM

Maybe it was a mistake and she should've removed him straight away, but regardless the baby survived unharmed, social services aren't concerned, and I'm sure she won't do it again. Time to move on, people.

Marsh. 17-08-2015 02:41 PM

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She revealed: ‘A cruel Facebook page demonising me because I have a disabled child was set up in my name and the photo went viral, making me the world’s most hated mum.
Now, now, that's stretching the truth a bit love.

Marsh. 17-08-2015 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by RichardG (Post 8066763)
Maybe it was a mistake and she should've removed him straight away, but regardless the baby survived unharmed, social services aren't concerned, and I'm sure she won't do it again. Time to move on, people.

I don't think we have any reason to believe this woman is a crap mother with the information provided in the article BUT I will say social services failed to spot anything wrong with Baby P's situation before that ended in tragedy.

Niamh. 17-08-2015 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 8066832)
Now, now, that's stretching the truth a bit love.

I would read into that, that if her child didn't have Down's Syndrome, people wouldn't have been as bothered and she's probably correct about that too

Niamh. 17-08-2015 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 8066833)
I don't think we have any reason to believe this woman is a crap mother with the information provided in the article BUT I will say social services failed to spot anything wrong with Baby P's situation before that ended in tragedy.

You're comparing those two cases? Really?

Marsh. 17-08-2015 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8066837)
You're comparing those two cases? Really?

:laugh: No. Hence why I said we have no reason to believe there's anything wrong with this lady as a mother.

I was just pointing out that "social services see nothing wrong" isn't a 100% ironclad proof of anything unfortunately.

LukeB 17-08-2015 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8066835)
I would read into that, that if her child didn't have Down's Syndrome, people wouldn't have been as bothered and she's probably correct about that too

I know I would still be bothered if the baby didn't have Down Syndrome as I treat everyone the same

LukeB 17-08-2015 02:47 PM

I still find it hard to understand why she even put the picture on facebook. She probs thought people would find it hilarious because why else would she post that? She should have known she would get so much slack for it.

Marsh. 17-08-2015 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 8066835)
I would read into that, that if her child didn't have Down's Syndrome, people wouldn't have been as bothered and she's probably correct about that too

Probably true tbh.

But I would say there'd be some form of backlash if the boy hadn't been disabled, the child in the washing machine has been a news item for a long time from what I remember. :laugh: Like, personally, looking at that photo I wouldn't immediately know he was down syndrome.


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