The sex on fire reference would have been used for a vagina person as well don't worry

I was referring to everyone making a joke of the situation, no one specifically

I am all for jokes, hell I'm sure most on here know I think there should be no boundaries when it comes to comedy, but it has to be consistent. There may be some who'd make a joke no matter who the person (myself included), I'm not trying to determine who would and who wouldn't, just pointing out that for the most part there would not be as many people making light of this had the victim been female.

yeah i get what you mean... but i felt like you were suggesting that it was me who wouldn't joke so i had to say something

i blame Liam tbh

You weren't the first to make a joke in the thread and I'd have quoted you if so, it was more of a general thing. I just think it's interesting how attitudes to making jokes about serious issues fluctuate depending on the subject matter and the subjects themselves :think:

Like I said, I'm all for comedy, but it has be fair, equal and consistent. Some things or people seem to be off limits at times and I don't agree with that

Fair enough :p

I totally and completely agree. So many people these days pick and choose what is offensive and what isn't. It's wrong. Either have a sense of humour or don't.

Offence is taken, not given as the saying goes :laugh:

As long as a comment is clearly a joke I don't think there's any boundaries when it comes to comedy. It should just be balanced, that's all

Exactly. I agree. I just hate when people pick and chose things, depending on what a person is. it's not right. It does more damage for equality than good.

that's sick

scar tissue is really horrible on the penis, because unlike the rest of the body, that skin really needs to stretch, and scar tissue is not very elastic, so it can cause real pain and problems for a man on that area.

That being said, don't cheat on women, and if you are dgoing to cheat, don't sleep naked. wear pajamas!

so you condone burning a mans cock?

no, i never condoned burning men's dicks. can you read?

I condoned wearing pajamas.

you seemed to imply if you cheat you deserve it

I don't know if he deserved it or not, but if you betray your partner, you probably should take some precautions.

I guess this is similar to the loreanna/john bobbit case. I think it's okay to have sympathy for both parties.

how could you deserve having your penis burnt just for cheating?

well emotional abuse is very destructive, betraying the people who trust you is very hurtful. I can understand why someone who really trusted and loved someone would feel the need to lash out and hurt that person in return. Im not saying it's okay to hurt someone physically, but it's also not okay to hurt someone emotionally.

In the Bobbit case, he was sexually abusive and she cut his dick off. Is it okay to cut a guy's dick off? no. but can i sympathize with why she did it? yes.

so you condone cheating?

She could've broken up with him or ****ed one of his mates.She is a fecking psycho to do that shet.

:laugh:

Her defence should have been that she was trying to straighten his curly little pubic hairs and slipped.....

She could have pleaded that it was.....just......

A slip of the tongues. :blush:

This... having said that she could have found out she had an STD? In which case it's totally justified.

Yeah, this would be one of the things I'd be thinking of if I found out my partner had cheated on me. Of course the emotional betrayal would be awful but there's also physical implications. You'd have no idea about the person they cheated on you withs sexual history so you'd have to go and have yourself checked out etc
*also not condoning what this girl did*

Has Josy asked yet what the brand of straightener was?

Phew - So glad you added that last bit Niamh. :laugh:

no :laugh: the first bit of my post was just responding to what Kizzy was saying about cheating in general, not really with this case in mind