I don't think it is tbh especially if the friend has feelings for that person.. it may ruin the friendship

I can't believe people are saying this is wrong. A crush doesn't mean anything. If two single people want to start something then I don't see why they should hesitate.

idk maybe it's just not that simple for some people

But if you get to sex night one day and his dick is small and he sucks in bed would the loss of a friendship have been worth it? Figure out what's more important your friendship or the crush. If you can live with complications in your friendship then go for it.

It's like a test of friendship. If your friend can go after something you're interested in like that next time what will it be? Your dream job? Your husband? Patterns begin small.

It's definitely a no-no for me.

Agreed. This happened between me and my friend, I was friends with a guy that I began to have feelings for (my friend knew this) but when she met him she started to like him too and he told me that he loved her (it was hard to hear that!!) I was really upset but my friend refused to let anything happen between them, despite really liking him, she stopped talking to him because she didn't want to hurt me. That = true friendship

Never say never, no one really knows what they would do unless they are in the situation, there are different levels of friendship and attraction, what if the person turned out to be the love of your life? Would you walk away for friendship?

Well this is a bad analogy because not everyone is dependant on sex. :worry:

Didn't say I was, but I've kinda had it done to me and it sucks so I wouldn't put anybody else through it

I believe that the best thing in this scenario is to both fight for the person that you both like and hope that they pick you.

I would not fallout with a friend over a guy/girl that's not even my boy/girlfriend.