Originally Posted by Firewire (Post 8633928)

Iconic sig Daniel

Originally Posted by Ross. (Post 8633930)

Daniel is Brittnee and Marc is Peter?

Originally Posted by Firewire (Post 8633936)

Marc isn't that bad

Originally Posted by Firewire (Post 8633941)

Marc would never intend to hurt your feelings

Originally Posted by Daniel-X (Post 8633909)

'so precious' :umm2:

Her moral compass is pretty skewed if she thinks her behaviour is appropriate if that's her reasoning.



Create a drama? She has created one through not inviting me because it's just made it seem really weird.

She should include me though that's my point, it's not everything she does I wouldn't mind if just a few where there it's the fact she's pretty much isolated me out.

Originally Posted by Daniel-X (Post 8634049)

UPDATE: I asked her over snapchat about it and she just saved the messages and ignored me

Originally Posted by Daniel-X (Post 8633851)

Right, it's all a bit long winded but I'll just explain as short as I can what's happened. My friend had a birthday party at the end of March and I was invited and stuff and I put her a happy birthday message in FaceBook, my profile picture is of her and me and we're actually really close. Anyway, without me knowing I sit in a room with all my friends at dinner and she purposley took them to one side yesterday when I went out the room and told them to come round to hers tonight for a party, I found out yesterday afternoon off one of my other friends and just thought like 'oh she'll probably ask me later'. She put a story on snapchat of loads of ale and was like 'Can't wait for tonight' and when I tried asking her what was going on knowing full well what was she just kept avoiding my question and asking me other things. Anyway, I thought tonight I'd put a story on saying 'someone give me plans' shes seen it and ignored it, when I've looked at her story she's invited people she didn't even invite to her proper birthday party yet not invited me.

I've come to the conclusion she's not invited me because a few lads from another school are there and they've expressed previously they dislike me. Despite not knowing me.

However, this girl is invited to my birthday party and is behaving perfectly fine and nice to me still despite being so sneaky and sly to me. Shall I just removed her from my birthday? Or is that childish?

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 8634010)

Have you always done everything together or is she a newish friend?

Originally Posted by Daniel-X (Post 8634049)

UPDATE: I asked her over snapchat about it and she just saved the messages and ignored me

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 8634208)

You don't answer my question?




I don't think there is any more to be said then, if she doesn't want to explain it's clear she is not a friend, though I would say you have made it easy for her to wriggle out of it by confronting her over social media rather than addressing it face to face.

Originally Posted by Daniel-X (Post 8634209)

We've been friends for like eighteen months. Good friends for about six.

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 8634214)

Oh okay well not too long then, she sounds like the worst kind of friend tbh, one that freezes you out when she wants to impress someone else. Sorry Daniel It's horrible but if you remain in touch with her it looks like it will be on her terms, we all meet people like that, users who are not real friends, who pick you up and drop you when it suits, you are better off distancing yourself, you don't have to cut all ties just don't be there for her all the time she will soon get the message that you won't be used by her.

Originally Posted by rubymoo (Post 8634292)

I think it's time to move on Daniel, as hard as it is at the moment and i'm sure you feel pretty ****ty about it, life is just too short to let people like her treat you like that. As Cherie said, distance yourself and don't be there for her all the time. Find other friends to hang out with and make your own plans, i would still invite her to your party but i'd hang with other people, be a social butterfly and have fun, then after your party keep yourself busy with other friends.

It's a pretty ****ty learning curve but there are people out there like her, you just need to find others that treat you with the respect you deserve.