DemolitionRed |
03-05-2016 10:31 AM |
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Originally Posted by Cherie
(Post 8635730)
Whilst I understand all you are saying, I also understand why the parents made that choice, their main worry will be what will happen to her when they die, if she is unable to make a choice then they have to make this difficult choice for her, it's easy to stand on the outside and make choices, it's quite different to be emotionally involved especially when it is your child
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I think the one thing any parent with a severely disabled child has to face up to is, what's going to happen to them when I'm no longer here?. In my cousins case, she doesn't live with them but is housed in a Mencap bungalow and cared for by support workers including her own key worker who is clearly very close to her.
I appreciate everyone isn't as lucky as her. There are still institution type environments for people with her sort of condition and that's the last place a caring parent would want their child to end up.
It has to be a decision reached on a case by case basis but always in the interest of the patient.
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