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kirklancaster 30-08-2016 09:41 PM

The fact that she purports to be a 'Devout Christian' is no more relevant here than it would have been had she been a 'devout Muslim' or an 'Atheist'.

Would an headline have been worded:


'Atheist teacher shags schoolboy pupil'? I think not.

user104658 30-08-2016 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by kirklancaster (Post 8954823)
The fact that she purports to be a 'Devout Christian' is no more relevant here than it would have been had she been a 'devout Muslim' or an 'Atheist'.

Would an headline have been worded:


'Atheist teacher shags schoolboy pupil'? I think not.

Weeeeeeeell that's not exactly true, us atheists are already known to be deviants and scoundrels, we're not pretending to be anything else.

Kizzy 31-08-2016 06:16 AM

Deadly sin lust....Miss 'Christian' :idc:

Maru 31-08-2016 06:46 AM

Never appropriate for teachers in my opinion. Even if it's morally acceptable, it's not ethical. She put herself in a compromising situation though without hard details it's difficult to judge. Maybe there was other company that made it OK for her to drink so much around the kids. I mean she did admit to four glasses.

It sounds like she had a lot to lose (status-wise) so I have to wonder why in the world anyone would put themselves in that situation with such a reputation to protect. They're a lot harder on females here I noticed on the local news. We've had several in the past year and a few trials going. So yeah, that can't be fun dealing with the media. Men it's just an accepted fact they wants to bag themselves some young females... here's a mug shot... never covered again...

I had a friend who I was best friends with in middle school who slept with a teacher from her high school (I think just after graduation) and he was from Russia which I think he said made it more acceptable. He would hit on her while she was in school and it was very mutual. She would very likely proudly admit she is possibly a clinical nymphomaniac... I'm surprised she didn't get into more trouble than she did because she definitely liked older men and they were the primary target for her affection. Not really sure if there was a history that caused her to be like that, but 50% of her conversations are about penis so... that was over 15 years ago and she hasn't changed, but in her case I would've never doubted that it was consensual... though she would brag her dad would be arrested for murdering the men if he ever found out they did anything untoward with her. They were a devout Catholic family as well. If only he knew.

user104658 31-08-2016 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Maru (Post 8955159)
50% of her conversations are about penis

:joker: who knew there was so much to say?

Ammi 31-08-2016 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Maru (Post 8955159)
Never appropriate for teachers in my opinion. Even if it's morally acceptable, it's not ethical. She put herself in a compromising situation though without hard details it's difficult to judge. Maybe there was other company that made it OK for her to drink so much around the kids. I mean she did admit to four glasses.

It sounds like she had a lot to lose (status-wise) so I have to wonder why in the world anyone would put themselves in that situation with such a reputation to protect. They're a lot harder on females here I noticed on the local news. We've had several in the past year and a few trials going. So yeah, that can't be fun dealing with the media. Men it's just an accepted fact they wants to bag themselves some young females... here's a mug shot... never covered again...

I had a friend who I was best friends with in middle school who slept with a teacher from her high school (I think just after graduation) and he was from Russia which I think he said made it more acceptable. He would hit on her while she was in school and it was very mutual. She would very likely proudly admit she is possibly a clinical nymphomaniac... I'm surprised she didn't get into more trouble than she did because she definitely liked older men and they were the primary target for her affection. Not really sure if there was a history that caused her to be like that, but 50% of her conversations are about penis so... that was over 15 years ago and she hasn't changed, but in her case I would've never doubted that it was consensual... though she would brag her dad would be arrested for murdering the men if he ever found out they did anything untoward with her. They were a devout Catholic family as well. If only he knew.


..I recall back in the day at school, a 16yr old student became pregnant and the father was one of the teachers...a 27/28yr old if I recall correctly...he carried on teaching and teaching at the school...but it was actually quite hard to feel the same sense of 'safety' there..from a pupil's perspective..?...and I know that many/most young people felt the same as well because obviously, it was all the subject of huge discussions etc...I can't imagine in that scenario now, it ever being that he would have still carried on teaching at the school.../that's why policies are in place now, which wouldn't have been then..and indeed in the workplace as well....some very dodgy bosses and superiors and huge abuses of positions....

Maru 31-08-2016 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 8955162)
:joker: who knew there was so much to say?

Yeah and she holds onto conversations longer than I do. That's saying a lot :laugh:

Maru 31-08-2016 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 8955170)
..I recall back in the day at school, a 16yr old student became pregnant and the father was one of the teachers...a 27/28yr old if I recall correctly...he carried on teaching and teaching at the school...but it was actually quite hard to feel the same sense of 'safety' there..from a pupil's perspective..?...and I know that many/most young people felt the same as well because obviously, it was all the subject of huge discussions etc...I can't imagine in that scenario now, it ever being that he would have still carried on teaching at the school.../that's why policies are in place now, which wouldn't have been the..and indeed in the workplace as well....some very dodgy bosses and superiors and huge abuses of positions....

It was in the same when I was in school. At least among the girls, we were frigid towards any authority figures we thought might be big time perverts... it's something we would warn each other about, if we felt something was off. Some are genuinely predators that pick and choose based on who they can manipulate. There was a local police officer (legit police, on campus) in my HS who would let cheerleaders hang out with him in the office and skip class... after he was arrested, they said some things that sounded like he was trying to buy them off. Gifts and other weird things like that. They caught him for child pornography on a PC in his office... same girls posted on FB about how weird he was, didn't see it coming, etc...though I thought that was dumb because it was fairly obvious how inappropriate it was and that he was more than willing to cross certain lines (especially with where his eye contact went). My school had 3,000 students and I have no idea how but it went on for years unnoticed but from what I heard, reported.

I think at least in our culture, it creates too many complications for student's lives who are still not even finished with high school. Like an 18 year old dating a student may technically be legal, but it's not appropriate. There's just too many insecurities and distractions going on with school... it wouldn't be a healthy and unequal relationship anyway. College is more of a grey area. If you're not taking a course by the professor, then I guess it is OK... I would think it's more consensual at that point, especially if they are close in age. Though I think most places don't allow it in their books... a lot of workplaces have rules like that, but they're not always strictly enforced...

Ammi 31-08-2016 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Maru (Post 8955179)
It was in the same when I was in school. At least among the girls, we were frigid towards any authority figures we thought might be big time perverts... it's something we would warn each other about, if we felt something was off. Some are genuinely predators that pick and choose based on who they can manipulate. There was a local police officer (legit police, on campus) in my HS who would let cheerleaders hang out with him in the office and skip class... after he was arrested, they said some things that sounded like he was trying to buy them off. Gifts and other weird things like that. They caught him for child pornography on a PC in his office... same girls posted on FB about how weird he was, didn't see it coming, etc...though I thought that was dumb because it was fairly obvious how inappropriate it was and that he was more than willing to cross certain lines (especially with where his eye contact went). My school had 3,000 students and I have no idea how but it went on for years unnoticed but from what I heard, reported.

I think at least in our culture, it creates too many complications for student's lives who are still not even finished with high school. Like an 18 year old dating a student may technically be legal, but it's not appropriate. There's just too many insecurities and distractions going on with school... it wouldn't be a healthy and unequal relationship anyway. College is more of a grey area. If you're not taking a course by the professor, then I guess it is OK... I would think it's more consensual at that point, especially if they are close in age. Though I think most places don't allow it in their books... a lot of workplaces have rules like that, but they're not always strictly enforced...


..yeah, there just wasn't really the safe-guarding procedures back in the day other than 'don't talk to/take anything from strangers, which our parents would tell us as well and you can't really safe-guard and teach about stranger danger etc and predators, if you could be perceived as one yourself or if your own actions are questionable in ethics etc...it's all about trust with parents and other students as well../they must feel secure in their environment is always the first thing and most important thing before education can even be possible...students must have an equal opportunity to take part in everything and a student who would be reluctant to go away on a residential visit/or prom thing because their feeling of safety with a teacher has been broken, takes away an opportunity to participate for them as well.../just so many reasons, really...


..and with college..?...yeah, I also know of someone who had a relationship with a lecturer at uni...(I'm not actually sure what the age difference..)...but I know that he wasn't her lecturer in any of her studies and they're actually still together now so far as I'm aware.../it must be around 7/8-ish years, I would think....

arista 31-08-2016 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Who Is She? (Post 8954773)
Her drink was spiked and she was unconscious was what I read?


No she was fully awake
Giving Sex to that School
Kid

user104658 31-08-2016 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by arista (Post 8955236)
No she was fully awake
Giving Sex to that School
Kid

As much as I adore your syntax Arista... on this occasion I just can't figure out why "Kid" gets its' own whole line. :joker:

bots 31-08-2016 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 8955240)
As much as I adore your syntax Arista... on this occasion I just can't figure out why "Kid" gets its' own whole line. :joker:

Arista has a non hd screen with a max width of 26 characters ... whats not to understand :fist:

user104658 31-08-2016 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 8955243)
Arista has a non hd screen

:omgno: How dare you

Crimson Dynamo 31-08-2016 09:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier (Post 8955240)
As much as I adore your syntax Arista... on this occasion I just can't figure out why "Kid" gets its' own whole line. :joker:

Arista posts with iphone
5 viewers in
mind

Maru 31-08-2016 05:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 8955243)
Arista has a non hd screen with a max width of 26 characters ... whats not to understand :fist:

Arista's phone is a Nokia

http://drop.ndtv.com/TECH/product_da...okia_c2_01.png

I just thought Arista was a really big fan of haikus.

http://www.tshirtvortex.net/wp-conte...Are-Easy-2.jpg

empire 01-09-2016 12:27 AM

why do women in their 20s,30s, and early 40s, still have pictures of justin bieber when he was barely 15, the same with twilight moms, why do women at those age groups find it hard to have a relationship with a fully grown man of there own age, the problem is are society won't shame or punish them for acting like perverts, because they are women, there gender makes them untouchable to the law, and that encourages there sexual sick fantasy, there are even cases of very attractive women who could of had any man they wanted, but they went for boys, the youngest was seven years old, and the older case, the boy was only 12 years old, there was a case, a few years ago,of a 23 year old woman who would of got men dropping to there knees, but she knew this boy who was ten years old at the time, and she went into his bedroom one night when he was sleeping, and she tried to molest him,lucky his mum was in the house, she jumped out of the window but the police caught her in the end, the reason why women go for boys if they are seven or seventeen is because they can manipulate or can control them, they can't do that with adult men, its a bit disturbing that a woman would find a teen boy with a child like body and face sexually attractive, ew.

arista 01-09-2016 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 8955243)
Arista has a non hd screen with a max width of 26 characters ... whats not to understand :fist:


Utter Bollocks
I have a 1080P LG screen

Vicky. 01-09-2016 05:25 PM

I know of not one 20/30/40 year old who ever had a photo of JB at 15 on their walls..infact noone that age I have ever came across had pictures of any celeb on their walls :laugh:

The rest of the post I agree with though. Its just vile really.

Mystic Mock 01-09-2016 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by arista (Post 8954469)
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2016/...2499252298.jpg


[French teacher ‘pictured in Travelodge hotel
bed after having sex with a pupil on
prom night' is BANNED from the classroom
Devout Christian Isabelle Graham,28,
struck off for 'relations' with a pupil
Married teacher was seen
with a 17-year-old at Travelodge room
at prom
She claimed drink was spiked and
she had 'no memory' of what happened

General Teaching Council for Scotland
has now banned her from teaching]


As If


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...#ixzz4IprX6CMT

Did she get arrested out of interest? I'm saying this as I know that The Police normally go very strict on this sort of thing.


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