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Amy's right on this one. The only person that's responsible for a relationship is the people who are in it, if you're single it's not your problem.
Does it make you a bit of a dick? Probably, but it's still the fault of the person in the relationship for jeopardising it :shrug: I hate nothing more than when it transpires someone cheats and the single party gets blamed (usually the woman) and screamed at while often the cheater gets away with it, it's sexist nonsense that shouldn't be encouraged To answer the question...a married person? I really don't think so. In fact, 'dating' is probably a bit too strong regardless. I don't think I could personally ~date~ someone who was in a relationship, it just seems a bit pointless, you aren't exactly the priority and it's a little too much. But if I were drunk and the opportunity of a one off thing presented itself? Eh, I don't know...maybe. It's one of those things I don't think I'd truly know until I was in the situation - a penis/head dilemma |
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If you know the man/woman is married then have some basic moral values and stay the **** away.
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Probably not especially if they have kids that's more awful but if I have feelings for them then I don't know.
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If he cheats for you he'll cheat on you.
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Both parties are not on the same level of blame in the slightest. One is in a relationship, the other is not. The only people responsible for maintaining a relationship are the people in it, it's their relationship and nobody else's. If you cheat, that's your fault and your problem. If you're the third party then yeah sure it's a bit twatty to go along with it, but it's not your relationship and strictly speaking as a single person you're entitled to do what you like. All of the blame (or at least the majority of it) lies with the person in the relationship, it's not 50/50 by any stretch of the imagination. |
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I'm no one's bit on the side.
If they are separated then maybe if they are in the right headspace about it all but I refuse to be anyone's rebound. |
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And I'd just find it really spineless if someone would willingly go with someone they know is cheating and then turn around and say "Not my fault, not my problem". I wouldn't blame them any more than my partner (I agree that's nonsense) but I certainly wouldn't blame them any less either. Both people involved would have shown themselves have a pretty ****ed up moral compass as far as I'm concerned. Unless the other person genuinely didn't know, they absolutely deserve to be judged for their part and I'll always stand by that. |
Relationships are complicated enough without adding in any extra excitement.
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Jack is pretty much saying what I think.
Would I feel bad for the guys wife? yeah probably but I still wouldnt blame myself. His relationship to maintain not mine. |
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Ultimately we're never going to agree on this though and it's probably for the best that we don't have an argument about it |
I wouldn't personally but I agree with the pov that the majority of blame should go to the person who's married. It think regardless of morality, because even if both were equally wrong morally (which personally I don't think they would be, but lets just say for arguments sake they are) there's still the issue of commitment... the single person isn't breaking a commitment they've made, the married person is. And yes they're both willfully hurting someone, but it's the married person who is supposed to care about them and have a responsibility towards them.
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It's a no from me
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i don't think "who gets blamed" is the issue on this one
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You can't cheat all by yourself. There has to be someone else on the other end and that's why I think that other person deserves to be held accountable just as much (providing they knew, of course). |
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If him and his wife had kids together... definitely not. But if I happened to fall for a married man, I'd probably go there yeah but i'd feel terrible and make him tell his wife and break it off - if he refused to leave her, i'd leave him.
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