and ask yourself why red lipstick is so popular.....


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yes of course but you could argue the same about dying your hair any other colour, or wearing make up or whatever, its about feeling good about yourself, if I go to a meeting I always wear make up even if it is all women in attendence as it makes me feel more control and that works for both men and women, maybe I am a lesbian and I didn't know it..:fist:

serious question would you be annoyed if TL went brunette? in other words are you really that shallow :hee:

"feeling good about yourself"

is just a sterile way of saying exactly what i said


you feel good by feeling important and being attractive to the opposite sex because its a huge innate evolutionary desire that drives you.


although blonde does cover up grey hairs so their is that going on for women in their 40s

She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair


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Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT :hehe:

so by that reasoning I also want to be attractive to women :laugh: which I don't :idc:

I don't believe you :nono:

:hehe:

I have not specified a preference in this thread :hee:

no, you want to be MORE attractive than other women

again its an innate desire established through many hundreds of thousands of years

(you see this in BB all the time)

Doesn't matter, she will think all men prefer blondes because of nature and animal instincts etc

We were discussing this last night as we watched that Sex Doll docu (which was :umm2: odd)

The blonde hair thing dates back to Viking times as they brought blonde women and us lot were dark haired or red haired and so they became unusual and sought after

That only makes sense if you live in a country where Vikings invaded though

Brunettes >>>>>

Blondes can be really hot too but usually I find more brunettes good looking. And redheads for some spice!

yes a lot of europe but then we brits exported this to the USA and Oceania

Its not a thing in Africa or South America i dont think, or India or china/Japan

Yeah women do up their hair and get nice make up not because they want to look nice and feel good about themselves, but because they want to appease the patriarchy

Probably because those ethnicities wouldn't really have natural blondes

I don't fully understand patriarcy arguments if I am honest

But I do think a lot of things women do its because they are kind of pressured to do so by society. Stuff like shaving legs for example, of course some women may want to do it, some may do it to look more attractive, but some feel pressure to do it, because of the reaction they would get if they did not. If that makes sense.

Look at the reaction in the Lourdes pit hair thread tbh, for examples of this :laugh:

Blonde women change their hair colour too you know :idc:

For me it's because I prefer blonde (in general and it suits me more imo). I certainly don't do it for the benefit of anyone else :hee:

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Its innate so you probably don't even realise

The pressure from ‘society’, imo, is from both genders funnily enough lol some women get catty about this kinda **** and honestly Ik a lot of men who prefer women without make up, plastic hair and body features ect

But I don’t think there’s that much wrong with a little bit of work or bothering with your appearance. A lot of women enjoy getting dressed up and doing their hair and make up. People dye their hair certain colours and do different things to their body to make a statement and feel good about themselves. Of course this might imply a bigger problem with society. Maybe we are too dependant on looks. But this is a widespread problem with the modern day and social media that involves far, far more than wanting to impress those darn men that are holding women down,,l

I have had my hair all colours,it's blonde at the moment, but I do love it dark aswell,I just do whatever the mood takes me , seriously thinking of that gorgeous red colour that's about now,but not sure it would suit me,so not been that brave yet.As for men preferring blondes I think some might go along with that thought of blondes have more fun,but a lot of men I know prefer brunettes, but it could just be down to how blondes are perceived.

I prefer dark haired guys oop