Dash Darington |
02-08-2018 12:01 AM |
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Originally Posted by Marsh.
(Post 10120976)
I don't think anybody's defending the girl for being a gobby cow.
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People are defending her actions by claiming that she was acting as a defender of the other women present.
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But you're defending the guy for his actions, which are indefensible.
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Nope. I do sympathize with the no-win situation that the man is in when a woman gets physically aggressive, because he either has to allow himself to be abused or respond physically and have the aggressor treated as a victim simply because she's a woman. I haven't defended his actions. I simply have no sympathy for someone who picks a fight with someone bigger because she knows if he does anything she'll be treated as a victim and her target will be vilified.
It's interesting to note that she probably wouldn't have behaved like this in the first place if not for the expectation that any physical response by him would be met by sympathy for her (the aggressor), and condemnation for him. That sort of response actually encourages this type of behaviour.
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