Originally Posted by Garfie (Post 10293120)

It's so nice that you've started a positive thread about Hussain. I grew to love him after quite a short time, as it soon became evident that underneath all the bravado and attitude there was actually a pretty caring and sensitive guy, and he was just someone who wanted to play the game and have a bit of fun.

Although I know some people feel his behaviour towards Isabella is because he's attracted to her, and is jealous of her attraction to Lewis, I personally think it is about attachment rather than attraction. Hussain and Isabella have clearly formed a strong bond- this has been shown in the private conversations between them, in the way that Isabella defended him in the diary room after the first time he shouted at her, in her distress at them falling out and in the guilt and regret he expressed.

I think Hussain has felt a sense of security and support from his relationship with Isabella, and his behaviour towards her - extreme as it was- came from a fear of losing that security and being left without the person he felt understands him the most and with whom he can truly be himself. Although he has built friendships with others, and particularly with Tomasz, as a latecomer I think he is uncertain about trusting those friendships fully. With Isabella I think he felt complete trust.
He seems to be genuinely hurting and feeling rejected, and this has emerged as anger.

It says a lot about Hussain-and Isabella too- that he was able to discuss his feelings with her, admit his faults and apologise to her for them. And it says a lot about their relationship that they were able to address the problems, repair their relationship and move on. I believe there is a lot more depth and feeling to this guy than some people seem to think.

I'm loving your last sentiment, about both he and Tomasz being saved on Friday, and heading off to the final together. :thumbs:

Originally Posted by Garfie (Post 10293120)

It's so nice that you've started a positive thread about Hussain. I grew to love him after quite a short time, as it soon became evident that underneath all the bravado and attitude there was actually a pretty caring and sensitive guy, and he was just someone who wanted to play the game and have a bit of fun.

Although I know some people feel his behaviour towards Isabella is because he's attracted to her, and is jealous of her attraction to Lewis, I personally think it is about attachment rather than attraction. Hussain and Isabella have clearly formed a strong bond- this has been shown in the private conversations between them, in the way that Isabella defended him in the diary room after the first time he shouted at her, in her distress at them falling out and in the guilt and regret he expressed.

I think Hussain has felt a sense of security and support from his relationship with Isabella, and his behaviour towards her - extreme as it was- came from a fear of losing that security and being left without the person he felt understands him the most and with whom he can truly be himself. Although he has built friendships with others, and particularly with Tomasz, as a latecomer I think he is uncertain about trusting those friendships fully. With Isabella I think he felt complete trust.
He seems to be genuinely hurting and feeling rejected, and this has emerged as anger.

It says a lot about Hussain-and Isabella too- that he was able to discuss his feelings with her, admit his faults and apologise to her for them. And it says a lot about their relationship that they were able to address the problems, repair their relationship and move on. I believe there is a lot more depth and feeling to this guy than some people seem to think.

I'm loving your last sentiment, about both he and Tomasz being saved on Friday, and heading off to the final together. :thumbs:

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10293177)

He did lash out, but in his defence he was only messing around about dropping the ball, and he was hungry, and he did make up with Isabella afterwards, I wonder if Lewis will apologise to Sian for calling her a **** when he 'finds out' she didn't put him up

Originally Posted by bitontheslide (Post 10293243)

i dont think Lewis has apologised for accusing hussain of stealing the sausages to this day

Originally Posted by Adam. (Post 10293017)

So your answer is be fake??

Originally Posted by Cherie (Post 10293177)

He did lash out, but in his defence he was only messing around about dropping the ball, and he was hungry, and he did make up with Isabella afterwards, I wonder if Lewis will apologise to Sian for calling her a **** when he 'finds out' she didn't put him up

Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10293257)

The difference being he termed it about her not to her only while talking to a close friend alone.
They've had no argument face to face.

Hussain on the other was yelling directly at Isabella huniliating her publicky in front of the others there with her too.

A big difference.

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 10293023)

FGS...Hussein went in there on a mission to get Lewis out. He went in with cocky arrogant attitude like Lewis G and that immediately got their backs up. He made his own bed...Lewis didn't turn them against him although you would love to think that.
Hussein was the new housemate..walking into the house announcing you are the King of it is hardly a way of endearing yourself to the others. Bad gameplay...that's why he is up...nothing to do with Lewis. They all had their reasons and he got what he deserved. Now he's in trouble.

Originally Posted by rusticgal (Post 10293023)

FGS...Hussein went in there on a mission to get Lewis out. He went in with cocky arrogant attitude like Lewis G and that immediately got their backs up. He made his own bed...Lewis didn't turn them against him although you would love to think that.
Hussein was the new housemate..walking into the house announcing you are the King of it is hardly a way of endearing yourself to the others. Bad gameplay...that's why he is up...nothing to do with Lewis. They all had their reasons and he got what he deserved. Now he's in trouble.

Originally Posted by Nancy. (Post 10292702)

Isn't it a double eviction?